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reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

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Adelaide Kane & Joel Kinnaman || Like or reblog if you’re going to use it!

#my manip #adelaide kane #joel kinnaman #my edit #manip #adelaidekane #joelkinnaman

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Let’s all take a moment and thank modern family for this

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There's over 9 million users on Tumblr now. Reblog if you're one of the few who's never EVER left anon hate in somebody's ask box.

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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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This thread is the purest form of girls having girls backs.

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Proving a point to my boyfriend.

PLEASE REBLOG if you (male or female) believe it is perfectly okay and natural for a guy of any age to cry

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Watch: Regular women and celebrities, many of whom have survived sexual assault or harassment, are banding together to tell Trump “It’s not okay”

In the cases of all the women who spoke out in the video, there was no justice. Their assaulters and harassers walked free because either nobody believed them or there was nothing they could do. The Trump tape was one of many final straws. "We’re not gonna take it any more,“ Amber Tamblyn said. “Like, for real, we’re not.”

Gifs: Humanity for Hillary

WATCH THE VIDEO

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Preview on my Fanfic Idea.

Catherine de Medici was a name that was feared by many, sometimes even to her friends and family. However the Queen mother was tender and loving towards her children. Specially Francis, her golden child, even if she wasn’t supposed to have a favorite; she did and it was him. 

Catherine was sitting in her carriage, on her way to a house a little away from the village. She was going to visit it, like she did once a month. She had lied to Charles and said she was going somewhere else, and had paid the driver and guards that came with her, to not say a word. 

When the carriage came to a stop, Catherine looked out the window and saw a couple standing outside, to greet her. As the carriage door opened and one of her guards help her out, she looked towards the direction of the castle. 

Nobody would forgive her for what she had done, and what she was hiding from them. She walked inside the house, and went straight to the master bedroom. The interior of that room was so different from everything else in the house, but she never focused on that detail. In fact she had decorated it in that way herself. 

She walked towards the bed, where a young man laid, asleep. She sat down on the bed, and took a cloth into the bowl of water, before laying it on his head as she softly sighed. 

“Oh, my dear boy.” She said as she knew he asleep, but her mother instincts pushed in, and she did as she always had done, which was to remove some of his blond curls away from his face. No, nobody would forgive her for setting up the attack, but he was her golden child, and she would not lose him. 

(Please give me feedback)

#reign #reign au #fanfic #francis de valois #francis valois #catherine de medici #mary stuart #mary queen of scots #lola #stephan narcisse #frary #hope you all like it #greer #leith #charles valois #megan follows #bash #toby regbo #adelaide kane #torrance coombs #anna popplewell #craig parker #francis king of france #france #scotland #england #elizabeth tudor #rachel skarsten #fanfiction

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A beautiful king & queen. Perfect for Norway <3

Crown Prince Harald of Norway and Sonja Haraldsen finally marry after a nine-year courtship, 29 August 1968.

King Olav V initially opposed of a marriage between his only son, sole heir to the throne, and a commoner (though he had nothing against Sonja), but Crown Prince Harald insisted that if he could not marry Sonja, he would not marry at all. Fearing the end of the monarchy, King Olav gave his approval, and to emphasize his support, Sonja (who had lost her father nine years before, just prior to meeting Harald) was walked down the aisle by the king himself. [x]

#kong harald #dronning sonja #norge #norway #that's love

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Sir Ian McKellen attended the Evening Standard Theatre Awards in London, Nov 13.   

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Soooooooo cute <3

IF PUSS IN BOOTS IN SHREK WAS A PUPPER/DOGGO IT WOULD BE JORGE I AM ScREAMIN HE IS SO CUTE I ALMOST FORGET EVERY TIME 😩❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍

#puppy #cute #dog #cute puppy

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Reblog if you're black tumblr.

You don’t have to be black, it just means you support us, you stand by us and you’re for us.

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PSA:

re-blog and wear the safety pin if you and your blog are safe and safe spaces for any minority’s discriminated against by Trump.

#safetypin 

stay safe everyone <3

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#paul wesley

Reblog if Paul Wesley is the only reason you still watch TVD

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Reblog this if your blog is a safe haven for ALL non-white, disabled, trans, queer, and/or women, and your ask box is open to anyone who needs it tonight, or anytime, for the next few years.

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I want to write fanfiction, but..

I’m afraid that nobody will read or like it, or that I’m not doing the characters justice. 

Still if you want a fanfiction, just tell me and I will do my best.

#fanfic #fanfiction #the vampire diaries #the originals #reign #pretty little liars #gossip girl #teen wolf #downton abbey