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happy lesbian visibility week

#for me the biggest thing I've come to terms with is that a lesbian is just a girl who likes a girl #no dress or bahavioural code attached besides staying respectful

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I thought 'I've seen this film ten times. I won't cry *this time*. I'll just put it on in the background whilst I do something else.' And then halfway into it my whole body was shaking as I stood in the middle of my room and cried my eyes out

watched the curious case of benjamin button tonight. the whole time i like "i won't cry to this!! watch." then they were like "hey old lady cate blanchett! this 13 year old version of brad pitt has dementia, but he remembers how to play a quaint little ditty on the piano" and i was bawling. i amaze myself

#the curious case of benjamin button #cate blanchett #the self pity scene and Queenie's funeral

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The following is from the source (for future reference):

Ballgown of pale gold satin. Full-length. Sleeveless, with thin straps. Bodice and straps are heavily beaded with tiny gold beads. Lower edge of bodice/upper edge of skirt come to points around the waist. Full skirt of pale gold satin. Center back zipper and two hooks. Lined. Retailer's label: Neiman-Marcus Union label in skirt.

Unknown maker in 1956.

• Ballgown

Date: 1956

#fashion history #history of fashion #dress #fashion

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To my two proper friends in this world I can complain just about every tiny inconvenience

And to others when I say I'm a little bit upset I actually mean I would like to kill someone with my bare hands

#me speaks #studyblr #group project #makes me sick

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The eye contact bit:

In both the UK and the Netherlands (two countries I've lived for extended periods, not just visited as tourists) people seem to want you to make eye contact. For me (Chinese, raised in a liberal but terribly introverted Chinese family) the intensity of the eye contact can kill me I'm never going to formulate a complete sentence whilst staring at any part of someone's face. So if my gaze is on someone's shirt buttons or collar band, it's not because I'm not paying attention or staring at their body, it's just that my eyes have to look somewhere and I happen to be interested in fashion and textile (inconvenient I know)

I love learning about other culture's Houseguest Protocols but I hate hate hate when they don't match up cause like

I (PNW Canadian, raised with etiquette from my old British great-grandparents) sleeping over: Can I help with dinner. Can I do the dishes. PLEASE let me do something useful. Im sorry I'm here. I can sleep on the floor it's fine. You don't need to cook for me I can go outside and drink pond water. Do you hate me

My friend (Indian, raised by entire extended family in Dubai) hosting me: Why won't you let me feed you. Do you need more coffee. Am I doing something wrong. Do you have enough blankets? I will buy you warmer clothes. Here, you can sleep in my room, I'll take the couch. Why are you crying? Oh God am I a bad host

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Okay, FUCKERS, it’s time to expose yourselves for the FILTHY SINNERS you are and put your favorite hetero ship in the tags!!

#in my headcanon Sherlock and Irene don't really think about sexual orientations #they just happen to be a man and a woman in love (yes) #Sui Generis #Adlock

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If you had to pick, what's the ONE trait in a fictional character that makes you immediately go "oh this one's mine"

#Lady who does not say I love you but is trying her best to love and be loved #emotionally inept but never ever unkind

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Happy birthday to AO3 🎂🎉

#I love you #all of our volunteers and (most of) our users #happy birthday!

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Finished my buttonhole tutorial video! It's 22 minutes long. Here's a link to the blog post, with a written tutorial for the basic buttonhole (the video has a lot more than that) and source links for all the photos I used in the video, plus a few that I didn't.

#soothing video to put on as I fiddle with my silk fabric #love it though! #vincentbriggs

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#reblog for the comment #the amount of time I spend daydreaming and reading about the same two characters is scandalous

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Michelangelo's statue of David, carved between 1501 and 1504, is known for its remarkable details, particularly in the right hand.

This image reminds me of someone else's hand.

Someone else has had the same idea:

#I saw David's hand first and was like god I wish I could hold it #and then comes the second and third pics and the word violinist came to me even before Sherlock did #then of course I knew that was our boooyyy #Sherlock

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A New Sherlock Edit in 2023???

Everybody Wants to Rule the World

Edited by OneAllysa

#!!! This fandom is alive #Sherlock

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the decrease in costuming quality over the last 20 years has been soooo precipitous & nauseating. i’m not even talking abt marvel’s cg supersuits or anything this time, look at the fabric quality, structure, layering, character, and craftsmanship of older costumes in 102 dalmations (2000) vs cruella (2021)

ever after (1998) vs cinderella (2021)

lord of the rings (2001-2003) vs the rings of power (2022)

this trend should upset you not just because it looks cheap, but because it suggests a strong anti-art and anti-labor movement in film and tv making. don’t forget costumers are unionized

#this THIS #good film costumes bring me more pleasure than any other aspect of motion picture so this is very sad #film costumes

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Which intervention level (individual, interpersonal, organizational, systemic) resonates most with you? Describe an action step you intend to take to advance sexual and gender minority (SGM) health equity at this intervention level.

I have always been most fulfilled by making changes at the interpersonal level. Individual changes are probably the easiest to complete but don't have that same sense of fulfillment and organizational/systemic changes are often a bit too daunting and I become easily overwhelmed with so many changes needed.

I have already made some significant interpersonal interventions since co-creating a LGBTQIA+ family medicine curriculum. The one intervention that really left an impact was just openly discussing the community and their needs with a co-resident who was very hesitant about caring for this community and listening to the bad experiences she had had with a member of the community in the past. She felt heard and was then open to taking in more information and learned that several of her colleagues also belong to the community. I watched her become more engaged through further lectures and start to relate the SGM health issues to issues she has faced as a racial minority. She then graduated and went on to provide care for minorities of all types in Missouri, somewhere that desperately needs open minded people like the amazing doctor that I watched her become.

My next interpersonal action step is to teach our new interns about LGBTQIA+ competent care. They are all so excited to learn how to best treat all of their patients. Unfortunately, it is up in the air as to whether our residency will allow me to continue giving regular formal lectures on this topic as there has been a lot of push back from a few opposing individuals. Regardless, me and my colleague who developed the curriculum are seen as experts in this field of medicine, especially gender affirming care, and the interns have already started bringing all of their questions about that to us. While I have quite a ways to go before I consider myself an expert, I do have a lot of knowledge and resources at my disposal and I look forward to teaching them how to best treat all of their patients regardless of my ability to have formal lectures.

#my areas of focus do not currently overlap with this so much but this post series has been wonderful #basically gives me a little faith in fellow humans #how do I tag this?

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pictures of cate blanchett which are lou-miller coded (very important post)

enjoy.

#we always reblog baby cate #precious cinnamon roll #cate blanchett #lou miller #(who's also a cinnamon roll) #ocean's 8

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Every paper I read is like 'okay okay decent introduction' in the beginning and ends with 'what kind of rubbish did I just spend seven hours on'.

#I try not to be studyblr but that's almost all I do these days #studyblr #art history #this is also very specific to the humanities

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If you got enough money to live happily and comfortably for the rest of your life, but everyone who saw you immediately knew what fandom you are in and understood what that means, would you take it?

#yes bc there's nothing to be embarrassed about my fandoms really