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it's immensely tragic and fucked up but also a little funny when someone is so incapable of accepting that they're worthy of love and affection without any kind of justification or ulterior motive that you have to wrap it up in some kind of practical reasoning like hiding a pill in ham and peanut butter to make your dog think they're getting a tasty treat. come closer, sharing body heat will help us both keep warm [waits until you're settled comfortably in my arms] and i like spending time with you and just being near you. lmao. get loved idiot.

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so embarrassing to have a favorite character honestly. like yes that's my specialest guy 🙄 yes i have 200 photos of him saved 😑 if i don't look at him or hear him talk every 2 minutes i'll start killing the hostages 😕 i think about him every day. because he's my favorite. whatever

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Proship dni for my comfort thanks.

I feel like everyone portrays F/Os as these romantic, perfect all around lovers, and while that's all well and good! I prefer F/Os who are flawed, who don't always say the right things. Who can sometimes be petty or selfish. F/Os who have a habit of seeing conflict as a contest on who can talk the loudest, instead of a conversation. F/Os who run out of patience sometimes and have to go cool off mid-conversation, even if they're right. F/Os who struggle to communicate their emotions.

I find comfort in the idea of a relationship where mistakes like that are allowed and given room to breathe. A relationship where, no matter what the conflict is, the walls eventually come down. Maybe it takes hours, maybe days until you're both calm enough to work it out. Maybe it takes several conversations to solve it, but each end in Hey. I love you. I'll talk to you tomorrow.

You're not perfect, and neither is your F/O. That's okay. That can be beautiful, too. There's not a hug that's more comforting than the firm, tearful one after reaching mutual understanding. Knowing that you didn't mess it up too much, you didn't break things permanently. You couldn't if you tried. They missed you... and you've got some serious affection to catch up on.

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once you start saying “yippee!” you will never stop

#its true...

[tranquilove]

Imagine going on a roadtrip with your f/os. Who's driving? Who's in charge of the music? are you using a map, or does the driver know their way around? Are there any unexpected stops? What's the destination? Is it mostly a quiet drive, or is there talking? *Proship dni*

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have you told your platonic f/o you love them today!! maybe you should again just in case ^_^

the first time you say "i love you" is not a date kept in a calendar, but a feeling kept in your heart. if you've known each other since childhood, saying it is easy. you wholeheartedly mean it every time.

bye, i love you, see you tomorrow!

you're always so nice to me... i love you so much!

thank you for coming with me. i love you!

you likely won't remember exactly when or who started saying it. maybe you make jokes about it - you bet on who did, you poke fun at how upfront the other is, or used to be. it doesn't actually matter. you've always cared so much about each other.

but even after you've known each other for some time, one of you may not be that verbal with your affection. the first time one of you says it, it might take a minute for the other to process it.

you know that i love you, right? like... i care about you and stuff? i'd be so sad if you stopped talking to me.

why do i care...? you can't be serious. i love you, obviously! you care about me too, don't you?

the weather looks like it's getting worse over there. stay safe, love you!

it can be said for many reasons. some serious, when fretting over safety; some playful, when teasing over favoritism. sometimes it's said daily, and other times it's said once every blue moon.

it might even be said without thinking. you're criticizing a movie, in a multiplayer with them, talking over lunch with them...

pfft! you're so funny - i love you. i'm so glad we're friends.

you died? you're lucky i love you, because now i have to figure out where you spawned...

i'm so happy i met you. i don't know what i would be doing today if i didn't know you. i love you.

there are many ways to show love. saying "i love you" outright is only one of them. you might even have different perspectives on it.

one of you might avoid saying it in public, either out of shyness or not wanting people to make fun of you both. maybe it's the opposite, where you don't care at all; both of you would shout it across the street to each other, across the world if possible!

in any case, your f/o loves you just as much as you love them. you should remind each other often!

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hm.

#confusing pinned post i saw... #it happens with my platonic posting... someone save m #you can do whatever you want forever. but so can i... you are so blocked #also idk i really do not mind checking blogs. many of you have pretty carrds #but then i must block. for my peace of mind frankly #proship is most often used in contexts i find discomforting and concerning. sorry! #when a blogger is neutral on the term proship itself but specifies to not interact if you do a thing proshippers do - valid #but yeah i just. yeah #what are you TALKING ABOUTTTTTTT. if you're like proship dni. but you agree with them afterward... #anyway about to rb my discord-breaking friendship post because tumblr died. or something

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hey are you busy for the next 50 years? I’d like to sit on the porch with you and watch the sunsets

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tumblr should invent a draft that doesn't post. and an app that works. anyway thinking about platonic f/os again ☝️

#screaming etc #thought a draft got eaten but it was simply on my blog instead #like umm. why are you over there

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have you told your platonic f/o you love them today!! maybe you should again just in case ^_^

the first time you say "i love you" is not a date kept in a calendar, but a feeling kept in your heart. if you've known each other since childhood, saying it is easy. you wholeheartedly mean it every time.

bye, i love you, see you tomorrow!

you're always so nice to me... i love you so much!

thank you for coming with me. i love you!

you likely won't remember exactly when or who started saying it. maybe you make jokes about it - you bet on who did, you poke fun at how upfront the other is, or used to be. it doesn't actually matter. you've always cared so much about each other.

but even after you've known each other for some time, one of you may not be that verbal with your affection. the first time one of you says it, it might take a minute for the other to process it.

you know that i love you, right? like... i care about you and stuff? i'd be so sad if you stopped talking to me.

why do i care...? you can't be serious. i love you, obviously! you care about me too, don't you?

the weather looks like it's getting worse over there. stay safe, love you!

it can be said for many reasons. some serious, when fretting over safety; some playful, when teasing over favoritism. sometimes it's said daily, and other times it's said once every blue moon.

it might even be said without thinking. you're criticizing a movie, in a multiplayer with them, talking over lunch with them...

pfft! you're so funny - i love you. i'm so glad we're friends.

you died? you're lucky i love you, because now i have to figure out where you spawned...

i'm so happy i met you. i don't know what i would be doing today if i didn't know you. i love you.

there are many ways to show love. saying "i love you" outright is only one of them. you might even have different perspectives on it.

one of you might avoid saying it in public, either out of shyness or not wanting people to make fun of you both. maybe it's the opposite, where you don't care at all; both of you would shout it across the street to each other, across the world if possible!

in any case, your f/o loves you just as much as you love them. you should remind each other often!

#💕 #self ship #platonic f/o

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dost thou shit me?

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[tranquilove]

One time a friend told me that if she wanted to have a chill night she would come to me and ask for tea and a book to read. I didn’t like tea at the time, but I always made sure my cupboards had them in case she needed a quiet night. One time I told my boss that I loved oranges, but couldn’t peel them because of my nails. For a year he made sure to peel me one at least once a week. Once my friends gave me a made up superlative of “most likely to have a pen they could borrow” and ever since I’ve made sure I always carry a pen with me. A long time ago, my high school librarian told me that no one would care what my grade in my sophomore chemistry class was if I’m bringing them doughnuts and asking them about their day.

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I should be allowed to just say “I adore you” and “I love you” and “I want to keep you in my life for as long as possible” to my friends whenever I want without it being overbearing. I’m thinking it lovingly at people. I’m beaming my overwhelming affection into my friends via undetectable radio waves

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in another life, I would have loved nothing more than to kill people with hammers with you

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this is a reminder for selfshippers that its okay to make your f/os obsessed with you. so true they WOULD think about you all the time. so true they WOULD bring you up in every conversation. the world could be ending and your f/o would only mourn not getting to give you enough affection

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