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two Edwardian women fencing 1908

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“We’re in 2019. Female hair is CENSORED everywhere. You don’t see it on TV. You don’t see it in magazines or adverts. There is an injunction of society for women to remain ‘soft’ and completely hairless. Just like a little girl. I don’t believe that’s a coincidence. Young, skinny, hairless girls have been very popular in the media for years and it makes me wonder. Who’s behind it all? Who’s perpetuating this message about women looking like adolescent girls? It sometimes feels rather paedophilic. It worries me.” – Camille Alexander. Musician (2019)

“Years ago I did think about getting laser hair removal for my navel hair, but then I realised I’d be paying a couple of hundred pounds just to conform to expectations that I don’t even care about– I’d much rather use the money for a holiday or circus lessons! I think that’s one of the things which annoys me so much about society and the media’s expectation for women to be basically hairless– they’re pressuring us to invest serious time and money and endure pain. It’s a double standard and it’s unfair. Being able to accept your body– hair, scars and all– is freeing. I remember seeing my Aunt Glynis dancing to reggae in the 90s with her armpit hair showing– she looked so confident, happy and free. As a child, I couldn’t put my finger on ‘why’, but I can now. On a practical level, it feels pretty darn good when I consider how much time, money and pain I’ve saved by accepting my body as it is. I like to think that that memory of my aunt being free and totally comfortable in her own skin is one that I can emulate and pass onto other girls and women. It hasn’t always been received well though. At Lambeth County Fair one year, a friend of a friend was seriously freaked out when he saw my armpits. He asked me “what’s wrong with you? Why would you do that?!”, which was pretty amusing but bewildering. It reminded me there will always be people out there who may react and judge me like that. Thankfully, the opinion of people who think like that means very little to me! For me having hair and not caring is a bit like being part of a secret club. When you notice someone else who is resisting society’s expectations and staying hairy you feel solidarity and respect. It’s nice to be part of that.” – Isabel (2019)

“As a teenager, I remember trying to stuff myself into a box of what a girl should be like. It always felt uncomfortable; padded bras, shoes that hurt and shaving rash. Running, swimming and climbing have helped me to see the strength and resilience in my body and to love it for what it is. Growing my armpit hair has been a recent experiment and the longer it gets, the more I like it! I like the way it looks & feels. It has given me a new respect for myself. So I say, embrace growth & if it pleases you, let it all grow!” – Jess (2018)

“Shaving, epilating or waxing hurts. I was tired of suffering, trying to adapt to the image of a ‘beautiful young woman’ society is selling us. Everybody told me to shave. As a teenager, it’s a huge subject among girls; where do you shave? What method are you using? It takes so much time and costs so much money (the majority of hair removal products are also not recyclable). All of these reasons coming one after another motivated me to stop shaving. I would often have irritated skin after shaving and being a very sporty person, the sweat and the friction of my clothes would cause pain.The worst thing was having sex on the second day after shaving my vulva. I didn’t understand why women would suffer and waste so much time on hiding who they really are. By showing my body hair on stage, I would like to stimulate and change people’s point of view. I’d like to motivate women to make their own choices.”

– Darian Koszinski. Circus artist (2018)

“I stopped shaving completely when I was a teenager because of two instances. The first? I got tired of all the time wasted on maintenance and the discomfort that came with it. The second was when I went on a few multiple week-long backpacking trips; it would have been extremely inconvenient to spend hours ripping my hair out, so I let things grow. Being so close to nature let me dive deeper into and re-examine the relationship with myself and the world, acting as a mirror. In nature, there is wild; it is as beautiful as it is untamed. How could it be anything other than that? I felt so relieved and free when I let it grow out. It felt like being able to breathe. It was incredibly comfortable too. I felt a confidence and boldness returning, like I was replenishing some kind of primal power. I will say that a very pleasant side effect of having armpit hair is its ability to ward off rude people whom I wouldn’t care to interact or associate with anyway. Because the people that care about that sort of thing and make it a point to say how disgusted they are, are precisely the kind of people that I don’t want in my life.”

– Kyotocat (2017)

“At this point in life, I feel that the real question shouldn’t be ‘why did you let your armpit hair grow?’ But actually, ‘why did you shave in the first place?’ Please celebrate your body! Own who you are and be that! Those who celebrate who and what they are, are creating a much open and safer space for those who are struggling to understand who and what they want to be in life. It might be easier said than done but give it a try. We’ll then help create a healthier and understanding society with less bullshit than there already is…”

– Alex Wellburn (2017)

“I never stopped shaving because I never started. I do remember my mother shaving when I was younger and I thought that was pretty unnecessary since she was a strict muslim. I later realised it’s a thing women do to look more desirable to men. It really irritated me that the people who reacted negatively to my natural armpit hair were men. Like it was the most disgusting thing in the world. It really gets on my tits. This is just one more reason that I don’t shave it off. It belongs to me and I don’t make noise about the “ugly”; hair on men which are sometimes pretty painful in the eye… But you’ve got to get over it and don’t let these idiots get under it. I would recommend growing it to any women.”

– Ayan Mohamed. Graduate architecture student (2014)

Natural Beauty Photoshoot

#<3 #women #beauty culture #body hair

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“Albina Ysmailova lightens up any chess tournament with her presence. This passionate player has a chess-themed prosthetic hand that she made herself.”

Photographed by David Llada.

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Michelle Pfeiffer whipped the heads off those four mannequins in one take and received applause from the Batman Returns crew.

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Not Necessarily An Old Man’s Game

“Although only 12 years old, this girl has already taken part with a certain measure of success in the British Girls’ Chess Championship. Children of 8 can learn the moves of the game, but they may still be learning something new about the strategy when they are 80. Many British secondary and public schools have chess clubs, and the pupils not only arrange matches among themselves, but they also play against the staff. Chess is the national game of the Soviet Union.”

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HELL YEAH WOMEN !!!

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Quantum physicist Dr. Vera Spillner chats with chess master Arianne Caoili — on the danger that the Large Hadron Collider might generate miniature black holes, 2009.

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AMBER TAMBLYN posing with her dead self on the set of THE RING (2002)

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Frida Kahlo painting while injured.

#my love #women

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Palestinian women at the Women’s Activity Centre in Qalandiya village playing basketball, 1950. (Credit: UNRWA Photo)

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Queen Genepil, the last of Queen of Mongolia, 1920s

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“sexuality is so complicated and impossible to label” - annoying tumblr person about to describe what is literally just bisexuality

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Liberal feminism is not about dismantling patriarchy but figuring out how to do well for oneself within its system. It's not designed to fight it, it's designed to make it tolerable and exploitable for some.

In a world as far gone as this one, I can't even be mad if women want to prioritize their own happiness and comfort until this whole thing blows up or whatever, but I hate that it masquerades as a wrecking ball when it's actually a pillar. Women literally believe that if we all commit ourselves to being Sexy Badasses or Bad Bitches etc. that magically we'll topple the very system that we're fighting to be sexy for.

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#nice #gender critical #gender #tra

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Because there's so many posts on radblr rn about "they dont even know what so-called terfs believe, they're arguing against some madeup caricature" it made me think of this post again:

#a classic for sure. #tra #important