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person: i love cats

also person: i hate narcissists

hypocrisy at its finest...

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Honestly, I think apologizing is just a form of manipulation. It bothers you that the other person doesn't have a good attitude towards you, so you explain the situation, make any excuse, try to make them understand your perspective, and in the end you manage to soften them and change their attitude.

I don't think I've ever honestly apologized. When someone is upset with me, all I want is for them to stop being upset, because their attitude is inconvenient, and the only thing on my mind is "how can I talk my way out of this situation?".

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npd + low empathy culture is "i'm sorry but i don't know what to say. i have no intention of hurting you with my indifference, i just don't feel anything. i can fabricate some answer and rely on cognitive empathy, but it'll only take me so far. i don't know how to comfort you, nor i want to bc honestly i can't really see past my own nose sometimes when it comes to feelings. i just don't feel anything, i am really, really sorry"

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cis women do not feel safe around you i promise lol do you know how many cis women plan on voting for trump this time because they cant stand people like you

BWHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHA

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barely even had to scroll down for this one lol

anyways daily reminder that pleasing a narcissist is NOT thankless. it is very very very much appreciated and basically needed for us to survive, so if you have friends with NPD make sure to tell them they’re doing a good job <33

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npd culture is getting upset when someone higher up on your hierarchy goes on a date with someone way further down bc nooooo you’re better than that, don’t get in a relationship with them or my mental rank of you is gonna drop :(

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NPD culture is this image

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(I’m working on it)

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narcs with their own trauma

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🎉🎉🎉🎉

Narc bingo i made ! + my results. Tried to include both ones on the “higher” parts of the spectrum as well as the “lower” ones

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Inspired by @arrgh-whatever's post on helping ppl with BPD

Edit bc I forgot to add this: Being vulnerable means smth different for different ppl, something that could read as being vulnerable to you can read as just another Tuesday for someone else

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When in doubt worsen your superiority complex x10 and continue to lie to yourself while condemning everyone else whos ever lived

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It's funny how our narcissism influences how we love.

We see someone extraordinary and unique in a person we love. Someone who is finally on our level. Someone we are willing to show what perfect love means — and that they can experience it with us. We want to show them all the wonders of the world, give them a place beside us, with their own throne, beside ours. In the grandiose fantasies, we make room for them and especially for them.

It's not a manipulative, cold-blooded attempt at controlling someone when we do everything to make the person we fell for feel special — because we actually view this person as special. Why else would we want them around us.

Like, the need for association with extraordinary people and fantasies of ideal love are literally in the criteria, so what should anyone expect here?

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"NArcissists only care abuot themselves!!" actually

i just dont care about YOU because you'RE NOT ON MY LEVEL!!!! PEASANT!!!!!

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That precious moment when people call you toxic, manipulative, evil, cruel, and any other "bad" adjective, and instead of feeling guilty you feel drugged on supply. Please, keep talking sweetheart. I'm near divine at this point.

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The responses to saying how "narcissistic abuse" is an ableist term will always be so insane bc it's always like

"you will never understand the abuse we went through"

My brother in Christ, why do you think I have a personality disorder?