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#1290 #I'm trying to clean them out #oreo rambles

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#she's helping omg #floofers #spring cleaning

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so I found out I had skull deformities in the funniest way possible

#spring cleaning

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i just feel strongly that work shouldnt be the Main Activity of five days out of the week

#dystopia now #spring cleaning

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julianradwildlife

#floofers #your honor I love him #spring cleaning

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love watching interviews with female pro athletes as evidence that Jock is gender neutral

#so true #and we love the lady jocks #oreo does sports #spring cleaning

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bonus:

caitvi + TV Tropes

requested <3

#caitvi #arcane #spring cleaning

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this is so real

#spring cleaning

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#Love? In this economy? #spring cleaning

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Drop the fundraiser link forehead

listen lol I would and I appreciate the thought but it does have my actual name on it and I'd prefer if Tumblr had to do like just a lil more work to dig up real life information about me ykwim just on principle

#oreo rambles #ask pile

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Kaoru Yamada

#art

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i think about this comic at least once a week

#it me #spring cleaning

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ADHD at night: I could write a book. I could get my Master’s Degree. I could go to the club and come home with 12 new friends. I could get a job at that club and meet the mother of my children. I could cure every disease and use my wealth to bring world peace.

ADHD during the day: Fold laundry too hard :( Come back next week

#I hate how true this is #like hello everything is okay #oops I got some sleep and now I am awake enough to understand that everything is not #mental health #spring cleaning

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A lot of sentiments I see online about "just standing up for yourself" fall apart when considering that a common consequence of "standing up for yourself" is losing a key part of your current support network. It's hard to tell someone to stop being transphobic to you when you carpool with them to work, and it'll get a lot more expensive without them. Can your budget tolerate that cost, or is it the expense that stretches you too far? It's hard to tell someone that they need to be more polite to you when they're the one who helps walk you through legalese. Can you find someone else to do it for you, or are you left floundering? It's hard to tell someone to stop being sexist to you when they're the one writing your reference letter. Do you have someone else who can be your reference, or are they the only one whose letter would be accepted?

In order to be able to stand up for yourself, you need to be able to bear the potential consequence of that person leaving. You need to either have redundancy in your network, or be able to pay for what they did for you. Safety is about more than if someone will hit you.

#food for thought #sometimes it isn't as easy as it seems

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My mom started a meal train/fundraiser to help cover the gap between workman's comp and my usual wages and man I am so grateful but also feeling so silly about accepting community help over a sprained ankle

#oreo rambles

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Just me thinking about this... forever

#Noah Kahan #Love? In this economy? #Spring Cleaning

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Just realised I put on my lipstick the same way my friend does, and it makes me think. My favourite ice cream is my childhood friend’s go-to, even if we don’t speak much anymore. My favourite flower is the one my college friend sends me pictures of because they’re her favourite. What am I but a collection of fragments of all the people I care about? Isn’t that precious enough? Isn’t it?

#Love? In this economy?