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#CelebrateEfforts

Yesterday I was watching a movie “Chhichhore” directed by Nitesh Tiwari. On and around Diwali, everyone was talking about the film, so yesterday I finally got the chance to watch it. As a victim of human behaviour, I presumed from trailer and from my friends, the movie to be a comedy movie plotted in hostel. But bollywood dialog fits here right “Kahani mein twist and turns bhi hote hai”. 

As I sat down watching the movie, in no time I could make out picture was worth entering 200 crore club. But despite picture giving a clear message on Life and Victories and Failures, beautifully portraying various relations and much entertaining, I was not satisfied with the end of the movie. Why? Because the GC championship was not won by the hero. Movie ended in a short time but left me much restless. 

I though was of support that the step taken by a kid in the movie was not correct, I though can understand the emotions picture penetrated in the word “Looser” but still somewhere I still was not satisfied. But after much time, I thought that maybe that was because we are habituated to celebrate successes in our life, but forget to appreciate us on our efforts which is the first step to success. We generally celebrates a child’s first step, appreciate him on his efforts to learn walking but why that all changes suddenly as soon as a child grows up? May be because we forget to say her/him that its OK to fail, its OK to come second. Everyone fail but we generally tends to points success, not failures behind it.

You all must be wondering, we know this all, what to emphasize on it? Pictures and real life are different…and many more such things. But rewind back your life  and think when was the last time you celebrated your efforts, your courage to take the first step. When did you celebrate your efforts of aiming to get to the prestigious college disregarding whether you failed or succeed? 

Movie higlighted the word Looser and how society within no time gives tag of Looser to a person who failed to achieve something in life and how one was not trying to succeed because of his passion but because to save himself from the tag. Take out youself from the swampy mud and fake world that you have created. Celebrate Success but don’t forget to celebrate the Efforts whether you failed to crack IIT, you loose your relationship because you tried your best and put your efforts that most even affraid to put.

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#CelebrateEfforts

Yesterday I was watching a movie “Chhichhore” directed by Nitesh Tiwari. On and around Diwali, everyone was talking about the film, so yesterday I finally got the chance to watch it. As a victim of human behaviour, I presumed from trailer and from my friends, the movie to be a comedy movie plotted in hostel. But bollywood dialog fits here right “Kahani mein twist and turns bhi hote hai”. 

As I sat down watching the movie, in no time I could make out picture was worth entering 200 crore club. But despite picture giving a clear message on Life and Victories and Failures, beautifully portraying various relations and much entertaining, I was not satisfied with the end of the movie. Why? Because the GC championship was not won by the hero. Movie ended in a short time but left me much restless. 

I though was of support that the step taken by a kid in the movie was not correct, I though can understand the emotions picture penetrated in the word “Looser” but still somewhere I still was not satisfied. But after much time, I thought that maybe that was because we are habituated to celebrate successes in our life, but forget to appreciate us on our efforts which is the first step to success. We generally celebrates a child’s first step, appreciate him on his efforts to learn walking but why that all changes suddenly as soon as a child grows up? May be because we forget to say her/him that its OK to fail, its OK to come second. Everyone fail but we generally tends to points success, not failures behind it.

You all must be wondering, we know this all, what to emphasize on it? Pictures and real life are different...and many more such things. But rewind back your life  and think when was the last time you celebrated your efforts, your courage to take the first step. When did you celebrate your efforts of aiming to get to the prestigious college disregarding whether you failed or succeed? 

Movie higlighted the word Looser and how society within no time gives tag of Looser to a person who failed to achieve something in life and how one was not trying to succeed because of his passion but because to save himself from the tag. Take out youself from the swampy mud and fake world that you have created. Celebrate Success but don’t forget to celebrate the Efforts whether you failed to crack IIT, you loose your relationship because you tried your best and put your efforts that most even affraid to put.

#chhichhore #efforts #success #movie #bollywood #celebrations

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Is “DIDI” really on “SAVE INDIA”?

As usually said there are certain qualities of being a “didi”. Being myself a big sissy to my brother I definitely know one must- Setting right guidelines.

But in political vendetta there can be only one didi-MAMTA BANERJEE. So Mamta is setting right guidelines for whom? 

Certainly not for RAJEEV KUMAR. So for CBI?Did she forget, CBI works independently. And CBI never follows any party. It only follows one thing-”TRUTH”. CBI did not even hovers to let the investigation done on it’s own chief- as we all know what happens in the case of Alok Verma. There is a system set in our democracy where every committee function can be judged by it’s above committee. There are only few things left in our country on whom our trust can hold and needless to say “Supreme Court” and “ CBI” are few to name among those.There is a set rule for every thing. In cases of serious investigations, all the bodies have to follow a prescribed procedure. So CBI followed. When our “not so good friends” try contacting us- we atleast response them with our all best efforts. So did Rajeev Kumar forgot his etiquettes- that he did not reply to three calls of “CBI” or he was just enjoying that special attention?

If he was right, he could at least took some efforts to co-operate with the investigating body. We usually say, If we are right, there’s nothing to fear and let the inquiries be done. So what goes wrong with the basic logical thing in West Bengal?Is this a political drama before Lok Sabha elections or is Mamta defending herself in the shade.

But whatsoever the case is, definitely, Rajeev kumar is one lucky man that the significant state Chief Minister is with him, “giving DHARNAS” for him as the same is not even given to the two cabinet ministers of Mamta’s ministry who were detained earlier.

Hope all the news channels covering the news quickly break us the true motive and may we come across the other things happening round the globe.

#bengal #2019 #politicalshows

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FEAR AND DETERMINATION

Fear and determination these are the two most crucial words that can break the one or make the one...

When we head for opting the former one...things begins to decelerate rapidly then it is actually going on and we end up falling on the floor...

But Bollywood gives a bravo line... "Kisi ko itna mat darao ki uska darr hi khatam ho jaaye"😀...

And yes they quoted this absolutely true...But this is not possible with all because some ends this fear by ending their own lives or ending life of some others...

But if we choose the latter one #determination then this heavy word in itself is a complete meaning... Determination to end these situations and start a better life with new phase...If we can come this much far by fighting with our problems ... We can go much further too and finally to that point we can reach where we will get the solution of all these problems...and if afterwards we will look back upon those hard struggling days of ours we would find ...that we have lost nothing in those days...but have gained much...have gained a graceful personality that has now become... Have learnt brilliant lessons...

And this all matter depends on just one word...

#MINDSET

Be positive and always believe that yes I will finish all my problems and will not let my enemy that is my fear to overrule my success...

#tumblr #positive thinking #philosophy

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W O M E N

Yess!! I use to wear the dresses of my choice whether it’s short or its burqa but now does it means you get the license to molest me… Yess!! I also wishes to go out and party till late night but just because you people can’t have control on yourselves so does it means…I should bury all my desires… Yess!! I also want to be Independent and earn on my own to help my family in their every problem…but…because this world is not safe…Does it means…I shall now become dependent on my husband or family… I don’t want to marry but because this world will not let unmarried girl live in peace…does it means…I should kill all my Dreams… My in-laws used to trouble me a lot…but if I raise my voice against them…I would be the only one who will be defamed…So now…I must kept quiet… Few years back…Nirbhaya case was there…then… mumbai…now… Bengaluru case is there…after sometime some other case will be there…People show sympathy…show some protest and then back to the usual routine… I want to ask all those people who show sympathy that ,is that ,that you never called a woman referring “ITEM” , “MAAL”… Why it comes on your ego if some woman refuses to give you her number…if she refuses to go on a date…You ask her that was your choice…but she refuses…that completely depends on her… Sometimes some men used to say that “ALL MEN ARE NOT SAME”…but do you ever think that yeah you are not the one indulge in any kind of violence…but somewhere at some point of life… you are the one watching that violence happening…STOP that…whether it’s a small thing… whether it’s in your home,locality or a woman being insulted in a casual group talk…Respect her opinion… Respect your wife your girlfriend your friend… Give your generations a better world to live and grow…

#beautiful women #brave #woman

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MENTALITY

What is a gentleman behavior ?

A serious question arising these days... Some says giving your 100 percent in every task you perform...Some says...By talking Gently...Politely only ...your behavior will be tagged as gentle one...By being good in studies...By respecting everyone...etc...etc.

IS IT SO ?

Don’t think so... Because ...What is the use of all this if he is not having a good...positive thinking...If that person is not having a healthy mind...

Oh..k...

Suppose that the person is called at some place to take a decision because his behavior is gentle...His voice is polite...But do you think that will help the victims to get justice. NO . That will probably be done by his good positive thinking...

Yes...When you have a good positive thinking...then definitely you are a gentleman...because...our thoughts...our mindset...defines all about us...

A Healthy Mind Is The Need Of Our Society...

Have a clear mindset...And...Help building this Society a better place to live..,.

#positive thinking #mental health #inspiration

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Just Earn Your Feelings… Then You Get To Know The Worth Of Other’s Feelings…“

#inspirational quotes

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MISTAKES AND INSULTS

Hello EveryOne !! 

I am here with my new blog again !!

Just Sitting and Thinking what should be my new Topic for my Blog... I get a Idea to why not write about Mistakes That We Commit and After that the Insult we have to bear...

Are we GODS...??? Yes we all know there is no-one like God on this beautiful Earth , there is only one God ... But still we expect that we should not make any mistake .. Are we Serious ...??? Hows That possible... we are mere Humans and committing mistakes is our Nature ... Yes but after committing mistakes we should heartily feel Sorry !!! This of course human nature includes.

Now-a-Days , I think there is in the air... that we commit mistakes but feel hesitate to say Sorry ... Why ? By saying Sorry ... Do we become Small ? 

People commit  mistakes and to hide that mistake in order to avoid Insult they commit another mistake . And Hence the Chain follows . 

A Simple rule ... If u commit mistake , accept it , say Sorry , and get free from the Guilt . Talk and Think sensibly ... We are humans ... Making Mistakes and Learning from it is Our nature ... But making Mistakes and then Making Other Mistakes in order to hide our previous one is definitely not Human nature . 

Learning From Mistakes Makes Man Stronger But Avoiding Mistakes For the fear of getting Insulted Is killing Our Strength . 

In The End Only Have To Say ... Accept Your Mistakes , Learn From It , Stand Up .

#inspiration #success #motivating quotes

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CONFIDENCE

Good Morning Everyone ! 

This is my first blog today . Hope this will be going to become a wonderful experience and habit for me ... and ... furthermore help me in gaining my happiness in my experiences...

CONFIDENCE what we called...is becoming a common word nowadays . Where ever we go we came to hear that she is having confidence hence she can do this . He is having confidence , he can get job any where. But do we try to think that from where they are getting this confidence . Does this comes by practicing or some have born with it only :-D . Actually it is not like that all. To gain confidence one must have knowledge about the stuff he or she is talking about or working in . Then with your right behavior right words right attitude , you can kill anyone with your confidence . My Mom use to say that to gain confidence u don’t need to practice to get it in your routine , you just have to grab the knowledge about the subject you are dealing with and then if you are disciplined you are doing your work at right time with right pace then there remain no gap between you and confidence ... Like if you are going late to your office to your college getting scolded by your boss your teacher in front of others then this is definitely loosing your confidence, you are being tagged as irresponsible , lazy , in other’s eyes that’s not good for your image . And on the other hand if one is punctual , reaching his office on time and then getting praised by his boss his employees will definitely raised his/her confidence...

So just change your little habits that is by being punctual having kind humble behavior grabbing knowledge about each and every thing you are dealing with--- Will definitely help you in raising your CONFIDENCE .

#philosophy