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Temptation

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• Wedding dress and detachable train.

Date: 1919

Medium: Silk satin, gold lamé, lace.

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Coco Rocha at the 2024 Cannes Film Festival

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literally amy dunne's entire problem was that she didn't have enough enrichment in her enclosure. and that was ON NICK.

#gone girl #it was the book different than the movie? 🤔 #because the movie was good but it makes it as this is the way some men think about women #like we are also evil and poor nick lol #but i get the point here 😂

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Me parece curioso que el caso de una mujer asesina serial fue investigado de forma diferente a los otros casos donde la mayoría son hombres. Recuerdo este caso pero recuerdo muy pocos detalles.

#méxico #asesinos seriales #serial killers #juana barrasa samperio

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#méxico #femidides #serial killers #asesinos seriales

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#narcosatanicos #los narcosatanicos #adolfo de jesus constanzo #méxico #asesinos seriales #serial killers

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ketzal_coatl

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SCORE!

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Last week I went with my sister to watch the Gurren Lagan movies in the theater. I watched the second part alone because she had work, so she watched the second part until yesterday.

First part was average, but second part was great (for something that is an abriged version of the anime).

The thing is that, while I still like the series, the fanservice aged so bad for me, it totally appeals to male gaze and you can just cut that and we are fine, nothing of value is loss.

When I talked with my sister about the movie, she have also the same problem as me with the visuals, specially the way they treat Yoko and Nia.

I didn't liked how they make Yoko some kind of "waifu-comic-relief" character because of how she is unbothered with her big breast. Kittan making a very nasty joke about her before the final battle was really bad taste. When she gets her own 'Lagan', the Lagan has big breast too.

Then there is that part with Nia while she is fighting and she is naked inside her Lagan and... They really did that long ass fanservice scene to show her nipples, like they totally did that for the fans to ogle her. Nia don't deserved that.

Yoko and Nia where really good female characters, but to be reduced to waifu material was such a disservice.

#for a series that i know is more for men anyway

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Yesterday was Mothers Day in Canada and given that I work at a restaurant, we got to see a lot of families "celebrating" the occasion. And Gyns, when I tell you men are fucking worthless!!

One family came in, mom, dad, grandma, and two young kids. Probably three and five, if I had to guess. As soon as they get in, Dad plops himself down at the table and immerses himself in the menu while Mom takes the kids to the bathroom. Ignoring the fact that Dad could have easily taken his little boy to the men's room to help use the toilet, or at least tried to help in any way. Nope. He just sat and looked at the menu. Then when their food came, it was mom and grandma feeding the kids, making sure they sat still, wiped their faces so they weren't sticky, and actually got the food into their mouths. Dad ate his burger in peace without lifting a finger.

Next family, grandparents, parents, three kids. Two preteens/early teenagers and one kid who was like, 8. Dad and grandpa busy themselves in conversation and don't even acknowledge their wives and children. At one point, grandma asked Grandpa is he wanted to share the fish and chips with her and he completely ignored her. I repeated the question "are we sharing the fish and chips" and he just laughed to Dad about how women always eat your food. I offered to have the cook prepare a 1 pc fish and chips portion for grandma, using a smaller cut of fish, because our portions are big.

Third family, mom and dad with two toddlers. The kids are crazy, they can't sit still at all. I offer that we have some play equipment outside and they can play out there while their food cooks and I'll wave them down when it's ready. So mom goes out to the playground with the kids while Dad sits and enjoys his beer. I bring the food to the table when it's ready and go to wave down Mom and the babies. By the time she manages to get them inside and seated, Dad's halfway done his meal, he couldn't be arsed to wait for them.

Fourth family, mom and dad with two kids, elementary school aged. Kids order their meal and run off to the playground to play with the other kids, so mom and dad have a chance to relax. Mom and I get talking about our beer menu while Dad scrolls on his phone. She orders her drink and he just adds that he'll have what she'd having. I bring the drinks and they're enjoying those when the food comes. Guess who gets up to get the kids. Is it dad? Nope!! Mom again! And once again, dad starts eating before she gets back.

We had tons of families in and it was rare to see the fathers actually take an active role in parenting their children or actually helping their wives. There were a few! And they were great! Like the dad that took his toddler daughters to the play equipment so his wife could enjoy her mimosa and cheesecake in peace. But they were few and far between. So my ladies out there thinking about partnering up with a man and having children, do so with the knowledge that even on a day meant to celebrate you, your husband likely won't step up to the plate. You'll still be the one in charge of tending to everything while your husband sits in his ass and reaps the benefits of your work.

#my mom and my dad are 'sepated' (because he don't want to divorce her) and he is living now in another place (he choice to leave) #still he comes to her house and she has not issue #but lately my mom is very bothered and she wonders how my dad lives alone #she is bothered because when he comes he is always expecting 'someone' or her to 'serve him' the food or a drink #my mom is ok if he comes and he wants to eat or drink something from the house #but is like he is incapable of putting the food in a plate and he really need someone to do it for him

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How to know: Is this empowering for women?

Just ask yourself these questions:

-Does that benefit men in any way?

-Is that something society expects women to do?

-Is that something society expects men to do?

-Am I confusing the term "empowering" with "I personally enjoy this"?

-Does that give women real economic and political power as a class? Or is it just an individualistic desire?

-Is that something that endangers women's physical and/or mental health, safety or comfort?

-Does that challenge patriarchy?

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Césarée (Marguerite Duras, 1978)

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god I hate john lennon so much and whenever I see that fucking photo of his hairy br*tish ass naked and clinging on to yoko ono like a bald fucking chimp I throw up in my fuckin mouth

#i love this because when i'm upset i just redirect my energy into shitting horrible men #it always feels better to point at shit men like this

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REBECCA (1940) dir. Alfred Hitchcock

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this could be us