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[abdllesboy8]

اینکه زنی را اجبار کنی به مردانه بودن، به اندازه اجبار یک زن به زنانه بودن محدود کننده است

Choice feminism

#فمینیسم

[abdllesboy8]

If some women are unconsciously forced to be feminine, so it could happen that some women are unconsciously forced to be masculine....!

To impose a woman to be sexually dominant and to be a gentle alpha woman, is a as abusive as imposing a woman to be traditionally feminine

Imposing a woman not to be a sexually submissive is as toxic as coercing her to engage in sex.

#feminism is about choice #no choice is invalid even if it is #the individual is responsible for it NOT you

[abdllesboy8]

No ! Choice feminism is NOT restrictive, your restrictive and objective definition of empowerment for women is restrictive...

A feminism which doesn't support a submissive kinkster woman's right to express her sexualiy and doesn't support her lifestyle of being traditionally feminine by her own consent, is NOT feminism at all and this kind of feminism is as abusive as patriarchy.

#feminism #choice feminism #postmodern feminism #when I searched “choice feminism” in Google its first 20 results was pages containing articles against choice feminism. Isn't Google leftis

[abdllesboy8]

Paraphilias and paraphilic disorders are not the same thing.

Pedophilia and a pedophilic disorder are not the same thing. Voyeurism and a voyeuristic disorder are not the same thing. So on and so forth.

A common misconception I see (oftentimes from well-meaning individuals) is that paraphilic disorders and paraphilias are one and the same. But in reality, the DSM-V has long made a clear distinction between the two.

According to the DSM-V, a paraphilia is simply an atypical attraction (Though what counts as "atypical" has evolved with time, and attractions that were considered atypical in the past are actually quite common and socially accepted today. Take mazophilia -the attraction to breasts- as an example). Paraphilias in themselves are not classified as disorders, and not everyone that has a paraphilia is considered disordered.

A paraphilic disorder is a diagnosable condition in which one's paraphilia causes personal distress/dysfunction in one's life, or results in the harm/risk of harm to another being. Someone with a paraphilic disorder may need some extra help in order to relieve this distress or prevent any harm from being done to others. Now this doesn't mean that people with paraphilic disorders are less deserving of kindness, compassion, and autonomy. They deserve the same respect and common decency as anyone else does. But the difference is clear: a paraphilia is simply an atypical attraction. A paraphilic disorder is an atypical attraction that causes personal distress or harm to others.

Some important things to note here:

Paraphilic disorders are treatable. Paraphilias often aren't.

A paraphilia is needed to have a paraphilic disorder, but paraphilic disorders are not a qualification to have a paraphilia

No, "icky" paraphilias such as pedophilia and necrophilia are not inherently disorders either. They must meet the already specified qualifications to be considered paraphilic disorders

Neither category automatically make someone more dangerous to be around than anyone else. Neither should be stigmatized and we should work to have more open and judgement-free discussions about these topics. Encouraging shame and self-hatred harms more than it helps

The distinction matters to me because I myself am a paraphile. A zoophile, to be exact. I am not distressed or impaired by my attractions, and I have never acted on my desires/hurt another being. My attractions are simply a piece of me that I live with. Being a zoophile is not debilitating to me like how zoophilic disorder is debilitating to many others I know. I don't have the same needs as those who have paraphilic disorders. And it frustrates me to have people describe my experience in ways that don't feel accurate to what I go through, or try to prescribe solutions to problems I don't have. It frustrates me even more when people so boldly proclaim that I'm a bad person for not attempting to cure a disorder I don't have, for daring to be comfortable with being a paraphile rather than self-loathing.

Many a time have I encountered ableist individuals who tell me I'm a bad person for not fitting the image of the poor, self-hating paraphile they can take pity on and feel superior to. Even if I did have a zoophilic disorder, having to walk on eggshells to meet their standard of a "good paraphile" to spare myself from being attacked and outcast would just be detrimental to my hypothetical condition.

The reality is that my zoophilia is not a disorder. It's just something I live with. It's a piece of me that has very little impact on how I live my life. And I'm tired of people trying to make my experiences and my needs into things that they're not. I would really appreciate it if people actually listened to individual paraphiles and what they experience/need rather than prescribing their needs and experiences for them.

Paraphilias in themselves are not inherently disordered or in need of treatment. If you'd like to read more about this subject in a more coherent, less rambly way, I highly recommend this article here

Thank you

[abdllesboy8]

You are NOT radically inclusive of you are anti-para & anti transid!

Being a progressive radical queer isn't to select which queer identity is good and which is invalid .... at least it's NOT radical to be inclusive for X and exclusive to Y.... one can call themselves inclusiontst with the selective customary queer advocacy, but NOT radical at all .

Be radical queer

Be cute

Be tucute

And be cringe ...

Also freak

Then you may call yourself radqueer !

#radical queer #pro transid #rad para #pro mogai #queer anarchy #heteronormativity #mogai coming out #don't be an in closet paraphile #para punk #pro cringe #pro all identities #pro all labels #pro feminism #anti anti #anti nothing #Queer women #non binary #genderqueer #Queer anarchism

[abdllesboy8]

get help pls 🙏

Alright 🙏

[abdllesboy8]

Cutpytiona

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[ID: a rectangular flag with 7 equally-sized horizontal lines. colors in this order from top to bottom: dark grey-purple, red, grey-pink, off-white, grey-pink, red, dark grey-purple. End ID]

requested by anon

Cutpytiona: a xenogender based on the gurokawa aesthetic; a xenogender where one’s gender is cute and creepy at the same time, though the ratio of cute to creepy may vary over time.

Etymology: cut(e), (cree)py, (ra)tio, “na” meaning of or pertaining to

@radiomogai , @imawanokiwaaa

[ID: a light blue line divider outline in blue. in the center is the google bubble emoji. End ID]

[abdllesboy8]

HUNATTENLOVIC

'a gender related 2 hunger for praise, love & attention! it could also be desire for it ^^' coined by the goddess of sleep !!

notes. . for day 02 of/an entry to @puriette's coining event/giveaway !! tagging @accessmogai for image IDs..

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HUNATTENLOVIC

'a gender related 2 hunger for praise, love & attention! it could also be desire for it ^^'

coined by the goddess of sleep !!

notes. . for day 02 of/an entry to @/puriette's coining event/giveaway !! tagging @/accessmogai for image IDs.. /End PT]

[abdllesboy8]

✚ Plushgelic …

A gender related to angels , plushies , and the color white.

[ ID: A seventeen striped flag. The third, eighth, tenth, and fifteenth stripes are bumpy. The colors in order of top to bottom are off white, beige, greyish beige, off white, cream, off white, cream, ivory, white, ivory, cream, off white, cream, off white, greyish beige, beige, and off white. The second flag is the same but with a png of a lamb plushie in the center. The third flag is the same as the first. ]

[abdllesboy8]

proud to be feminine...

I dare to be a gender non conforming boy when society impose to be toxic masculine

#toxic masculinity #gnc #pro feminism #gender roles

[abdllesboy8]

my introduction and DNI

I'm proud :

Choice Feminist/ gynarchist

Radical queer

Rad inclusionist

Anarcha feminist

Anarcha queer

Fat positive/ black positive/ skinny positive

Pro everything/freak

Anti nothing

Pro MOGAI/ xenogenders

My Identities:

Non binary

Cutegender

Boygender

Demiboy

Amab transmasculine

Gender non conforming

Lesboy

Male lesbian

Lesbro

Gaybian

Xenogender

Pro transid/ paraphilia

Msep /multigender

Genderf*ck

Adult baby/abdl

DNI if you are :

TERF

Heterosexist feminist

Exclus (or even critinclus)

Safequeer / critinclus

Anti para/ Anti transid

Anything who is not radically accepting every cringe lables

#dni #rad queer #rad inclus #your inclusionistm is NOT radical if you are anti transid and anti para #queer stance #lesboy #pro lesboy #pro everything #anti anti #anti anti safe #male feminist