āTo be hopeful in bad times is not just foolishly romantic. It is based on the fact that human history is a history not only of cruelty, but also of compassion, sacrifice, courage, kindness. What we choose to emphasize in this complex history will determine our lives. If we see only the worst, it destroys our capacity to do something. If we remember those times and placesāand there are so manyāwhere people have behaved magnificently, this gives us the energy to act, and at least the possibility of sending this spinning top of a world in a different direction. And if we do act, in however small a way, we donāt have to wait for some grand utopian future. The future is an infinite succession of presents, and to live now as we think human beings should live, in defiance of all that is bad around us, is itself a marvelous victory.ā
ā Howard Zinn, A Power Governments Cannot Suppress
I feel like the reason certain dog-lovers insist cats are evil is because they read their body language as if they were dogs. So hereās a very basic guide to common āmeanā things cats do that actually arenāt mean at all if you know what theyāre thinking.
Rolling and exposing belly- attacks you when touched
Does not mean: Give belly rubs! - haha I tricked you!Ā
Actually means: Iām playful! If you reach for my belly Iāll grab your arm and bite it because I think weāre playfighting!Ā
Lazily exposing belly - still attacks when touched
Does not mean: tricked you again!
Actually means: Iām showing you my belly because I trust you. Please donāt break that trust by invading my personal space. I might accept a belly rub if Iām not ticklish and I know you well.
Snapping at you while being pet
Does not mean: I suddenly decided I dislike you!
Actually means: Youāre petting me in a way that gives me too much restless energy. Please focus on petting my head and shoulders instead of stroking the full length of my back next time.
Is in the same room but makes no attempt to interact
Does not mean: Ā Iām ignoring you
Actually means: Weāre hanging out! Iām being respectful by giving you space while still enjoying your company.
Slapping/scratching your hand when you try to pet them
Does not mean: I hate you!
Actually means: Youāve failed to establish that weāre not playing, or the way youāre approaching me scares me. Be calmer, speak more gently, make eye-contact and blink slowly at me before you try again.
To myself, raised in an environment that glorified and romanticized restriction and suffering:
There is no victory in skipping dinner, or lunch, or breakfast, or morning coffee, or dessert.
There is no victory in refusing heaters and air conditioners and fans and heated blankets.
There is no victory in denying yourself sleep, or showers, or movement, or water, or a comfortable bed, or taking the elevator vs. the stairs.
There is no victory in refusing pain meds and heating pads and ice packs and medical help.
There is no victory in punishing yourself needlessly, in telling yourself that this pain you feel is because you are bad to the core and deserve it.
There is no victory in choking back your laughter and your tears, to keep an imagined equilibrium of safety that is really just a dry, cracked, empty, endless emotional desert.
You are here. You are in this body, and this body is yours. You deserve good things. You are alive, and that is messy and loud, and messy and loud are okay.
Itās okay to live abundantly. Itās okay to make mistakes, itās okay to indulge. This paralysis of self-punishment, self-restriction, self-loathing is not healthy or good for you.
Currently creating a Sailor Moon guide to witchcraft, with spells and rituals inspired by Sailor Moon... šš¤ I'm pretty excited about the art for the guide so far!
the way Mike Flanagan and his team allow us to explore the realities of death and dying through the lenses of characters that cannot die. that are stuck. characters that desperately want to let go and are unable or refuse to let go and hurt others in the process. And in the end it is always the realization that we are everything and we are nothing all at once and we are stories. it moves me every time. Every. Time.
get to know me meme | [5/5] favorite fictional females: Usagi Tsukino (Sailor Moon)
āIām Usagi Tsukino, 14 years old. Iām in eighth grade. Iām a Cancer. My blood type is O positive and my birthstone is the pearl. Iām clumsier than others and a bit of a crybaby. Thatās about it.ā
The cast and crew of The Untamed never had ābromanceā in mind; they set out to film a love story, and here is the evidence ā actors having a heated loversā spat about when they fell in love, while directors try to calm them down.
The track they referenced is Shin Bandās āI Love You Even If You Dieā ā a 2002 power ballad about apocalyptic undying love thatās over-the-top yet oddly fitting, especially with its dramatic lyrics re: āus against the worldā, ātill the end of the earthā, and āgo it alone into the darkā.
#exactly how I feel about their love story #its samhain season so I'm thinking about them again #seriously love this show #may have to watch it again for samhain
RE: Dani and Jamieās ending, I think people are missing the point. They didnāt have a ātragicā ending because theyāre gay but rather because they had agency and chose to be the selfless heroes of the story: Dani saving Flora and all the trapped souls and Jamie standing by Dani knowing she would eventually āloseā her.
I fully recognize tragedy does affect gay couples disproportionately on TV. But tragedy is an inevitability in the horror genre and characters should be able to have agency, regardless of their sexuality. (In fact, itās problematic if they donāt, as is often the case.) Dani was always going to make that choice because of everything that makes her who she is.
And they actually have the least tragic love story of anyone. Owen and Hannah never fully get together. Peter destroys Rebecca. Dani and Jamie have ten or so incredible years together and then really are with each other still, even if they canāt see each other.
Plus, it was actually set up early on: love vs. possession and beauty lying in mortality. That is why theyāre the foil for Peter and Rebecca. Dani and Jamie loved each other completely and that was enough for them. That is what makes theirs such a powerful, beautiful and rare love story.
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