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thinksurfmediallp · 2 years
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Best Family Therapist In Beverly Hills
Matt Porter, MFT is appropriate for you to heal. We are providing all the needed services for you. We also give the assurity that you will find the change. Families are precious and so are their mental health. Matt Porter is helping you with all the health issues you are facing.
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boricuacherry-blog · 2 years
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After James Franco published his fictional account entitled "Bungalow 89" where he claims he didn't sleep with Lindsay Lohan, just read her a bedtime story about bananafish, Lindsay countered with a short story of her own:
James Franco says we did not have sex, and one of the things I learned growing up in a family of chaos was to respect other people's truths, even if that truth is something they made up driving home wasted in an Escalade that I frickin bought. Anyway, since he has shared his version of events, I think it's only fair I shared mine.
It was a few years ago. I don't remember if I was sober or not. I think I probably was. I actually never even really drank that much, and as I told Oprah, I only did coke 10-15 times, so statistically, the chances are good I was not wasted when this happened.
I was wandering around the Chateau Marmont, which is a hotel. I will say that I do like the Chateau because there are lots of beautiful flowers tended by people who care as deeply about tending flowers as I do about my passion, starring in films.
I had just taken a swim in the pool where, per the advice of several therapists, I had taken some time to imagine that I was one of any number of various sea creatures.
Afterwards I had taken a leisurely shower and then put a deep conditioning pack on my hair. So I was just walking around inhaling the scent of night blooming jasmine and my deep conditioning pack when one of the bungalow doors opened.
This guy stuck his head out. I didn't know who it was. In fact at first I thought it was this guy who worked at the Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf on Beverly Hills and I was like, what is he doing here? "Hey," he said.
As I got closer I saw that it was that actor who always wants people to think that he's smart but I still couldn't remember his name.
"Oh hey," I said.
"What are you doing?" he said.
"I'm deep conditioning my hair," I said.
"Why?" he said. He said it in this really challenging way, like deep conditioning your hair was against the law.
"Uh, because it has a lot of split ends from being so color treated and all the extensions that I have used over the last few years, being an actress who cares about my craft, the way that Chateau Marmont flower-tenders care about flowers."
He shook his head. He was kind of good looking I guess but there was something about his face. He looked so serious, like he had just finished reading 1000 books and had to read 1000 more or he was never going to get to watch TV again.
He said, "Have you ever thought about all the time you spend deep conditioning your hair? Have you ever thought about the expectations that society places on you as a celebrity and how you exploit yourself by responding to them?"
I said, "Duh, that's all I think about. But deep conditioning my hair is one of the ways I find my center."
"That's beautiful," he said. He actually got a tear in his eye. Then he said, "I'm sorry, it's just that the intersection of the banal commercial world with narratives about inner peace triggers a conditioned, sentimental response in me that produces something like actual feelings."
It was all clear now. "You're James Franco," I said.
He asked me to come in and I did. I sat in a chair.
"Can I read you a story?"
He said it was called A Perfect Day for Bananafish. I don't remember very much about it, except at one point, he stopped reading and started to explain to me that it should really be called something else gross and dumb because of something about the fish being phallic which personally I feel like he made up. I can't really remember. I was so tired, but somewhere, a little voice piped up and let me know there was actually a really brilliant way to get through the next hour of my life without having to walk all the way back to my room, and I was like, "If I have sex with you, will you stop talking?"
I am a lady, so I don't want to tell you what happened next.
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max-yun · 1 year
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-max yun.
age: 34. birthday: December 21st, 1988 pronouns: he/him birthplace: beverly hills, CA. occupation: owner of sweet little things. best traits: supportive, empathetic, contemplative. worst traits: overly careful, awkward, disorganized. sexuality: heterosexual.
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Max was born in California to an upright and good standing family, his father worked within law and his mother was a self-employed beauty therapist. They were closes friends to the Lewis family and when Tiana was born, Max was her automatic best friend as she grew older.
Max's parents always supported him to follow his dreams and he found all of his passion within baking, especially fusing desserts and sweet treats from around the world. After he graduated high school, he went on to culinary school to fine tune his skills.
Despite their lives taking different directions, Tiana and Max remained close friends. It wasn't until she began her relationship with Ecrin Avci that Max realized he had feelings for her that ran deeper than friendship. He has never admitted these to her and instead remained as a supportive best friend, through all the ups and downs she might go through.
Trying to carve out a career in the culinary world was difficult for Max, who had decided his ultimate dream would be to own a bakery. He had to work horrible shifts in kitchens at reputable restaurants before he could ever make this a reality.
When Tiana and Ecrin's relationship ended, Max still didn't have the confidence to tell her how he felt plus she told him how she was continuously searching for any vacancies within Colorado. Finally, when Tiana was offered a role in Lockwood Springs Max was faced with his biggest fear.
Not wanting to be left behind or without his best friend, Max found a small bakery that had gone out of business. His parents loaned him money to finally make his dream come true and he moved with Tiana to Colorado.
Most of his time is spent now at the bakery and it's only been open for one month officially, he's hoping he can make enough money to pay back his parents and not have to call his dream a failure. Plus, he's hoping that he will finally be able to tell Tiana everything that he couldn't.
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apluscarelaus · 3 months
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Get In-home Physical Therapy Homebound Seniors
Sometimes it's hard to manage or take care of our seniors their vulnerability and the potential for injury at home are sources of concern and tension. In-home care services in Los Angeles are the most popular options available to seniors. Getting a customized treatment at your home at your convenience makes more easier to deal with your conditions. 
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In-home health care services Los Angeles assist patients in getting back to their regular activities. If you have any physical problems resulting from an illness or injury that affect your mobility or prevent you from engaging in activities you used to love, then our in-home physical therapy can help.
In-Home Care Physical Therapy 
In-home health care like physical therapy provides convenience to deal with their illness without compromising their comfort environment. A Plus Care LA has expert professionals to improve your health, mobility, or any other health conditions. When we compare other traditional treatments, then in-home physical care includes more advantages like learning our daily tasks with our professionals and walking safely independently. 
Our In-home health care in Beverly Hills also helps with a rehabilitation plan in place when you get home without wasting your time going out for physical treatment and compromising your comfort environment.
How In-Home Health Care Helps
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When family members can't make up with the time management then we are here to help! "A Plus Care LA" provides In-home care services in Los Angeles that give physical therapy sessions to senior citizens at their homes and make all the things that they can't deal with. 
Our professionals deal with consoling homebound patients. Seniors receiving in-home physical therapy will benefit from it especially if they are new to therapy because it gives them more time to concentrate on their care and healing without being distracted.
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Treatment at home always made it simpler than any other form of treatment with a wide range of devices, apparatus, and training gear. While they are useful tools, most patients already have access to comparable supplies at home. This facilitates the patient's ability to maintain strengthening activities outside of physical therapy appointments and well beyond their graduation.
Avoid Mishappning
The patient's home is therefore the ideal place for a thorough assessment of their mobility. While some homes have narrow staircases or even strange furniture, others have tiny, uncomfortable rooms. Therapists are taught to identify potential falls and other hazards in the home. Through the identification and removal of these hazards, they can assist the patient in preventing further harm. 
Conclusion
When our friends or family members have several medical conditions and can't make up daily activity on their own then A Plus Care LA's In-home health care in Beverly Hills will help you with our best physical therapy at home. 
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A guide to know more about outpatient treatment programs in Beverly Hills
Outpatient treatment programs are crucial medical services provided by rehabilitation centers, catering to individuals dealing with diverse medical, mental health, and substance abuse issues. An effective drug rehab program is imperative for those seeking liberation from substance abuse, recognizing the unique challenges each person faces in their journey. Selecting the right outpatient rehab center can be challenging, but Synergy Recovery offers an exceptional solution. Nestled in the picturesque city of Beverly Hills, our facility boasts luxurious amenities, diverse treatment options, and holistic therapies.
At Synergy Recovery, we understand the individualized nature of drug issues, tailoring our programs to meet the specific needs of each patient. Our outpatient services include one weekly session with a master's level primary therapist, psychiatrist consultations, and family sessions with counselors. Emphasizing spiritual healing, we incorporate meditation for creative expression and spiritual connection. To facilitate ease for individuals balancing work commitments, our flexible scheduling allows sessions to be arranged conveniently. Whether you're seeking help for yourself or a loved one struggling with addiction, Synergy Recovery is dedicated to providing support. Visit our website to explore the comprehensive services covered under the outpatient treatment program in Beverly Hills. Reach out to us through mail, chat, or call; our team is available 24/7 to assist parents, sons, spouses, partners, and friends in their journey toward recovery.
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steamishot · 11 months
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on july 10, i had an “interview” with my director about the new position. i was worried and wasn’t sure if i needed to prep as if it were a real interview. however, it was mainly him talking and explaining the scope and need of the job. he mentioned there were 90 applicants and that he’ll need to interview one additional person for formality, but implied that the ball is in my court. 
on july 11, we flew out to LAX. arrowhead regional center provided matt a flight, two nights hotel at the hilton doubletree in san bernandino, and a rental car. we also kept our food expenses separate so that he can comp his. LAX national rental was by far the most seamless car rental experience we’ve ever had. we literally just chose a car ourselves and left (they checked for ID at the exit). had dinner at a korean place in gardena and drove 1.5 hours to the IE. 
i automatically felt more relaxed/less tense being in california. the openness, the larger spaces, the nature, the hot/sunny weather were so nice to take in. everything is much more segregated in LA, so if we walk into a korean restaurant, most of the patrons are asian, and i feel transported to asia. whereas in nyc, the population at ethnic restaurants can be extremely mixed. you’d get all colors of the rainbow. 
on this trip, i learned about why i’ve been feeling that matt and i are on different timelines on moving back to california. i learned that he subconsciously associates california/riverside with failure (failure of not matching into residency for two years, not progressing in his career) and the subsequent pressure from his mom, and he associates nyc with success (he accelerated in his residency program, and landed his first big boy attending job here at a prestigious hospital). from my worry trick book, i learned that if we had bad memories associated with something, our amygdala remembers that. the only way to override associating X with bad memories, is to create new memories with X! basically this ties into the counterintuitive idea, of do more of what may cause fear (within reason). 
on july 13, i had my 3rd therapy session. i was overall pretty content that day and i mostly had good news to share with my therapist. we talked about being in california and getting to visit family, my promotion, me going out of the apartment more in NYC and enjoying it, talks between matt and i about upgrading to a one-bedroom apartment (joel legit laughed for 2 minutes when i said we wanted to upgrade from a 500 sq ft to a 700 sq ft place, as he’s in florida). my session ended 10 min short that day, which was understandable because i didn’t have that much to talk about, but i felt bad that i didn’t “milk” the whole 50 minutes as i’m paying a bit over $50/session. as the subscription is pay by month, my current plan is to see joel weekly until the end of august and then cancel my membership. 
update: the apartment we were looking into possibly upgrading to disappeared. we were almost ready to pay an extra $1,100/mo (impulsively). after more careful thinking, we’re both letting the idea go and will make the most of our covid-rate apartment. the extra funds we’re “saving” means more towards health and wellness, food, and plane tickets of course.
bulletpoints of LA
stereoscope’s matcha is one of the best (though i think they sadly changed their menu on my last day in town)
went to baar baar fancy indian food double date with T & M, then to check out the lotus festival (indonesian themed this year)
got 50% off uber eats groceries from erewhon, so got to try 4 juices. also went to the store in person to check out all the tik tok bashing/hype and got $8 for returning all 4 bottles. it’s like a step above whole foods but overall a pretty normal/good grocery store that social media exaggerated.
took my dad to lawry’s for a belated birthday dinner. it was just our immediate family because my SIL & baby were in SF. my parents were very happy to have eaten at beverly hills, and it was all our first times dining there. the food was ok because it didn’t fit our palates
matt’s interview went fine - i think most importantly, he got to meet other doctors who have been in the field for longer. one of the doctors commutes from santa monica to IE every day on his week on. with more interviews, he’s learning more about what to look for and what he wants
our family friend who is a family doctor in his 50s wanted to meet with both my brother and matt, so we all had coffee in pasadena. this family doctor has opened a clinic in chinatown, and will be opening another in 626 area next month. it seemed he wanted to recruit matt, and possibly work with my brother on a coffee business. i felt we were very green next to him. he’s single and without a family, and it seems his free time is used towards big brain thinking of how to make/invest (even more) money. for example, he’s partnering up with some guys in arizona with the idea of franchising a taco store. the main takeaway i had from this meeting were tricks on lowering taxes for a physician/physician family lol
matt and i attended a hot yoga class in echo park. it was already like 90-95 degrees out at 2pm, and the room was even warmer. LA felt so much more natural and less synthetic, and people can tolerate the heat much better. matt died in this class lol and could not follow the movements after 15 minutes because it was too hot
i took my mom and grandma on quite a few adventures: mission impossible at the americana AMC using tmobile tuesday $5 tickets, in n out, hot pot, grocery shopping, tmobile store to get free tote bags. seems like a small gesture but my mom and grandma really enjoyed the movie going experience, and they said it was their first time sitting on recliner seats
saw stephanie quickly for coffee! seems like my LA friends are all growing up and trying to hustle. 
made an appointment to get a pap smear, finally. and will get an ultrasound for the area where i previously had surgery (as i’ve been having some discomfort) just to have peace of mind.
did a 3 mile evening hike and chinese dinner with matt’s family 
i love how i can line dry my clothes and air dry my hair (very quickly) in sunny LA
my director emailed me on july 17 and asked what i thought about a 15% increase. this will still have to go through comp to get approved. i have never negotiated within my current HR team. with them being so flexible with my remote work/out of state situation, i decided asking for 20% might come off too greedy, so i asked for 18%. it’s only a couple thousand difference, but it all adds up! regardless, i would be content with 15% and appreciative of the opportunity.
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madaviaestheticsmedspa · 11 months
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Indulge in Luxury: Discovering the Best Spa Services Near You
Welcome to our spa services. In our fast-paced, stress-filled lives, it's important to take some time for ourselves and indulge in a little luxury. Whether you're seeking solace from the daily grind or simply looking to pamper yourself, spa services offer a sanctuary where you can unwind, rejuvenate, and emerge feeling like a brand new person. For more info about Beverly Hills med spa visit here.
Picture this: soft music playing in the background as skilled hands work their magic on your tired muscles. The intoxicating scent of essential oils fills the air as warm water cascades over your body during an invigorating hydrotherapy session. All around you are plush robes, fluffy towels, and an ambiance that calms your mind and soothes your soul.
Sounds heavenly, doesn't it? Well my friend, today we will dive into the world of spa services and uncover how to find the best ones near you. So sit back (or lay down), relax, and let's embark on a journey towards total tranquility together!
Relax and Rejuvenate: The Benefits of Spa Services
In today's fast-paced world, finding time to relax and rejuvenate can feel like a luxury. That's where spa services come in. Beyond being just a place for pampering, spas offer an array of benefits that go beyond the surface.
Spa services provide much-needed stress relief. From the moment you step into a spa, you are transported to a serene oasis far away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. The calming atmosphere, soothing music, and expert therapists work together to melt away your stress and worries.
Spa treatments have tremendous physical benefits. Massage therapy can help relieve muscle tension and improve circulation throughout your body. Facials cleanse and nourish your skin while promoting a healthy glow. And let's not forget about the power of hydrotherapy - immersing yourself in warm water can alleviate muscle pain and promote relaxation.
Furthermore, indulging in spa services allows you to take care of yourself holistically - mind, body, and spirit all at once. It offers a rare opportunity to disconnect from technology distractions and focus solely on self-care.
So why wait? Treat yourself to some well-deserved pampering at a local spa service near you! Your body will thank you for it as you emerge feeling refreshed, revitalized,and ready to conquer whatever comes your way with newfound vigor
How to Find the Best Spa Services Near You
If you're in need of some pampering and relaxation, finding the best spa services near you is essential. But with so many options out there, how do you know which ones are worth checking out? Here's a guide on how to find the perfect spa for your needs.
Start by doing some research online. Look for spas that have positive reviews and ratings from other customers. Check their websites to see what kind of services they offer and if they align with what you're looking for.
Another great way to find the best spa services near you is by asking for recommendations from friends or family members who have had a great experience at a local spa. They can give you honest feedback on their experiences and help steer you in the right direction.
Don't forget to consider location when choosing a spa. Look for ones that are conveniently located near your home or workplace, so it's easy to fit in a visit without too much hassle.
Once you've narrowed down your options, take the time to visit each spa in person if possible. This will give you an opportunity to check out the facilities, meet the staff, and get a feel for the overall atmosphere of the place.
Don't be afraid to ask questions! Whether it's about their range of treatments, pricing options, or any special offers they may have available – getting all the information upfront will help ensure that your experience at the spa is everything you hoped it would be.
Finding high-quality spa services doesn't have to be overwhelming. By following these tips and doing some research beforehand, you'll be well on your way to discovering the best spas near you – where relaxation meets luxury!
Conclusion
Finding the best spa services near you can be a truly indulgent experience. Whether you're looking to relax and rejuvenate, or simply treat yourself to some much-needed pampering, there are plenty of options available to cater to your needs.
By taking the time to research and explore different spas in your area, you can uncover hidden gems that offer top-notch treatments and luxurious amenities. From massages and facials to body wraps and aromatherapy sessions, these services can help alleviate stress, promote overall well-being, and leave you feeling refreshed from head to toe.
Remember, when searching for the best spa services near you, it's important to consider factors such as reputation, customer reviews, facilities offered, prices, and location. Take advantage of online directories or platforms dedicated specifically for spa recommendations in order to make an informed decision.
So go ahead and indulge yourself in a world of relaxation by discovering the best spa services near you. Treatments that address both physical and mental wellness are no longer just a luxury reserved for special occasions; they can become an essential part of your self-care routine.
Unwind from the demands of everyday life at a local oasis where skilled therapists will work their magic on your body while soothing music plays softly in the background. Step into a serene environment where worries fade away as soon as you enter. Embrace tranquility as highly trained professionals focus solely on catering to your needs.
Take this opportunity not only for personal rejuvenation but also for building healthier habits. Regular visits will not only enhance your physical health but also contribute positively towards mental clarity - something we all need more than ever before.
In conclusion (Oops! Sorry!), whether it's treating yourself or gifting someone else with a day of ultimate relaxation – exploring nearby spas is definitely worth considering!
So why wait? Book that appointment today! Let the healing hands melt away tension while calming scents transport you into blissful serenity. Discover the best spa services near you and embark on a journey of indulgence that will
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yvonnethomasphdla · 1 year
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Psychologist Los Angeles To Get Quick Diagnosis And Treatment
Mental issues are highly complicated and if anybody ignores the same, it may lead to other issues. A restless and trouble life won’t allow you to live life properly as well as it will disturb other family members as well.
Mental stress, anxiety, depression and other similar issues may destroy your life completely, hence it is highly important to look for amazing psychologist who can provide great advices and treatments. With right advice and treatments one can expect getting ultimate benefits that means positive and happy life. Forget about what you are facing, just remember that the best psychologist is here for your help. The role of psychologist in the health care industry is so important and they are helping people a lot in balancing their lives. It must be noted that the best Psychologist Los Angeles can easily access human behavior, performance, and mental operations.
Accordingly, they provide right treatment to solve mental health issues. Not only this, but these professionals ensure to improve education, employment, and relationships so that people can stay happy and peaceful. The professionals are so talented that they are improving people’s life a lot, hence it is highly important to look for their help if you think you are unwell. Are you the one feeling the same as others? Well, there is often stigma attached to the fact of seeing a psychiatrist and if you are one of them, it is better to forget about it. Professionals today are so welcoming and they make sure to keep your sessions private. There is no shame to see a therapist as it will always give you positive and great life. You must visit to the best psychiatrist and let them help you with amazing solutions. If you find you get scared of something, there is a communication issue, relationship issue or your teens are unwell, immediately seek the attention of the professionals. If you are suffering from mental issues, just connect with Psychologist Beverly Hills and everything will get easier. At the best clinic, you will get amazing team ready to help.  These professionals are quite passionate about connecting you with the most suitable therapy that will disconnect you from any mental issues you were facing. They are always eager to help people with their specific need that is why they never fail to talk to the patients to get to know about their issues.
So, what are you waiting for? Whether you’re looking for a quick treatment or you want some advices, professionals are there to help. Be a part of the best clinic, get private psychiatrists who will assess and treat the widest range of mental health conditions. You can easily book an appointment and get ready to embrace positive, happy and wealthy life. Just try them out and you will find your life a way better than before.
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mattporter009 · 1 year
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Best Family Therapist In Beverly Hills
Matt Porter provides the Best Family Therapist In Beverly Hills. He understands that it is essential that family members walk in with an open mind and willingness to actively address the issues that are impacting the family.
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delta-6a10a-g6ar · 2 years
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Do You Feel Anxious At Night And Stressed? These Five Tips Can Help You To Calm Anxiety So That You Can Sleep Well At Night "Meditation can help people relax, focus, tune in to the innermost feelings of their moment-to?moment. This is extremely useful for relaxation and winding down to sleep," says Dr. Fran Walfish, a Beverly Hills family and relationship psychotherapist and author of The Self-Aware Parent. She cites the example she gave of a couple who became more relaxed after being stressed out. They began to meditate for 30 mins each evening. They slept deeper and felt closer to each other. Use an app such as Buddhify or Headspace to meditate guided.
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ariessyria19 · 2 years
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deborahweisberg · 3 years
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If your family is going through difficult times due to stress, anger, or pain, Therapy for Families may be essential. It can help couples, children, or large family members learn to communicate better and work in conflict. Family Therapists have extra training in family therapy and can resolve all your family issues with time. Just contact me today at 310.712.5650.
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edwardskhakipants · 3 years
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Forks, Washington. August 2004.
Esme and Carlisle stood in the middle of their grand living room, waiting for their five vampire children to arrive. Alice arrived first—prompt as usual. She settled herself gracefully onto the tufted sofa Esme had recently acquired, only to be immediately jostled by Emmett who heaved himself onto the cushions. A breath caught in Esme’s throat—she had lost many pieces from her beloved collection by that action—but it looked like this one was still in one piece. For the moment. Jasper took Edward’s normal spot in the only armchair, forcing Edward to wedge himself between Alice and Emmett.
“What?” Rosalie grumbled as she perched on the armrest of the couch beside Emmett, “Are we having another one of those How to Respect the Telepath in Your Life meetings again?”
“No,” Edward answered, fully aware of the intent of this meeting since it hatched in Carlisle's mind two days prior. “But there’s never a bad time to bring that up. Christ, Emmett, if you’re going to have a song stuck in your head for over seventy-two hours, the least you can do is learn the correct lyrics.”
Emmett’s eyebrows knit together, asking his brother a silent question.
“It’s ‘mulatto, an albino, a mosquito, my libido,’” Edward answered.
Emmett’s brow furrowed doubtfully.
“No.” Edward shook his head, answering Emmett’s thoughts. “Why would he eat a beetle?”
Emmett grinned playfully and tilted his head towards Edward.
Edward wasn’t amused. “You know what it means.”
A silly grin plastered on his face, Emmett elbowed Edward in the ribs, silently egging him on.  
Edward’s eyes darted to Carlisle, then Esme, and he shifted in his seat. “Sexual desire,” he muttered.  
Emmett howled with laughter and clapped his hands once, “Wow, Eddie! You’re just going to say that in front of Esme!?” Edward scowled as Emmett’s bouts of laughter echoed through the room.
Esme ran a hand through her youngest’s ginger hair. “Boys,” she warned, and Emmett sucked in his laughter.
“Our meeting today has to do with all of you,” Carlisle began.
“We simply wanted to go over the rules of attending school with you kids before you start your second year at Forks High School,” Esme explained, unfolding and re-folding her hands in front of her. “There are already whispers, and we don’t want those whispers to turn into rumors.”
“I thought the only whispers about us at school were whether or not Edward liked girls,” Rosalie said, earning an eye-roll from Edward.
“No,” Alice chirped,” Some kids think we’re a cult.”
Jasper leaned back heavily in his chair. “We haven’t heard that one since the Seventies.”
“Kids are getting more creative these days.” Emmett nodded appreciatively.
Esme held up one, delicate finger. “Which is why it is best to take preventative action.”
Carlisle took the floor. “We thought a few reminders would be helpful before you started your first day of your second year,” Carlisle said. “We don’t want another incident like the one we had at the end of last year.”
Every head in the room turned towards Emmett.
“What?” Emmett threw up his hands in exasperation, “The water gun fight was the senior prank—I wasn’t the one who brought them to the school. Hell, I wasn’t even the only student who got suspended!”
“That’s true,” Carlisle agreed, “but you were the only student to shout, ‘Sit down, kids! Daddy’s gotta tinkle,’ and shoot the stream of the gun from your crotch.”
Jasper snickered—the sound was immediately silenced by a single raised eyebrow from Esme.
“I still don’t see the problem,” Emmett continued, “That’s not necessarily a vampire thing.”
Edward—who often mistook himself as the third vampire parent rather than the youngest son—sighed, “Yes, but it brings unnecessary attention to the family. Which is the first rule: do not bring attention to yourself.”
Esme ran her fingers through her son’s hair once more, “Yes, darling, you are especially good at keeping to yourself.” Edward’s eyes widened, despite Esme’s gentle touch, already aware of where her point was headed. “So much so, that I have been given the names of several child therapists to help my son through his depression. One was recommended for his exceptional work on spotting and treating the early signs of sociopathic behavior.”
Esme grabbed her son’s chin and forced him to look at her. “You have to talk to other people.”
Knocked off his high horse, Edward flinched back from Esme’s hand. “Friendship with humans never bodes well for us.”
“We’re not asking you to create lifelong friendships with humans,” Carlisle clarified, “We are simply asking you to be likable.”
“A nearly impossible feat for Edward.” Rosalie grinned. The comment went unnoticed, save Edward’s slight flinch. But the quick, little tick was satisfying enough for Rose.
“Look at your father,” Esme gestured towards Carlisle, “At every hospital he works at, he goes out of his way to ensure he is well-liked among his colleagues. He forces down countless lunches and coffees, solely to make sure they’re comfortable around him.”
Carlisle took over. “And your mother, a beloved member of her gardening club and a prized member of the PTA.”
“And neither of us have rumors started about us, and do you know why?”
All five teenagers grumbled the ingrained response. “Humans don’t want to spread rumors about people they like.”
“Exactly.” Esme nodded.
“I try!” Alice whined, “But Edward never lets me talk to any humans.”
“That’s because every, single thing that is about to come out of your mouth is incriminating. You might as well walk around with a neon sign that says, ‘I’m a psychic vampire’.”
Alice scoffed, “Is not!”
“You wanted to tell Nihal Howard not to audition for the musical.”
“And he broke his leg on opening night,” Alice challenged.  
“You were going to tell Christiana Ward that pink was not her color.”
“And she lost prom queen to Ashley Kirby.”
Jasper put a comforting hand on his wife’s knee. “Maybe try not to meddle so much, darlin’. Natural relationships, first.”
“They would have been!” Alice wailed, “I would have played it cool and casual and made friends and you all would have seen it! But everyone’s hurt and I have no friends at all because Edward won’t let me try!”
Edward rolled his eyes.
Carlisle suppressed a heavy sigh. “You have to let your sister try, Edward.”
Edward’s mouth fell open. “You cannot seriously be siding with her on this!”
But Carlisle stood his ground. He and Edward stared at one another for a few seconds, engaged in a silent conversation. In the end, Carlisle tilted his chin and Edward slumped back. Victorious, Alice used both pointer fingers to jab Edward in the side several dozen times at vampire speed.
Rosalie flipped her golden locks over her shoulder. “I don’t know how you all struggle so much. I have no issues with becoming well-liked at school while remaining inconspicuous.”
“Oh yeah, you’re so inconspicuous,” Edward grumbled, now extra-petty that he had been called out two times in one meeting. “You dress like you're on your way to brunch at your second husband’s country club in Beverly Hills and you make out with your foster brother. The perfect picture of discretion in Forks High School.”
“At least I don’t dress like a sad, old man.” Rosalie grimaced, disappointed in her comeback. The light, humorous insults that were required in family situations were Emmett’s forte; Rosalie’s insults were meant to emotionally cripple a person.
Edward sat up in his seat on the couch and turned to face Rosalie. “I think you missed the main takeaway in that you make out with your foster brother.” Edward turned back. “I can read your minds, and I still don’t understand what made either of you think it was okay to bring your relationship to school?!”
Emmett smiled, unperturbed. “It’s hot.”
“It’s disturbing,” Edward disagreed.
Esme frowned, “You kids don’t really do that, do you?”
“Would it help if Jasper and I became an official couple too?” Alice suggested.     Jasper perked up at the idea of being able to hold hands with Alice in public again.
“No!” Edward yelled at the same time Emmett and Rosalie muttered their acquiesce.
“It wouldn’t seem as weird if there were two couples,” Emmett agreed.
Edward dug his fingers through his hair. “Oh my god!”
“...maybe not, kids,” Esme intervened, but was ultimately ignored.
“So should we come out today like it happened over the summer, or make a little show out of it?” Alice asked Rosalie.
Rosalie waved a hand in the air. “Oh, it’s way more fun if you play up the theatrics.”
“A little more realistic, too,” Emmett agreed.
Alice looked to Jasper for his opinion. “It might be better if we were discreet about it,” she said. “Like we knew it was wrong, but we wouldn’t let anything stand in the way of our love.”
Jasper scooted forward to the edge of his seat. “Or we could let it be quiet and drawn out. Let others see our mutual pining, and root for us to be together.”
Gazing deep into the golden eyes of her soulmate, Alice sighed, “I love that.”
“If people wanted us to get together, it would normalize Emmett and Rosalie’s relationship.”
“Or Rosalie and Emmett could stop,” Edward suggested, bitterly. “That would be normal, too.”
“Oh, Edward,” Alice patted his shoulder, “You’ll find love someday, too.”
“That is not at all what bothers me about the situation.”
Carlisle made the decision for everyone. “Rosalie and Emmett, break up at school. Alice and Jasper, remain friends and siblings.”
Disappointment filtered into the room through Jasper.  
“I heard that,” Edward grumbled at someone’s thoughts.
“You were supposed to,” Rosalie shot back.
“We are also initiating a new rule,” Esme brought the room back to the conversation at hand, “No more correcting your teachers.”
A chorus of complaints rang from the couch.
Esme clicked her tongue, “I’m tired of defending you all from entirely preventable issues. I have emails from curious teachers wondering why my foster daughter is taking French 101, when she already appears to be fluent.” Esme looked at Rosalie, who immediately tucked her bottom lip between her teeth. “Or why my son, at the tender age of sixteen, could not only deadlift three hundred pounds in his first weightlifting class, but also give his coach tips on improving his posture.”
Emmett glanced over at Edward before he realized Esme was, in fact, addressing him. “What!?”
Jasper snorted. The sound was a mistake, for it brought Esme’s wrath onto him. “And not to mention the emails from not one, not two, but three teachers warning me that my foster son has an intimate understanding of the mechanics of a point fifty-eight caliber rifle-musket.” Esme held out her hands, almost pleadingly, “How does that subject keep coming up, Jasper?”
A noncommittal grunt was the only answer Jasper had for that question.
“No more,” she commanded. “You can get good grades but keep your extra knowledge on any subject to yourself. Whatever your teacher teaches is all you know. Understand?”
“But what if we—” Edward started.
“Understand?” Esme repeated.
The five teenage vampires understood, even if they didn’t want to. 
“I believe that all five of you will graduate from Forks High School!” Esme cheered.
The kids stared back, unable to muster the zeal Esme had over the prospect.
“Meeting adjourned!” Carlisle announced, and faster than fast vampire speed, the kids bolted from their seats. 
Esme was able to get in a few more reminders as her children flitted around the house and filed out to the silver Volvo.  “Remember to buy lunch with cash and not your credit cards. Emmett, please do not joke about being mauled by a bear. Do not address your teachers by their first names—I don’t care if you’re older than they are, Edward. Alice, please wear something a bit more causal, pet.”
When the house was finally empty, Carlisle pulled Esme backwards into his chest and began massaging her temples. The gesture wasn’t needed, but any touch from her husband was always welcome.
“Do you think they’ll listen?” she asked her husband.
“Not a chance.”
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amanda-glassen · 3 years
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My Love, My Life
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For the “My Love, My Life - ABBA” square of @storiesofsvu​ fall bingo.
Characters: Olivia Benson, Serena Benson
Serena reflects on the past 18 years the night before Olivia moves to LA for college. (The Wonder Years universe)
Serena woke up to her four-year-old daughter’s hand on her face for the second time that night. They knew Charlie was old enough to sleep in her own bed, but Jamie didn’t have the heart to say no to her whenever she stood in the doorway clutching her Chucky doll and asking if she could sleep with them. Charlie may have looked like Serena and acted like her, but she and Jamie had a bond that Serena felt she wasn’t always a part of. The closeness Jamie had with Charlie is what Serena had with Olivia-her big baby as she affectionately called her, her big baby that was leaving home in less than eight hours.
Knowing she wouldn’t be able to fall back asleep, Serena kissed her sleeping daughter on the cheek and walked down the hall to Olivia’s room. There were two large pieces of luggage and a carry-on bag propped up against the wall, ready for her flight. Olivia was only taking her clothes and the plan was to buy everything she’d need for her dorm when they were over there. Her room would remain the same and Serena didn’t know if that was a source of comfort or if she’d spend hours crying on Olivia’s bed when she was gone.
Olivia may have been eighteen and going off to college but when Serena saw her fast asleep that night holding onto her stuffed t-rex, all she could see was the little girl who would give her kisses when she tucked her into bed each night. 
I held you close to me
Felt your heartbeat and I thought I am free
Oh, yes and as one are we
In the now and beyond
Nothing and no one can break this bond
Scenes from Olivia’s childhood started playing in her mind and, when she closed her eyes tightly, she could swear she had been transported to their old apartment. It was small and humble but that tiny apartment held the happiest moments of Serena’s life because as long as she had Olivia, she had all she needed. She could smell five-year-old Olivia’s strawberry-scented children’s shampoo and feel her heart beating fast as she held onto her. Her little girl had had a nightmare and was depending on her for comfort and protection. 
“It’s okay, baby,” Serena told her as they sat in the rocking chair and she attempted to rock Olivia back to sleep. “Mommy’s here. I’ll always keep you safe.”
Her tiny hand clenched Serena’s tank top as she started to calm down. “Mommy, I’m a big kid now. I don’t wanna be scared like a baby.”
“Everyone is afraid of something, Ollie girl.”
“Even you?” her daughter looked at her, wide-eyed.
“Even me,” Serena smiled.
“Are you afraid of the boogeyman?”
“No,” Serena tickled her, causing Olivia to giggle. “The boogeyman and I are best friends. I send him after your uncle Kyle all the time.”
“Mommy,” Olivia continued to giggle. “What are you afraid of then?”
“Hmm,” Serena gently bit her lip as she tried to think of what she was afraid of. “You know that really grouchy professor who gave Mommy a bad grade? I think I’m afraid of her.”
“What about the monster under the bed?”
Serena absentmindedly twirled one of Olivia’s curls around her finger. “Oh that monster. Remember that time we went to Grandma and Grandpa’s house by Lake Tahoe and I sprayed you with that stuff to keep the mosquitos away? Well, how about if I make something for you to keep the monsters away?”
“Okay.” Olivia laid her head on her chest. “Mommy, can I sleep with you tonight? And tomorrow we can make monster spray?”
“You can sleep with me anytime you want, baby.”
That night she cuddled Olivia close in her bed, making sure to stay awake until she knew her little girl was fast asleep. “Mommy, you’re my hero,” her daughter said in a sleepy voice. “You’re the most bravest mommy in the whole world.”
But thirteen years later, as she stood in the doorway of her daughter’s room, she no longer felt brave. What her daughter couldn’t comprehend during the conversation they had when she was five was that Serena’s biggest fear was the day Olivia grew up and left home. 
I am invincible, how could this go wrong?
No, here, here's where we belong
I see a road ahead
I never thought I would dare to tread
For the first time since she became a teenager, Serena climbed into bed with Olivia and held her as close as she could from behind. Instead of strawberry shampoo and bubble bath, she smelled the remnants of Olivia’s cologne and some Dove men’s lotion.
“Mom, are you sniffing me?” Olivia asked, half asleep.
“You don’t smell like my baby anymore, but this scent is still comforting,” Serena said as she nuzzled into the back of Olivia’s neck. 
“Mom, I’m eighteen now. This is weird.”
“Olivia Margaret!” Serena raised her voice. “Do you know how long I was in labor with you?”
Olivia turned around to face her. “You see, I asked Grandma about that and she said you actually weren’t in labor that long and once the drugs kicked in, you were practically numb from the neck down. You can’t use that on me anymore. Charlie was the difficult labor. Why don’t you use that on her instead?”
“She’s only four,” Serena chuckled. “There’s no fun in guilt-tripping a four-year-old. She already believes everything I say. Your sister is in that innocent phase of life where she believes in Santa and the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny. Give it five years. I’ll start guilt-tripping her then.”
“That’s some A+ parenting, Mom,” Olivia said jokingly. “Why do I feel like Charlie and I will be explaining all of this to a therapist someday?”
“Because you will, Olliegator. Just like I did and my mother and grandmother did before me. Face it, baby. Crazy runs in the family. That and alcoholism.”
“I’ll keep that in mind,” Olivia rolled her eyes. “And, Mom, you’re still cuddling me.”
Serena held her even tighter. “It’s your last night at home. Either I cuddle you now or I walk into your dorm room when your roommate is there and say ‘Where’s my Olliegator? Where’s my kisses?’ in a really annoying tone of voice.”
“I’d like to think you were bluffing, but I know you’d do it, so I’ll just let you cuddle me.”
For a few moments, Serena was able to bask in the feeling of holding Olivia one last time before she moved. Finding out Olivia had gotten a softball scholarship was one of the proudest moments of Serena’s life until she realized it meant her baby would have to move to LA. Her parents lived in Beverly HIlls and her sister lived in Santa Monica, neither of which were far from Olivia’s school, but even if she knew they’d watch out for her, nothing would ever compare to her knowing Olivia was safe in her bedroom down the hall.
“I’m worried about you living on your own. Grandma and Grandpa live two miles from your school, why don’t you just live with them? At least I know you’d be safe. What if your roommate is some crazy person?”
Olivia scoffed. “As opposed to the crazy woman I live with now?”
“Smartass.” Serena playfully pinched her.
“Ow!” Olivia rubbed her arm. “For a tiny woman, you’re really strong.”
“Strong enough to lock you in this room so you can’t leave me?”
“Mom!” Olivia groaned.
“I’ve had eighteen years to prepare for this and I’m still not ready,” Serena admitted. “I know you’re an adult now and you’ve worked so hard to get where you are, but I don’t want you to leave home.”
Now it was Olivia’s turn to hold her close and she couldn’t help sobbing into her daughter’s shoulder. “Mom, I know this is hard, but everything is going to be okay. Remember when I had that really bad nightmare and I called you the bravest mom in the world? I still think that’s true. Everything I’ve accomplished is because of you and how brave you are. What you went through when I was conceived. Dealing with that trauma plus preparing to have a baby when you were only 21. You graduated from college and then went on to get your PhD all while being a single mom. For the first twelve years of my life, it was just the two of us and I still don’t know how you managed to do it all. You’ve taken care of all of us; let us take care of you now.”
“I love you, Olliegator.”
“I love you, too, Mom,” Olivia said as she placed a kiss on her cheek. “And, yes, I’m leaving home but I’m never leaving you.” 
Flying to LA was like flying home for Serena. Her mother picked them up from LAX and they stopped at a store to shop for bedding and a few things to get Olivia through the first day in her dorm.
“Tomorrow, we’ll go shopping for some decorations and some other things to make the place feel like home, okay, Ollie?” Olivia’s grandma told her.
On the drive to Olivia’s school, they passed by all of Serena’s favorite places to visit as a child. The little bakery where Olivia had her first ice cream sandwich was just a couple of blocks away from the campus and, when they drove by it, Serena had to swallow hard so as not to cry. 
“Mom, can we get an ice cream sandwich sometime before you fly back to New York?” Olivia asked, which made Serena feel like she was gonna cry all over again.
“Yes, of course, Olliegator. We can go anywhere you want.”
There were three generations of Benson women in Olivia’s dorm room; Serena and Mrs. Benson took to making her bed and organizing her desk while Olivia unpacked her clothes and hung them up in the closet. They were there for two hours, mostly stalling for time until they could no longer put off the inevitable. There was another fifteen minutes of goodbye hugs and kisses on the cheek with Serena trying her hardest not to let Olivia see her cry.
“I’m still gonna see you tomorrow before you fly back, right?” Olivia asked her with that same pleading look she had as a child.
“Just call me whenever you’re ready.”
“And you’ll be back next month for Parents Weekend?”
My baby already misses me. “I wouldn’t miss it for anything and I know your sister is gonna put on the hoodie you bought for her as soon as I get back and ask if it’s time to go to your school,” Serena said as she held her close. “If you ever feel lonely, your grandparents are just a couple of miles away and your aunt Lexie is in Santa Monica and you can always call me. I don’t care what time it is, Ollie. Just call me whenever you need me.”
When they were outside, Serena couldn’t help turning around to look at the building her daughter would call home for the next nine months. It was so full of life and Serena knew her daughter was going to have a good time and make a lot of friends, but this building wasn’t their house and Serena wanted nothing more than to get Olivia and take her back to New York. I can’t do that to her. She worked so hard to get here and I owe it to her to let her be happy.
Yes, I know don't possess you
With all my heart, God bless you
You are still my love and my life
“It’s okay to cry, Ser Bear,” Mrs. Benson said as she hugged her. “I know I did. What you’re feeling right now, I felt 22 years ago when I dropped you off at Columbia. I kept asking myself why couldn’t you just go to UCLA or USC or, hell, I’d have settled for somewhere in northern California, but you worked for years to get into Columbia and you were so excited. I know I broke your heart so many times when you were growing up. I didn’t want to add that to the list and letting you go ended up being the best thing for you. Look at the woman you’ve become. You’re excelling in your career, you’re a wonderful mom, and you met and married Miss Tall, Dark, and Handsome.”
Feeling the comfort of her mother’s arms made Serena unable to stop her tears from flowing. “What if she never comes back?”
“No matter how old she gets, she’s always gonna need you,” Mrs. Benson said as she dried her daughter’s tears. “Kids always come back, baby, even if it’s just for a while. You just have to let them know there’s always a road that’ll lead them back home again.”
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apluscarelaus · 2 years
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How To Find A Therapist For Best Physical Therapy?
Physical therapy helps you in recovering from many conditions safely and effectively. It involves a great deal of commitment and motivation as it is helpful in curing many conditions and easing pain in different ways. A good physical therapist will maintain a good relationship and will find the best suited treatment program that complements your needs. However, the question is, how to find the therapist for best physical therapy? Let's dig in deep to know more about it.
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5 Tips To Choose The Right Physical Therapist
A physical therapist can help you ease the pain in the knee, neck, and many other parts. Here are some tips to find one for best physical therapy in Beverly Hills or elsewhere.
1. Ask For Referrals
If you are facing a constant problem regarding a specific body part, you need to find a physical therapist. You can ask a doctor for a referral as they might have someone in contact. You can also ask from your family, friends, or coworkers.
2.  Location
It is one of the most crucial things while looking for a physical therapist. You need to go for frequent visits, so try to find one that is near to your place of work or home. To get the best physical therapy, make sure to choose the location wisely.
3. Check Availability
If you need physical therapy for specific reasons like for knees or neck, contact them and make sure that they provide it. It is also a good idea to see the locations according to your septic problem. It will simplify your research.
4. Experience
If you want the best physical therapy, consider the experience of the professional. Do not hesitate to ask for certifications and licenses to check if they are good for you or not. There is no problem in making sure that a professional is well-qualified.
5. Compatibility
Find someone with whom you can communicate heart to heart. It is crucial to have a physical therapist with whom you can discuss your problems. If you feel any discomfort or pain, you should be frank enough to tell this.
Now that you have read the tips to find the right physical therapist. Make an appointment with a qualified physical therapist. You can also refer to A Plus Care LA for best physical therapy in Mid City and other places. Visit their website to know more.
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palimpsessed · 3 years
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Writerly Ephemera
I was tagged by @amywaterwings @mostlymaudlin @tea-brigade @effing-numpties @captain-aralias @bloodiedpixie . This is so cool, so thanks for sharing yours! ❤️
Per Amy: We add little bits of ourselves to our writing, scattering memories and places and phrases and things into our stories. The game is to find five examples of this, of YOU, in your writing and show everyone.
I don’t really feel like I put much of my own experiences into my fic, probably because I don’t feel like I have a lot of experiences to pull from. (That’s not me being self-deprecating; that’s me never going anywhere or doing anything.) So, let’s see what we come up with!
Going to tag here. I feel like I’ve gotten to this late so I’m not sure who has been tagged. Anyway. No pressure, loves. Just saying hi. 🥰 @theflyingpeach @bazzybelle @otherworldsivelivedin @unseelieseelie @wetheformidables @caitybug @nightimedreamersworld @foolofabookwyrm @stillmadaboutpetra
1. I have put the most of myself into A Man of Letters. I have my degree in English Lit and when I was in college, I was at the height of my Jane Austen obsession. So I sort of built my degree around the development of the English novel. My senior thesis was on a book called Evelina by Frances Burney, who was one of Austen’s greatest literary influences. Evelina is an epistolary novel—told entirely in letters. I love the epistolary form, for the same reason I love dialogue and texting fics. It’s such a fun narrative technique and can reveal so much about individual characters. It’s actually a bit like the way Rainbow Rowell uses multi POV in her books. Anyway, my love of the epistle was on full display in this fic, which is ofc told in letters. —Do I share a passage? That’s like...the whole fic 😅 So, idk. Here’s Simon being a disaster as he meditates on letter writing:
Dear Penny,
As I start this letter, I already know I'm not going to post it. I know I won't be able to bring myself to do it, because of what I have to say to you. I do feel bad. It's not that I don't want to tell you. And you know I'm so much better at writing things down than saying them out loud. It's only that I feel like this would all sound better coming from me in person. I just don't think I'll be able to make you understand in a letter. I'm still trying to understand myself. And writing all of this down helps me with that. Even if I'm only pretending to write to you, it makes me feel better, to think of you on the other end. I promise I really will tell you everything as soon as we're together again.
2. Also for A Man of Letters, my fascination with Regency fashions, in particular the dandy, was a major factor. I did an art book about this, comparing how fashion has changed over time, especially in regard to gender. (I also did an art book based on Evelina, since I’m on the subject. I minored in book art. 😁) I always fancied the look of a Regency dandy, so that was my gift to Baz.
Whoever has been working their magic on Salisbury should in fact be the person to whom I offer my eternal devotion. Alas, I am left to flounder under the burden of lusting after a man who is incapable of dressing himself.
The utter and unmitigated shame.
Salisbury wore a forest green wool frock coat that set off the golden highlights in his brown locks. This was accented with a green and aubergine striped silk waistcoat that was trimmed in white piping and felt much too daring a pattern for the man. (I don't care if he was a soldier; it takes a hardier man than him by half to choose a stripe like that.) His charcoal trousers were enticingly snug, but not so much to prove lethal. His cravat and points left much to be desired, though that likely reflected poorly on his ability to keep himself in order, rather than the ability of his valet. (Good God, maybe the man doesn't even have a valet!)
3. When it came to my countdown fic, To the Manor Borne, I had Shep make a reference to Cluedo, because Pitch Manor would be perfect for a real life game. Behind that, is the fact that my family played a lot of Clue and I watched the movie a whole bunch growing up, to the point where my sister and I used to quote it to each other. This was a way to pay homage to that. He also talks about playing the game Murder in the Dark, which was one I played at Halloween as a kid. One of my cousins was dressed as a ghoul with glow in the dark face paint and we were in my grandma’s creepy upstairs. Perfect vibes.
I’ve seen the kitchen and the dining room and the library and the study and the parlor. Walking through this house is like playing Clue. (They call it Cluedo on this side of the pond, because they like to be difficult.) (That was a whole thing. Do not get me started.)
I keep thinking Colonel Mustard’s going to pop up out of nowhere and brain me with a lead pipe.
And:
What kind of games do you play with magickal friends who don't have magic? Twister? Not with the wings and tail. Cards? Baz and Penny would cheat. Or accuse everyone else of cheating if they didn't win. Murder in the dark? With these people, in this house, I knew it would turn literal fast, and also it was like ten in the morning. Hide and seek? Simon and I would hide and everyone else would ditch. Snowball fight? World War III.
4. I’ve referenced Mozart in my fics a couple of times because when I was first getting into classical music, I was listening to a lot of Mozart. My sister had a CD of some of his early symphonies, and my local classical station does “Mozart in the Mornings” which happened to fit in the exact time slot between two morning classes I had my first year in college. I’d go sit in my car with a cup of tea, and just vibe with Mozart as my soundtrack. I’ve name dropped him in both A Man of Letters and To the Manor Borne. Also, Mozart wrote 12 variations on the melody shared by Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star, which is a lovely tie in. (I also had the gang sing/cast The Holly and the Ivy, which is one of my favorite Christmas carols, and by strange coincidence was playing on the radio at the same time I wrote that scene. 🥰)
"It's a songbook," I tell him, like he can't figure that out for himself. "Did you know that Mozart wrote twelve different versions of the same song?"
He's laughing. "Mozart did not write Twinkle, twinkle, little star, Simon."
"You know what I mean."
"He composed twelve variations for solo piano on the French folk melody Ah! Vous dirai-je, maman."
"Sure. Anyway, this is for the violin. For you to play."
He's still laughing, and I'm trying to figure out what's so funny, but then he kisses me again, on the lips this time, so I figure maybe I'm still doing okay.
Only one more to go! What will it be? 👀
5. Therapy! Eheheh...😅 Look, it’s no secret the gang needs it. And tbh, so do I. Haven’t actually managed to get myself to go yet, and I think that’s where a lot of my “send them to therapy” happy endings come from. I did it in Use Your Words and To the Manor Borne. I started Chamber by Chamber with SnowBaz already in therapy, and then structured the whole thing around therapy that they give to each other and to themselves. It didn’t really fit in A Man of Letters, but if it had, I absolutely would have done it. I’ve only shared from two fics so far, and since it could kind of spoil the ending to Use Your Words (tho saying this may be spoiler anyway...), here are two snippets from It’s a Kind of Magic, Part I of Chamber by Chamber.
I've been working on articulating my needs. We both have. Ordinarily, I'd be afraid of pushing him away by making demands when he's on the verge of a spiral, but my therapist insists that I can't go on treating Simon with kid gloves. If I never ask him for anything, he'll think he doesn't have anything to give.
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When I told that to my therapist, she said that I needed to talk it out of me and she'd help me find ways to work through it all. She said I needed to talk it out with Baz, too, so that he'd know how to help me when things got bad again—that was something else she said, that things would get bad again, and that I'd need to be prepared for that. That I couldn't expect things to be easy, and just go away.
6. BONUS! I think the biggest way I include bits of myself is in the AUs I’ve chosen to write. I have three I’m planning that say a lot about me, so I’m going to talk a bit about them here. There is ofc my Scooby Doo AU, inspired in large part by the fact that I watched it all the time growing up and also, my sister continues to be obsessed with it. When we were young, my parents were doing a lot of work on their house and we’d take family trips to the hardware store. My sister and I hated it, so we’d wait in the car with my mom and she would entertain us with “Scooby Doo stories”. Other AUs I’m planning? Troop Beverly Hills—please tell me someone else out there loved this movie the way I did when I was 5. It was very influential to baby me and I remember wishing for nothing more than being able to dress like Shelley Long. So, I’m going to let Baz do it, because I think he deserves it. 🥰 Lastly, tho it will probably be the first I write, is my Cupid and Psyche AU, from when I was heavy into mythology and religion. Since these are all forthcoming projects, I don’t really have a snippet. Instead, here’s Baz comparing Simon to Eros, which is what started my brain on that particular AU.
I am lost. I barely know anything about Salisbury, but I can't help being drawn in. At one time, I could have comforted myself that I was only so smitten with him because he looks like he was sculpted by Praxiteles. That excuse grows weaker with every encounter. He's the furthest thing from a lifeless tribute to beauty in marble as one can be. There is something deep and dark and feral inside of him and I want to claw it out. I want to see it, to let it free. To taste his wildness and his pain.
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