Price: Arthritis, primarily in his hands. Knobby knuckles and stiff fingers. They're bigger than they should be, and he's so calloused he can move the wood around in a fire without feeling the heat in his finger tips. Doesn't mean he doesn't like seeing them all slick and wet inside you, or cupped around your soft and delicate skin.
Ghost: His hips, by default of his stature alone, but some genetics too. He groans when he stands up. Whether you hear it or not. He lumbers when he walks, and he feels every step, but he doesn't complain. He thrusts like every motion doesn't cause him pain. He'd gladly push himself as far as he's able, just to see the pleasure on your face.
Gaz: His eyesight. He won't admit to needing help, but there's a glare in his peripheral that won't quit. A flash of light that can be distracting, it gives him a blindspot. You sneak up on him sometimes, and he flinches so subtly you don't even notice. But he instantly knows it's you, and he shows you how thankful he is. Every time.
Soap: His knee. He twisted it funny once when he was a lad, and his skipper told him to walk it off. It's never been right since, but he barely notices anymore. Whether he's hoisting furniture around your flat, squatting at the gym, or pummeling you against the wall, he'll bear all the weight, and then some, with a off hand joke, and a blissful grin.
When he asked me to go on a date with him I didn’t expect him to take me to the library.. especially with a remote controlled toy in me.. “shhh baby you have to stay quiet. You’ll be a good girl for me, won’t you sweetie? Now read this page for me, every word you mess up I’m turning the toy up a notch. And don’t you dare cum”
Look. I’m gonna be that cool friend of yours that sits on the seat backwards to talk to ya. Because we need to make some things clear.
Don’t be a jackass to people. Block or back out.
This is an 18+ space for legal reasons.
This is a queer positive space.
This is a sex positive space.
This is a kink positive space.
This is a body-autonomous space.
TERF and SWERF rhetoric is not welcome here. RadFem rhetoric is exclusionary and hurtful.
Trans women are women; trans men are men; gender exists on a spectrum and we believe people when they tell us what they are.
Sex work is real work. Period. End of discussion. The exploitation of workers is not limited to sex work.
Thinking you’re morally superior to someone else is cruel and perpetuates stereotypes that actively cause harm.
Censoring your words is a violation of consent - people have tagged certain words to prevent them from seeing it. Censoring it violates their choice. (And also? Be an adult. Use the words as they’re intended to be used.)
People deserve to be cared for and have their basic needs met, regardless of status, identity or health concerns. (This includes mental health too.)
If you don’t like any of this, block or back out. Be an adult about it. This is not an airport, you don’t need to announce your departure.
miller- question: which childhood best friend is more likely to guilt-trip you into having a sleepover with him even though you're both adults
soap.
soap is the aggressive don't you LOVE ME ANYMORE I THOUGHT WHAT WE HAD WAS SPECIAL kind. like the constant nagging over the phone, idc if you're with the boyfriend come the fuck OVER. matter fact, stay there he'll sort that shit out. you're sleeping? great, he's coming over cuz he's tired too. he'll tell you that he's used to simon's lawn mower snoring and you kinda snore the same so he'll feel right at home (he thinks it's cute when you get all huffy with indignation lol)
he's the one to interrupt your bf from making any plans with you like aht aht. i'm only gonna be home for a month, you're his til then so he can piss right off.
“A racist woman is not a feminist; she doesn’t care about helping women, just the women who look like her and can buy the same things she can. A transphobic woman is not a feminist; she is overly concerned with policing the bodies and expressions of others. A woman against reproductive rights — to use bell hook’s own example, and an issue close to your heart — is not a feminist; she prioritizes her dogma or her disgust over the bodies of others. An ableist woman is not a feminist; she holds some Platonic ideal of what a physically or mentally “whole” person should be and tries to force the world to fit inside it.”
— An Open Letter to Caitlin Moran by Nyux (via redefiningbodyimage)