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#me rn if I'm being honest

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look at my lawyer dawg

#AAAARE YOU KIDDDING MEEEEEEEEEE #those rings make me kind of insane in the best way #and his eyes PLEASE #higuruma hiromi

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i feel like a lot of the 'i hate kids' crowd would be more tolerant if they understood that due to a kid's limited experience of the world that 4 hour flight might just be the longest they've ever had to sit still for or that trapped finger might literally be the most pain they've ever felt in their short life or they might not have ever seen a person with pink hair ever so of course they want to touch it or nobody's told them yet that they can't run around the museum and they only just learned cheetahs are the fastest animals so of course they want to put that to the test. how were they supposed to know etc etc.

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tumblr is literally about talking to yourself through text posts or tags and once in a while people get nosy

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I realise that ageism in fandom is, in the grand scheme of things, the least concerning thing about the fandom experience but I need to say this: all you baby adults on here need to calm down and let the real grown adults have their fun too without you hopping in their ask box’s calling them names. You’re going to get old too, okay? The years pass, you will hit thirty and beyond at some point and that’s a good thing! And when you do, you’ll still want to look at pictures of your blorbos and talk to strangers about who you want them to fuck and how they should do it. Life is hard enough right now, getting old and having a job/family/kids/responsibilities won’t change your love of fiction. I just hope that when you do hit those milestones, you will be allowed to do so in peace without being shamed for it by some terrified idiot hiding behind the anon feature.

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Between Us: A mini-series about intimacy

All of the stories in this collection are based on real life struggles with sex and intimacy. The length and characters will vary. More may be added at a later date. This is an adult series. Please mind the tags on each fic. Minors please do not interact.

Sex is complicated. Sex isn't always what you read about or watch in movies. Things aren't always perfect, but they can be made meaningful with the right person. These stories are a tender sort of exploration of what happens when things aren't always what we envision them to be.

needing clitoral stimulation for orgasm (aged up!megumi fushiguro x f!reader)

impotence (higuruma hiromi x f!reader)

hypersensitive to touch (satoru gojo x reader)

reader with a sensitive gag reflex (nanami kento x reader)

sex being interrupted by children (suguru geto x f!reader)

*more to be added as they are written. I will take (polite) suggestions via inbox if you have an idea or character you'd like to see.

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just realized if you want your life to change you have to do some stuff differently. much to think about.

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Sketches 🕊️ °˖➴

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i may be antisocial and unattractive 

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sorry

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my shoes I got on clearance today hahaha

#they are very old lady cool but i love them so much

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Sometimes being an adult is like...I have a bazillion things I SHOULD be doing, and the more I put them off, the more things get added to the pile and then the more stressed I get. So I just kind of shut down. There are things that I think need to be done, things that I want to do, and things that some arbitrary standards says I should do, but I'm incapable of doing any of them because I don't know where to start. But I know if I just start with one thing, the load will lighten and I'll wonder why I was ever stressed in the first place.

#instead I am standing on the porch with a cigarette and typing out my woes on tumblr dot com

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The thing about the final fantasy franchise (I'm talking specifically about the ff7 remake, which I've already put a few hours into) is that one mission bleeds into another that bleeds into another, and next thing I know, it's 1am and I'm still saying "okay. Just ONE more and then I'll go to bed."

#it's SUCH a beautiful game #but man those battle sequences are intense. everything moves so fast and it's hard to keep up

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Not people saying “Fandom has always been like this” in that vent post I made. No. It hasn’t always been like this. Fandom has NEVER been like this until recently and if you were in fandom pre-tumblr purge, pre-twitter, pre-netflix boom, pre-tiktok….then you would fucking know it was nothing like this.

We still had the drive to create. We still sold prints and charms and made zines…but it was never like this.

The introduction of streaming, binge shows that drop all at once, tiktok and vine RIP i still love u vine but you were the beginning of a particularly ugly era) creating this bite sized, quick paced ‘content’ era of creation and it bled out into fucking everything else.

Fandoms didn’t die down when the show ended or the season was over. You didn’t mass unfollow artist, writers or moots just because they changed fandoms. There wasn’t this need to please the algorithm in order for your posts to get seen by people and enjoyed.

Fandoms used to last YEARS. Star Trek is literally the oldest running fandom out there and you got people in there that could care less about the new stuff and still have been happily prancing through their fucking fifty year old fandom today. Hell, even SPN after all it’s fuckups and shitshows has a dedicated fanbase STILL creating tons of art and fic.

There is no patience anymore. No calm feeling of taking in fandom and friends at a pace that which doesn’t make you stressed and is still fun.

Do I blame fandom for this? Of course not, but people are complacent with it and start changing their vocab to accommodate and end up making the situation so deep it cant be fixed.

We call Art & Fic Content now, completely stripping the value of what it is to a level of consumerism instead of personal entertainment & community bonding.

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#blowing up a power plant hahahah

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mm....actually, I shouldn't post that here.

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I log on… I spam post….i embarrass myself….i leave