“that was one of my biggest issues. […] maybe i could’ve made the video in 2014-15 and it would’ve just been half of what i made this time. but then when, you know, society started like talking about gender identity suddenly i had this moment where i was like ‘well what the hell do i even feel anymore?! i don’t know how these things work,’ and especially when you like go on twitter and tumblr and see people just arguing so specifically about all these labels, it just made it so much more stressful. where i was just like ‘oh well i just want to come out as something so it’s not this weird secret anymore,’ but then i just felt all this stress. so if anyone else is feeling like that… i don’t think you have to feel that stress. i think you can just come out as a you, you could say something and then change your mind. it doesn’t matter. [be a] formless blob.”
December 5, 2009: “I just got the best text ever #happydays #distancesucks"
I love this tweet so much because you can tell they were in the "I wanna shout it from the rooftops” stage of their relationship and that’s ADORABLE. Happy 10 years! 💘💘💘