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can we collectively stop using the adjective “infectious” when referring to something pleasant?

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Watch out world, I’m learning Latin on duolingo and I’ve already half-assed so many of the romantic languages that a lot of this is recognizable and fun

#duolingo #Latin

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everyone’s shittin on Dan Schneider’s wife in that clip with Patti Labelle (as they should, she was being a stuck-up ass)

Remember how Dan Schneider made his female employee simulate being sodomized while she told a story in a room full of coworkers because it would “make the story funnier” (aka dismissive and humiliating behavior by someone in a position of power over her)

Imagine how that monster treats his wife in the privacy of their own home. You know that woman has seen and heard some shit.

#quiet on set #dan schneider #nickelodeon

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You ever see so much awfulness in the world, and you’re like “I need to be better” but you aren’t sure exactly what you mean. Be better at what? Be a better what?

I just know if I wielded the power that these multimillionaires hold I would be so fucking good at it. You wouldn’t catch me doing anything irresponsible with it. You wouldn’t catch me being selfish with it.

Buy new clothes? For what? I’ve been wearing the same torn up shit for years. It doesn’t matter. Buy a new car? For what? This one works. My family fits in it. It doesn’t matter. Upgrade the house? For what? These four walls and this roof keep us warm and dry.

Every time I see some article that’s like “this young celebrity just admitted to *insert frivolous cosmetic surgery/injection here* and she says she’s not ashamed!” That is someone I could never respect. Never.

#big feelings #personal #my self righteousness is showing #I don’t care I am upset

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If anyone is still participating in boycotting, I’d like to recommend an app. It’s called No Thanks and developed by a Palestinian.

It’s very user friendly and allows you to search or barcode scan products.

If you’re not keen on downloading anything, there’s also a website called bdnaash.com that has similar functions.

Stay decent and as always, free Palestine

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They are the definition of “peaked in high school”

Also, fuuuuck Ned's Declassified cast. They had the audacity to go live on TikTok and make fun of the sexual abuse that happened to Drake. And they had the audacity to laughingly say, "we can't joke like this," and "sometimes humor helps us move through things." Move through what?? Someone else's trauma that you just joked about?

#buncha assholes #quiet on set

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Kimmy Robertson’s letter wasn’t just singing Brian Peck’s praises. The way she actively shat on Drake Bell’s character…a fucking 15 year old boy… “an overtly gay oversexed person with no idea what he is doing to Brian.”

She is hateful. Her letter was vicious and vile and she should never work again.

#and I love twin peaks but fuck dude #kimmy Robertson #quiet on set #drake bell #Brian peck

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I read a few of those letters. I’m reading them slowly, taking time to digest them.

I’m willing to give Will and Rider the benefit of the doubt. I really believe they were blinded by their friendship and manipulated. I believe they feel remorseful. I believe they likely worried that bringing up someone’s deepest trauma to apologize for their role in it might be triggering. Maybe they felt like dropping it is safer than figuring out how to contact the guy. And I believe not mentioning him by name on the podcast was out of respect for his privacy: this is his story to tell and if he was mentioned by name on Pod Meets World, people would jump down Will and Rider’s throats for hijacking his story before the world got a chance to see the doc.

With that being said: The inaction for all these years was wrong. Especially for Will, working with Drake in voiceover for a while. He could have reached out to make amends.

This is a huge lesson to us all. You can use your discernment more carefully. You can vow to support victims next time. You can decide deep in your heart you know what you did was wrong and feel true regret and sorrow.

But you HAVE TO pick up your mess behind you before you move onto a better path.

Unfortunately, they waited until a documentary was coming out about a twisted thing their names were negatively attached to to make a public statement about how they’re feeling about it. And Drake is not wrong to say “that really doesn’t make me feel better. You may have been remorseful for 20 years but for 20 years I’ve been haunted by what was forced on me and humiliated by the people who didn’t care enough about me to not write character statements for my abuser.”

The damage is irreparable and Rider and Will will have to live with that for the rest of their lives. But my hope and wish is that will (or already have) reached out to Drake privately and apologized.

#bad judgement call + 20 years of inaction makes them look mighty shitty #rider strong #will friedle #Drake bell #quiet on set #I’ll still listen to Pod Meets World #Ned’s can get fucked though I haven’t listened to those assholes since Lindsey liked an insta comment calling Alexa Nikolas crazy or psycho #opinion

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I have someone coming to look at my broken dryer today, and I asked for them to come in the morning to get it out of the way.

The window for them to arrive is 9am to 1pm.

#me for the next 4 hours #personal #adulthood

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Another thing that haunts me about this entire thing is that Amanda wasn’t just funny like her coworkers, or funny like other Disney and Nickelodeon actresses. Amanda Bynes was funny like Carol Burnett. Funny like Lucille Ball. She was effervescent and classic. Her comedic sensibilities were deeply intelligent. She had *it*. And she should have grown into one of the best actresses of our generation. But *something* happened and derailed it all. Even if she’s not the same, I truly hope she’s well and happy. I want nothing but the best for her, even if it’s a quiet and private life. I adored her back then and always will.

#Amanda Bynes #quiet on set #it feels ghoulish to hope she comes forward with her story #we aren’t owed anything #I think she just felt like a friend to everyone and we all want to know how to help our friend #whose ass do we need to kick #can we fight for you can we support you can we help you with what you’ve gone through #dan schneider #Nickelodeon #the Amanda show #I spent so much time on amandaplease.com at the library

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Nothing I’ve read has changed me more than “you do people a favor by accepting their help” like I repeat this constantly to so many people because it’s true!!! People like to feel useful, they like to feel kind, they like to feel like they have an ability to impact people’s lives so just let them!! Not everything is a thing to be owed back — accept people’s kindness without making a competition out of it

#personal #my husband is so good at this #I struggle to know my value and to connect with others #my husband is the king of having a friend who deals in the exact thing we need assistance with and repaying favors with his own skills #my favorite extrovert

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I anticipate Quiet On Set getting a second season. Jay Lewis wrote that Facebook status, more people are going to crawl out of the woodwork with their stories now that they’ve seen their peers doing it.

#quiet on set #nickelodeon #Jay Lewis

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I’ve been able to catch a couple pieces of Quiet On Set on various places on the internet, and I have a lot of thoughts. This is one of them: I was an uptight religious child and I thought the Amanda Show segment “Popper Pants” was weird and suggestive as a child watching it. But I never wanted to be seen as a prude so I forgot about it until I remembered it again this morning.

Guys, these kids are yanking each other’s pants open and pouring things down them? Having them bend over so they can rip holes into each others pants and eat what’s inside? Knowing what we know about the climate in the writer’s room, this is INSANE

https://youtu.be/9OJ6ETM1D7o?si=srApJE5wZlC0vvzf https://youtu.be/9OJ6ETM1D7o?si=srApJE5wZlC0vvzf

#quiet on set #Amanda Bynes #Drake bell #dan schneider #the Amanda show #groSss #Youtube

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Could you please fill out this survey based on your experience?

Thanks for hanging out with me! Was I cool? did you like me? What do you think of me in detail? Do you hate me?

#ha

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wow, this is a generous perspective ☺️

If you're lamenting the fact that you used to be able to shoot through a 500-page novel in like a day when you were in middle school and now you can't, it's worth bearing in mind that a big part of that is because when you were in middle school, your reading comprehension sucked. Yes, mental health and the stresses of adult life can definitely be factors, but it's also the case that reading is typically more effortful as an adult because you've learned to Ponder The Implications. The material isn't just skimming over the surface of your brain anymore, and some of the spoons you used to spend on maximising your daily page count are now spent on actually thinking about what you're reading!

#mental health #reading #personal

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As many times as I tell my sweet beautiful daughter his name is Kermit, she points to him and calls him Ricky

She calls him Ricky because she knows frogs go “ribbit” but she can’t go ribbit. She makes a frog noise that sounds different every time. “Riddy…..Ricky…..Rickit…

#crebit or dedit #sir is this a game to you?? #personal #kermit the frog

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So far since I’ve been back on tumblr I find myself revisiting my childhood interests and reminiscing. I keep asking myself “what am I doing here” and maybe that’s it. I’m like, completing my childhood

My favorite grandparent died when I was 11 and I feel like I moped for the remainder of my adolescence and here I am like “damn, i really am not a kid anymore” at fucking 29 years old 😵‍💫

#personal #she’s so emo #also the anniversary of her dying is at the end of the week so maybe that’s why I’m a lil fucked up about it