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Hello guys i have good news and bad news.

The good news that I'm finally in Egypt now with my youngest brother and the bad news is my mother and my other brother with his wife still in Rafah waiting to evacute to Egypt.

I feel so sad and depressed for leaving them i should stayed and get out together.

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part of what distinguishes bi women in relationships with men from straight women is that bi women are still vulnerable to homophobia & biphobia even when in relationship w men and that (abusive straight) men will absolutely use that against their girlfriends and that’s something that straight society absolutely does not want to acknowledge or deal with, meaning that bi women in relationships with men absolutely need to be able to fall back on other wlw and the lgbt community in general

#contradictions need excising

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transfems encouraged to add your kofi/venmo/etc; everyone else encouraged to donate 💸

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"you attract what you fear"

oh my god i'm so scared of this femme lesbian who'll let me hold her and take care of her but at the same time she'll take care of me and understand my boundaries like i'm so fucking terrified 😱😱

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Look at that thats pretty cool

#fucking finallyyyy with this law

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I’ve been struggling financially since a house fire, we’re finally moving back home this week but I need help with groceries and transportation to work 🥺💖

0/250

https://cash.app/$hoekravitz

https://venmo.com/u/hoekravitz

paypal.me/ryanhawkins23

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i know that "unalive" is part of larger worrying trend of self censorship but if you really are in a situtation where you have to avoid the words "die" or "kill" the english language already has centuries worth of much better euphemisms. the iconic and perennial "six feet under"? the lovely imagery of "pushing up daisies"? "shuffle off this mortal coil"????? literally anything from the monty python dead parrot bit???? you have so many options. please try to be more creative at least

#people need to tap in with writers #mamadou ndiaye has 5000 metaphors for death bcs he's a zoologist

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for my fellow psychotics who struggle with thinking someone is in their house, a method I’ve found that really works are these guys:

i put them on my front door and anytime it opens they ring. that way if i think someone has broken in or i see someone who isn’t there i can think back to if the bells have rung, and if they haven’t i can assure myself it’s not real. obviously it’s not fool proof, like if you are prone to auditory hallucinations, but it has really helped me calm down in time to avoid major psychotic breaks. it’s a real lifesaver

nonpsychotics encouraged to rb

#thank u #i get auditory hallucinations so i snap my fingers and talk to myself a lot

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Fish-rice integration is exciting. You harvest both fishes and rice on the same land. Do you like it?

#KXVSSKDBEKFHSKSBWKSBDKAGSKACDWJVSSKXNL

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Also I’m confused why anyone would dislike stone bottoms/pillow prince(sse)s when they’re the clear match up for stone/service tops? If it’s not your thing then they’re not for you so step aside and leave us to dance. Not everyone has to do it the same way.

#stone4stone is holy actually

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If you have anything personally stored on a OneDrive account, pull it immediately. Microsoft is going to try to cover their ass. Don't buy the PR spin they're going to push. They're shutting down all the accounts in the area to claim neutrality when they're forced to divest. Israeli soldiers have been using OneDrive to store and share their horrific crimes.

Op has said that it's not just his account that got suspended but many other people around him as well

#contradictions need excising #this is a blanket method #They're going to kill all the accounts made in gaza so they don't have to face legal consequences #for storing those war crimes and not reporting them #when israeli soldiers use their services #but they know exactly what the fuck they enabled for decades

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no sorry I’m going to get shit for this but genuinely I feel like if older butches, or even just butches now heard the way some of the people on the internet talking abt femmes irl you would get smacked or at least told to shut the fuck up 💞 and no being femme doesn’t make you a good person, but I genuinely can’t believe some of the ways I hear femmes talked about.

#yup #I'm only 28 but i take those lessons serious #I'll beat anybody's ass over a femme #not over here

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Hahahaha that's funny. No if I say anything negative towards him he'll beat me up and I'll become homeless

#people forget that abusive parents also have positive traits #as their first victims we'd rather not always talk about the worst parts #especially when they have that much power #I'm still trying to leave my own financially and medically abusive situation #my parents have always kept me fed and clothes #*clothed #but my dad did beat me for sharing when i was like 10 #and he stopped when he realized i would hit back #by 17 he was scared of me #not scared enough to support me financially or support me getting healthcare though #he still had that power #and he's never let it go #a father is a toddler in your house with a salary #good luck op get your coins

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There is a long long conversation that I want to participate in and highlight about race and the Palestinian liberation struggle because 4 things are true:

1. Hypervisibility is not a privilege of the exploited. It's a harrowing experience to be observed perpetually by a global audience as you resist your own murder. Black people globally are very familiar with this experience. The Palestinian people are both hypervisible and dehumanized to such an extent that their national cause has been used rhetorically by many who are willing to watch and cry and throw pennies but not provide actual support for their safety, which feels very familiar to Black people.

2. Nonblack people globally on average do not recognize Black suffering as human suffering because Black life isn't recognized as human life by the averqge nonblack person. If that feels accusatory, it is. Think before responding to that, ask yourself some questions before you ask me a half baked one because by ethnicity, nationality, status in the eyes of civil society and so on, all nonblack people benefit from the dehumanizing of Black people.

3. Palestinians have used their hypervisibility for the benefit of the struggles of others even at their own expense, even at the risk of their lives, Palestinians have been insistent, for years, that their struggle is connected to the suffering of the whole world and they've been extremely correct.

4. Antiblackness is and always will be a factor in how nonblack people are treated collectively by the media gaze and how that manifests is actually significantly more complicated than "nonblack = positive, Black = negative " because proximity to and empathy for Black liberation is a factor in the treatment of nonblack groups, and when you put yourself out there on your own behalf and the behalf of Black people, your humanity becomes conditional to empire. Empathy for Black struggle, let alone solidarity with Black struggles for liberation, makes targets.

#i was SPITTING #absolutely fucking SPITTING #contradictions need excising #mars in writing

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platforming palestinian joy is just as important as sharing the suffering they're enduring during this genocide. despite continued displacement and bombardment, you cannot steal their joy and spirit. happy birthday to this sweet baby 🖤🇵🇸 may they grow up to see a free palestine

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When a lesbian artist is like boldly lesbian and everyone is like 'omg bi icon, wait maybe she not REALLY a lesbian she sang about a boy a few times' I'm just... world explosion. Chappell Roan and Renée Rapp are lesbians and y'all are just gonna have to cope

#we have got to start attacking men I'm barely kidding anymore fr