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My mom was telling me she was feeling Doomy. I said oh no, I'm so sorry mommy. She said it was making her feel crappy. I'm like, yeah I imagine it would.

She laughed at me I'm like ??

She reiterated my comment and was like "you've gotten very-- do we need to give you empathy shots?"

And then "that was a very neurotypical thing to say"

LeGASP

I was so offended. More than the empathy jab 😭

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I was sitting on my bed when mom came in like

"I'm sorry you never sleep!-- that outfit is really cute

*gestures to the ensamble* -with the boobs and everything"

Lol thank you?

I told her I almost decided not to go but I was feeling better. She said that was good, my boobs shouldn't stay cooped up in the house

She came back to tell me there were going to be gale force winds today, but, (my boobs) were real so it shouldn't be a problem (?? 🤣)

Lmao it's not even a boobily shirt I don't know what's going on

I thought the most impressive thing was my coordinating bandana and the fact I happened to find a necklace with all the colors in my outfit

It's like linen pants with denim blue, peach, beige, Grey-brown.. my necklace has all the colors. And my bandana is peach silk. Top is a brown blouse. Stretchy collar but it's not low or anything. Elbow length elastic cuffed sleeves. Vaguely peasant-y?

Mom came in wearing a much more pretty outfit than our usual Friday attire. She came over to pick out a scarf. In the search I found a thin brown scarf lined with layers of beads it goes so weeeellll

I didn't try to be so accessorized...

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saw a poll about dry/humid heat and like OBVIOUSLY everyone preferred dry heat but. would love to know what everyone considers to be “too hot”

me personally it’s a hard cutoff at 75°F. don’t need anything more than that thank you 🫶🫶🫶

#75 degrees is perfect. i start feeling miserable at 80 lol

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*emerges from the other room covered in blood* you should see the word document

#lol ouch

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Four fics posted today?? So lucky!

Did I read any of them?

No. Becase my brain is soup.

#well. i did get the one in #it did take 2 tries tho

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My sister is dictating for nephews writing. Spelling each word.

They get to "her" and he notes: "There's a 'he' in her."

I was in the middle of a smut fic, i cannot be held responsible for the amusement it brought me 🙉

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The only thing stronger than the power of friendship in anime is the power of homosexuality

#Naruto? Naruto.

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there was a tiktok I made a while ago basically saying "your abusive ex boyfriend is more likely a misogynist than a narcissist" and while most people agreed some said I was victim blaming(?) and that I couldn't know what their ex is like, and while obviously I don't, every fucking person describing their narcissistic ex is describing a typical misogynist. ask yourself, is this behavior you associate with narcissism directed at women or does he treat his male friends the same way? is his general functioning in life impaired?

many people don't seem to know this, but a mental disorder is NOT based on symptoms alone, it's based on how much the symptoms actually impair you in daily life. most people could look at a list of mental disorder symptoms and identify either themselves or someone else with them. as far as a narcissistic personality, we all know people who appear more self absorbed than others, but this is typically subclinical narcissism (presence of narcissistic traits without significant impairment of functioning) which is not a disorder. there is also a misunderstanding of what npd is. a narcissist is not a supervillain invincible to emotion. npd is a defensive reaction to trauma that lead to deep insecurity and fear of being seen as weak or vulnerable. so narcissists aren't actually "in love with themselves" at all and often are diagnosed when seeking help for other issues such as substance abuse resulting from their struggles.

this focus a lot of abused women in online pop psychology have on narcissism is particularly concerning because it completely glosses over misogyny which is literally a huge factor in violence against women. people really only know misogyny as a surface level thing. they don't know it can lead to family annihilation, for example, and is one reason most family annihilations are committed by the husband. it's always "this man is a sociopath" "this man is a narcissist" when the man's behavior is driven by ideology. I am so fucking tired of everything being tied to mental illness and left at that. you know what this leads to? courts "fixing" abusive men by...giving them anger management therapy. guess what? it doesn't fucking do anything because the problem isn't mental instability leading to anger, it's targeted, purposeful abuse. we are getting nowhere

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i think what’s on a person’s nightstand is very telling so reblog this and put in the tags the things you have on your nightstand

#a bandana. as a sleep mask. #hair ties #sanitizer #q tips #earphones #chapstick #inhaler #my glasses

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#scones are sweet... #dats a biscuit. its buttery/savory #👀

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it’s either that or nothing

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Monster under the beds are checking bookshelves now before they act so they don’t get more than what they bargained for

#they need to be checkin that A03 history

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Based on one of the funniest scenes from @prince-liest’s fanfic series 666: Live on Air!

#omfg #that face

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Characters being put in situations is fun until you are characters.

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I was inspired