What r some questions you would ask a potential spouse when ur still in the talking stage? Girl I need help
the goal is to ask him the things you want to know about him but also to be very attentive to his habits and behaviour because everyone can sound angelic when they talk about themselves. so yes ask but pay attention to everything about them.
does he have kids? does he do any drugs? who are the most important people in his life? does he take his health seriously? does he respect others and treat them equally? is he reliable? what was his childhood like? any unresolved traumas? what’s he like when he’s sad or angry?Is he a good listener? is he a good communicator? is he financially responsible? what kinda people does he follow on social media? does he take care of himself/have good personal hygiene? can he cook or does he need u to be his slave? what are his dreams and goals? what does he bring to the table? are you and him compatible? what do you need to give up to be in this relationship and are they worth the sacrifice? is he controlling? whats his family like (& will they have issues with ur race/tribe etc)? does he count every penny he spends on you? do u wanna raise kids with this person & does he have the values u want ur kids to learn?can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him?
Before you get physical with him yall better get STD tests done even if he swears to God he’s a virgin or he’s clean, because I’ve heard horror stories. Better safe than sorry.
As you can see i be interrogating the hell outta these men lol you’re supposed to ask them anything and everything you wanna know because personally i hate surprises and i dont wanna find out something after I’ve already committed and invested in them.
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