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this might be because I’m a family law lawyer and also an old crone who remembers when marriage equality wasn’t a thing (as in, marriage equality only became nation-wide two months before I went to law school), but I have Strong Feelings about the right to marry and all the legal benefits that come with it

like I’m all for living in sin until someone says they don’t want to get married because it’s ~too permanent~ and in the same breath start talking about having kids or buying a house with their significant other. then I turn into a 90-year-old passive-aggressive church grandma who keeps pointedly asking when the wedding is. “yes, a divorce is very sad and stressful, but so is BEING HOMELESS BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT ENTITLED TO EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION OF MARITAL PROPERTY, CAROLINE!”

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this too shall pass

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Exactly

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rainy saturday

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no but the feeling I get when he put his head over my shoulder and I get to smell his perfume. When he brushes his hand against mine. When I look at his arms. When we joke around and touch each other. When he genuinely says something adorable about me. The way he stand and looks at me when we’re talking. The attraction could kill me. We were both refraining ourselves because we agreed this wouldn’t go anywhere but his body language was still so loud lol also I realized I spontaneously said cute shit I shouldn’t have said

This was the last time we worked together. I’m just going to forget about him but it was nice while it lasted

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No but I’m just so happy I managed to do that ☀️ I felt like my colleague and I were flirting for months but there were also mixed signals (from both sides) and I was unsure. My friends convinced me to openly ask him out for coffee outside of work and when we did that, there was absolutely 0 doubt he liked me

It didn’t work out in the end but as my wise friend said « you went all the way and was able to make a choice ❤️ »

YOU HAVE TO WALK THROUGH THE DOORS YOU BEG TO HAVE OPEN!!!!! THE CHANGE CANNOT HAPPEN SIMPLY BY THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTING ITSELF!!!! YOU NEED TO BE OPEN TO SEE IT, CHOOSE IT, AND ACTUALLY MOVE!!!!!

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Ayra Starr

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I have found things worthwhile in this world: the kindness of a stranger, true friendship, the innocence of a child's laughter, the beauty of dreams, true love between souls, and the joy of writing, to name a few, and while I have also encountered the deplorable I wish to focus my eyes on the beauty and the worthwhile, the things worth saving, the things worth living for.

e.v.e.

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Murcia, España

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