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barbthebuilder · 5 days
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Hey guys, just letting you know I'm taking a break!! My finals are coming up so I need to focus on studying only now. I will be back in a month or so. If you see me lurking here, remind me to get off tumblr lmaooo. Anyways, wish me luck and see ya guys soon!!
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barbthebuilder · 5 days
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PAHAHAHA THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I'M SEEING THIS
Well, I consider you my moot since you're quite active on my sideblog and also you're funny. The rest is up to you.
@barbthebuilder you're so fucking confusing. There was the whole thing earlier, but now I don't even know if you're one of my non-mutual followers. You're following me, and I'm not following you, but I am following your sideblog so I am kinda following you, and am I also one of your non-mutual followers as well cuz I'm following your sideblog but your main blog's following me? Are we following eachother without being moots?
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barbthebuilder · 6 days
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I've seen people say their gender is like a 404 not found but mines more like a 502 bad gateway. It's there! I jus don't know whats goin on with that thing and I can't communicate w it.
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barbthebuilder · 6 days
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I've seen people say their gender is like a 404 not found but mines more like a 502 bad gateway. It's there! I jus don't know whats goin on with that thing and I can't communicate w it.
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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genderfluid culture is changing your gender with the seasons or smth
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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The urge to cut your hair in a style where people question whether or not you're a man or woman is very strong rn
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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Felt like a fraud when I newly came out because I didn't shift genders really fast..
Btw I'm a YouTube migrator so yeah Tumblr was really freeing for me. :')
YOURE NOT A FRAUD. THE BRAIN LIES
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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YOOOO that's so cool! I'm happy for you dude :D Let the gender euphoria be upon ya <33
MY BINDER ARRIVED!
NOW I GOTTA SEE WHEN IM GONNA GO COLLECT IT FROM MY FRIEND'S BUT ITS HERE!!!
AJAYDKEGAJAAGSUSBWUANA8ANA7AANISSMSJA.A
Im so excited to just slap my chest and hear a slap sound instead of a muffled sound, and feel it firm instead of jiggly. I see it on all the videos and every time they do i just get a pabg of just... desperately wanting to feel that
Its my first one ever!
Edit: they're gonna give it to me at school on monday
Its saturday
Im admittedly getting quite impatient but i guess i can wait
If i cant, then tomorrow im gonna ask if i can walk over and get it
Tell my parents that im going on a walk, i mean, i won't be wrong
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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I ID as nonbinary even though I'm pretty sure that I'm actually more genderfluid than enby
I tried using they/them pronouns for a while but it didn't work out the way I wanted it to and ended up going back to she/her/hers because those are apparently the pronouns I'm most comfy with
The more masculine I feel the more uncomfortable I feel in pants and jeans (the more masculine I feel the more I wear dresses and skirts — am if fighting the patriarchy /joke)
This all makes me feel like a bit of a fraud coz society has equated enby in a type of way: androgenous person using they/them pronouns
I know that everyone has different experiences and IDs, I just wish I conformed a little just to make the experience a little less lonely and less confusing for me (even though I mostly understand my gender and sexuality more now)
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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Sometimes I know what gender I am but most days it's a guessing game, even with pronouns
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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people who use/used chest binders, do they work and what was your experience like?
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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We need to normalize people having more then one name! It’s ok if you can’t decide between a few different names! You don’t HAVE to decide, you can have multiple names! That’s ok! And you’re not “lying” or “faking” if you use different names with different people!
I’m not even talking about being a system! Anyone should be able to have as many names as makes them comfortable
And as a system as well if tons of people use multiple names then it also helps hide! “Oh yeah, I’m going by eerie today instead of Leo”
To conclude, if ya want another name, get another name
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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I have achieved gender nirvana
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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Im finally free from the constraints of gender im soooo fucking happy. I used she/her pronouns for me all day. Yesterday i used he/him. I didnt even notice! This is what freedom feels like. I finally found my calling. Im a creature!
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Genderfluid culture is never knowing what your sexuality is because it feels like it switches with ever gender switch :(
yeah
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barbthebuilder · 7 days
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Having a sale at my etsy shop, all the pronoun badges are currently 50p because I didn't think to remove them from the sale and I can't be bothered to change it now, so let my laziness get you some pronoun badges for hella cheap! Plus a badge for those non-binary engineers out there! Link here
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