betsy-is-aroace

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The bisexual to aroace pipeline is pretty much having the right idea and coming to the wrong conclusion. Yeah buddy you're not straight and you're also not gay. No not like that though, the other way around

[betsy-is-aroace]

okay so if sex is so appealing can someone pls explain to me why it also sounds so tiring?

#aroace #asexual #queer #lgbtqia #sex sounds overrated #and I’m probably biased

[betsy-is-aroace]

Desperately trying to find some queer people at my new college

#help pls #aroace #asexual #aromantic #lgbtqia #queer

[betsy-is-aroace]

“no one will want to date you if you say that”

do you promise??

#aroace #asexual #aromantic #lgbtqia #queer

[betsy-is-aroace]

sorry linda, it’s just not gonna work

#good luck Linda #aroace #aromantic #asexual #I got two of these messages btw from different emails

[betsy-is-aroace]

you’re telling me people calling other people “hot” means they find them sexually attractive?? like fr???

#thought it was just a joke #aroace #aromantic #asexual

[betsy-is-aroace]

Reblog this if you think that asexual, aromantic, agender, or any type of aspec folks should have more important roles as main characters

If you have any good ideas on what type of aspec main characters you can think of, share your ideas

[betsy-is-aroace]

#asexual #aroace #lgbtqia #this probably isn’t original

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What’s funny is when I was younger I knew very well the type of people most people were attracted to.

I wasn’t myself but I could identify the type of people my friends would have crushes on, and being able to identify this made me think I also had a crush on them because I knew they were conventionally attractive

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #growing up aroace #lgbtqia

[betsy-is-aroace]

If people can be allowed to identify who they are attracted to, then surely I should be allowed to identify who I’m not attracted to

#that’s everyone btw #I’m asexual #and aromantic #I’m aroace #aroace #aromantic #asexual #lgbtqia

[betsy-is-aroace]

Trying to fight off asexual stereotypes but I skip sex scenes in movies

#asexual #aroace #lgbtqia

[betsy-is-aroace]

I’m aroace but lots of the time I’ll just say I’m asexual because most people assume that it’s both

#aroace #it’s not both it’s two separate identities #aromantic #asexual #lgbtqia

[betsy-is-aroace]

I feel like asexuality was easier to figure out for me personally because I was on a more sex-repulsed side. Like the idea of sex for me is unappealing. But then for being aromantic I love the idea of romantic relationships and consume the most media on it. Which is why I was in denial for a long time even though I wasn’t attracted to anyone.

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #lgbtqia

[betsy-is-aroace]

I need more songs that are specifically about not wanting to be in love, my Spotify playlist is tragically short

#aroace #aromantic #queer

[betsy-is-aroace]

I do not understand romance and I’m okay with that.

#aroace #self accepectance #aromantic #asexual #queer

[betsy-is-aroace]

my first boyfriend was a guy at school who asked me out on the bus and I remember it was like 3 months of nothing. no hand holding. no kissing.

and I was totally chill with that I was like ah we’re young it’s not like we have to do anything. and I remember telling a friend that romance is like having a friend with a public label. and. wow.

i also remember hearing about other people our age doing stuff and realising I did not want to do that at all so I broke up with him

#little me was clueless #aroace #aromantic #asexual #queer

[betsy-is-aroace]

I remember getting the ‘talk’ in school and the teacher saying ‘everyone will have it someday’ and ‘when you meet the right person’ and I just remember absolutely panicking

#signs and shit #it’s funny looking back sometimes #aroace #aromantic #asexual #queer