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A Little Bit of Everything

Bringing the past topic up to date, I’ve changed my mind 180°. Now I am feeling good with myself, so there’s no place inside me to look for somebody. I will live my life…. If someone cross the same path as me, and we sweep off our feet each other, then it’s another story to tell. 

Besides, I don’t want my life to become a Jane Austen book, btw. 

In other news, my thoughts about my mom’s death are reappearing again. It is like very short sadly moments. I would also like to make it clear that they are not melancholic yearnings, they are more like “I wish you were here” or “I miss you mom”. I am missing her so much. 

Furthermore, I don’t want to rationalize this, but I think it’s a common reaction to situations like this.

Concluding with today’s blog, I want you to let me in the comments similar experiences or feedback about what I’ve expressed.

#daily life #mental health #jane austen

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The Beginning...

Hey guys! It’s me again. Today’s blog is about my past psychology session, and questions which have come out after that. Here there are some of them: Do I want to be in a relationship? Am I comfortable with someone right now? Do I feel prepared to deal with someone? What I really want? This and more is going to be solved below. 

Firstly, you are clearly going to want more details of what is all about. Last week, I was questioning myself in connection with why do I get bored while I’m texting somebody.      

We (my psychologist and I) have reached a conclusion: “it’s a defense mechanism, so I cannot get involved with a boy”. 

Continuing with that, I’ve requested myself why I am like this. The answer was crystal clear: there are some business I have to deal with before shedding light on my own thoughts. 

Answering if I want to be in a relationship or not, there’s no a simple way to set free that. One part of me wants to go and get it no matter what, but I am not thinking about the intentions behind that. I would rather all go easy answered, but it’s not my case. I want someone in that way because I guess we’ll share a warm love, idyllic moments, get compromised each other with a true love story and help us to grow up as emotionally mature live beings.

Tell me your opinion in the comments below. <3

#blog #life #psychology #internal monologue

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Welcoming Y'all!!!

Idk How this works, but I wanted to say hello and comment about what I'm going to do with my account. The initial idea is talk about my issues, daily stuff, my complaints, etc etc etc...

So, I hope you get comfy and interested with me and what I'm going to share with u. See ya!!!

#bookish #daily life #blog #drama