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[therealdesitalk]

What specific aspects of gender equality do you think are unrealistic or impractical to achieve and why?

Talking about gender equality and trying to bring the genders to the same feels like a joke , no matter what there will be difference and either gender will have privilege over other

[therealdesitalk]

I feel that it shouldn't be like this that woman always have to sacrifice for everything and what's the point ki shadi ke bad wo apna ghar chhodhegi koi sense hai is baat ka? Who made this rule na hi Constitution me likha hai and i think we should spread awareness about this among people especially girls

I believe that to break patriarchy we need to be aware of the things happening in our homes This question always lingers in my mind - Who created the rule that a girl must always leave her home at the time of marriage? This rule isn't even written in the Constitution.. It's a rule created by an individual that no one has ever questioned..Why is it that a girl always has to leave her home? When will the day come when girls won't have to leave their homes ?

[therealdesitalk]

I believe that to break patriarchy we need to be aware of the things happening in our homes This question always lingers in my mind - Who created the rule that a girl must always leave her home at the time of marriage? This rule isn't even written in the Constitution.. It's a rule created by an individual that no one has ever questioned..Why is it that a girl always has to leave her home? When will the day come when girls won't have to leave their homes ?

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[therealdesitalk]

Casual relationship morally galat hai?

Situationship pe apki raay?

Love is a fantasy? Or is it real?

Why love fades? If it is real?

- Whether a causal relationship is morally wrong depends on what happens and why like situation pe depend karta hai something bad happens because of the relationship like harm or deceit it's probably wrong but if it's fair and doesn't hurt anyone it might be okay it's important to think about what's happening and why to decide if it's right or wrong

- Situationships aren't necessarily wrong but they can lead to confusion or hurt feelings if everyone involved doesn't understand or agree on what's happening but i dont like to be stay in Situationships so i just say it's important to communicate openly and respect each other's feelings to avoid any misunderstandings or problems

- Love is real not just something from stories its about feeling deeply connected and happy with someon but it's important to know that real love takes work and understanding to make it last sooo while it may seem like a fairytale sometimes but love is something genuine and special

- Love can fade because people change or they stop paying attention to each other sometimes problems or stress can also make love fade its important to keep talking and spending time together to help love stay strong

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[therealdesitalk]

What is the definition of intellectual?

What is the role of ethics in life?

Definition of Intellectual

The actually meaning of intellectual contains a lot of things but in simple way you can say an intellectual is someone who enjoys using their mind to learn think critically nd solve problems They're curious, love ideas, and are often well read and knowledgeable in various subjects

The Role of Ethics in Life

Ethics are your moral compass like it's guiding your decisions based on what's right and wrong they help you navigate life's choices with integrity and fairness and strong ethics build trust and positive relationships in both personally and professionally

In short : your intellect is the engine and your ethics are the steering wheel they work together to get you where you want to go in life on the right path

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[therealdesitalk]

Are opinions of persons shaped according to their past experiences?

What is the role of the past in decision making?

How to take better decisions in life ?

Are opinions of persons shaped according to their past experiences?

Obviously people's opinions are often influenced by their past experience and our experience shape how we see the world and affect our beliefs and perspectives each experience adds something new to our life or understanding and can influence how we think how we talk how we create relationships with people and how we feel about different things .

What is the role of the past in decision

The past is like a teacher for decision making it shows us what worked and what didn't in the past we can make better choice now it's like learning frm mistakes and successes but while the past is helpful we should not let it control us we should use it for a lessons to guide us ..past encounter things that happened before helps you notice patterns now this means you can predict what might happen next based on what you've seen in the past

How to take better decisions in life ?

Identify your core values like focus on things that are truly important to you this will be your guiding light for big and small choices what matters most? Is it security, adventure, creativity, or something else? Journal your thoughts.

Second is that we all have biases that skew our thinking recognize your own biases like the tendency to be overly optimistic and how they might influence your decisions

Next is give yourself time to think through a decision especially a big one dn't let pressure force you into a quick choice you might regret use paper and pen to help you create fast decisions.

Last is brainstorm at least 4 potential solutions Sometimes the best option isn't the most obvious one

[therealdesitalk]

Talking stage se aage baat nhi jaati?

Kya karna chahiye?

i guess you have to analyze the things that you haven't done well calmly notice your own shortcomings as well as those of the other person and analyze whether or not i will do it in the future so that the talking stage doesn't end for mee and you have to be patient

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[therealdesitalk]

i understand what you mean i like dressing up for pictures but it's confusing when some girls say they don't dress up for attention like me to ek saal girls school me padhi hu and mere ko alag alag chize sune ko milti thi like they say they we dress up for men yet feel uncomfortable when guys sexualize them its like a mixed message i don't favor one gender over the other it's just hard to understand when things don't add up I'm just trying to understand ki ye sab ho kya raha hai but It's important for everyone to be clear and honest about how they feel

Namaste everyone

ive come here today to share something with you all ive been thinking why not ask everyones opinion on this - one day a few friends from my tuition and i went to the mall it was one of the girls birthdays so she wanted to buy a nice dress we went to a showroom and she ended up picking a backless dress that was quite revealing

i asked her " The dress is so revealing like don't you feel uncomfortable? And tuje wese bhi bahar jana hai Celebrate karne and tune aj tak kabhi esa kuch pehna nahi " she replied " Hn I know but I want attention from guys isme bura bhi kya hai ham ladkia wese bhi attention ki liye hi to kapde pehne ti hai " this made me wonder ive encountered similar situations before an old friend of mine loved wearing crop tops because she enjoyed the attention she got from guys

on the internet you often read that girls dress up for themselves not for guys but in reality do girls actually want attention ??? i really want to hear your opinions on this what do you think? I really want your opinion guys

[therealdesitalk]

prashn: Do you trust anyone with your life? If yes, who and Why?

To be honest I don't trust anyone I trust my self and I don't take any kind of gurantee ki koi kitna trustworthy hai I prefer being stay private. Log mere bare me utna hi jante hai jitna me allow karti hu so i guess make your self in a way that people have to prove to you that they are trust worthy you shouldn't have to think about whether they are good or not and trustworthy or not

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[therealdesitalk]

Kya hamare desh mein freedom of speech jesa abb kuch baki hai? Kyuki aajkal ladakh , manipur jese incidents dekh k toh nhi lagta..

Yes freedom of speech exists in India but it's facing challenges the indian constitution's article 19 guarantees freedom of speech and expression this means you can freely express your opinions and beliefs even if they're unpopular

But there are some limits for example you can't promote violence or hate speech the government can also restrict speech if it threatens national security or public order

Recent events in Ladakh and Manipur involved the government shutting down the internet restricting speech the government argues these shutdowns are necessary to prevent violence and instability critics argue they're unnecessary and violate citizens' rights so the future of free speech in India is uncertain ..the government and citizens need to work together to protect it and prevent misuse

So here are what you can do to protect free speech -

1. Use internet : Spread awareness and educate people create community by creating blogs and making video and by creating social media pages

2.Educate yourself on the importance of free speech

3.Contact your elected officials and urge them to protect it

4.Support organizations working to defend free speech

5. Speak up when you see free speech being violated ....Free speech is a valuable right that needs protection by working together we can all do our part

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[therealdesitalk]

Namaste everyone

ive come here today to share something with you all ive been thinking why not ask everyones opinion on this - one day a few friends from my tuition and i went to the mall it was one of the girls birthdays so she wanted to buy a nice dress we went to a showroom and she ended up picking a backless dress that was quite revealing

i asked her " The dress is so revealing like don't you feel uncomfortable? And tuje wese bhi bahar jana hai Celebrate karne and tune aj tak kabhi esa kuch pehna nahi " she replied " Hn I know but I want attention from guys isme bura bhi kya hai ham ladkia wese bhi attention ki liye hi to kapde pehne ti hai " this made me wonder ive encountered similar situations before an old friend of mine loved wearing crop tops because she enjoyed the attention she got from guys

on the internet you often read that girls dress up for themselves not for guys but in reality do girls actually want attention ??? i really want to hear your opinions on this what do you think? I really want your opinion guys

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[therealdesitalk]

hi!!! since we're questioning stuff, i wanted to say this, it's been on my mind for a while now.....

what is bollywood trying to do making AND promoting films like 'animal' and 'kabir singh'?????

they are clearly promoting toxic masculinity and violence which is affecting the public sooooo much......and they got the nerve to defend it as well????!!!!!

there are sooooo many films now which promote violence......ranbir kapoor is an excellent actor, yet it's sad to see his most successful film was 'animal' and not 'barfi' which is actually touching.....you know why?? because this is exactly what people want to see, violence, uncontrolled rage and madness......

the uneducated section of the society is very influenced by this and this is pretty well known, then why make films like this???

why not make more films on moving topics THAT ACTUALLY FUCKING MATTER and cause people to change their mentality????

people are much more affected by movies than by books, especially in our country, where sadly, a large population still does not have access to books and education.....what's worse is that learned and educated people also don't actually fucking care and promote this kind of bullshit......

please share your opinion and also reblog.....i wanna hear more about this from different people as well......

Thanks for reaching out i appreciate you taking the time to ask a question, And i am happy that every girl is asking such questions to support each other

So namaste everyone

In my view many directors in India focus on making movies that make a lot of money. These movies often include things like sex, violence, and negative portrayals of women which have been popular for a long time. Unfortunately people have gotten used to these kinds of movies and directors care more about making money than about the impact their movies have on society however not all directors are like this. Some directors want to make movies that show women in a positive way It's important to support these directors and their movies so that we can have more respectful and inclusive films. But people don't give much attention to good movies if we create good marketing of good movies and make their good scenes go viral on the internet maybe it's possible that more people will watch good movies This way directors will also realize that people's preferences are changing

The Impact of Such Movies : Movies that glorify toxic masculinity and perpetuate misogyny can have a detrimental impact on society. They reinforce harmful gender norms, normalize abusive behavior and contribute to the marginalization of women. Additionally they can influence audience perceptions and attitudes shaping societal beliefs and behaviors. It's crucial to critically examine these movies and engage in discussions about their implications while also advocating for more socially responsible and inclusive storytelling in the film industry.

👉🏻 So Let's Jump On Some Questions 👈🏻

Why Male Directors Make Such Kind Of Movies?

Male dominated industry : The Indian film industry is largely controlled by men. This means that the stories being told are often filtered through a male lens and women are frequently portrayed in one dimensional or stereotypical ways.

Audience demand: There's a perception that a large section of the audience prefers these kinds of films. Masala movies with over the top action romance and violence have long been a staple of Bollywood and filmmakers may be reluctant to deviate from this formula for fear of losing box office revenue.

Societal factors: Sexism and misogyny are deeply ingrained in Indian society nd this is reflected in the films that are produced. Films often mirror and reinforce existing social prejudices making it difficult to break the cycle

👉🏻 So, What Can Be Done To Reduce Sexism In Indian Films?👈🏻

Encourage more women in filmmaking: Increasing the number of women in key decision making roles, such as directors, producers, and writers, can help bring about a more balanced perspective in films.

Because guys! if movies are made from a female perspective there will be significant changes seen in the movie industry so encourage your friends and cousins to talk about these things

Make Everyone Aware! Aware! Aware! :

If someone in your house talks about movies like "Animal" and "Kabir Singh" and says it's just a movie sit down and explain to them that what you watch is not normal. Even if you receive negative feedback you know what your job is - make everyone around you aware of this issue. Don't let these movies be normalized which people have modernized.

Take Advantage Of The Internet : Promote Media Literacy educate the public through internet especially young people about media literacy and critical thinking skills teach them to analyze and question the messages portrayed in movies on Instagram, Twitter (X) Reddit , Facebook , Blogs including recognizing and challenging harmful stereotypes and representations

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Last note : And we should keep hyping movies like women empowerment on the internet. We have the internet in our hands so let's make good use of it. Otherwise what's the point of sitting and thinking about what's happening in society? Don't just think do something even if it's a small step like what I'm doing with my blog. I know that not many girls will reach it but those who do are a big number for me. So, spread women empowerment movies and their scenes everywhere on the internet whether they are old or not just make them viral and spread awareness through social media and blogs

Thanks everyone. Please Reblog this. 🪷🦢🐚

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[therealdesitalk]

I completely agree with this point that demanding dowry is not a good practice. It's a separate thing to celebrate joy obviously both the families exchange gifts even if the girl's side is wealthier than the boy's so they wouldn't hesitate to spend money some people create pressure for dowry. A boy cannot buy a girl with money even in the future if i marry someone and they demand excessive dowry, i will refuse ek to ladki phele apna ghar bhi chodhe aur fir inko mota dahej bhi do this male dominated mindset sets its own rules

🪷Hey everyone🪷

Im digging into a topic that's been on my mind lately and I'd love to hear your thoughts. Why is it considered normal for a boy to expect dowry from a girl but if a girl were to ask for dowry it's seen as wrong? Who decided these rules and more importantly can we challenge and change them?Let's have an open and honest discussion about gender norms and societal expectations, I believe it's crucial to question traditions that perpetuate inequality and to explore ways to break free from them so what do you guys think? Share your opinions and let's explore this together

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[therealdesitalk]

First thanks for answering, I'm really grateful

And , I also researched the history of how dowry started and i completely agree with this its evident that over time people gradually became more materialistic turning the dowry system into a business transaction however it's disheartening to see that India is still mostly male dominated im curious to explore positive changes and initiatives that can lead to greater gender equality in our society

🪷Hey everyone🪷

Im digging into a topic that's been on my mind lately and I'd love to hear your thoughts. Why is it considered normal for a boy to expect dowry from a girl but if a girl were to ask for dowry it's seen as wrong? Who decided these rules and more importantly can we challenge and change them?Let's have an open and honest discussion about gender norms and societal expectations, I believe it's crucial to question traditions that perpetuate inequality and to explore ways to break free from them so what do you guys think? Share your opinions and let's explore this together

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[therealdesitalk]

🪷Hey everyone🪷

Im digging into a topic that's been on my mind lately and I'd love to hear your thoughts. Why is it considered normal for a boy to expect dowry from a girl but if a girl were to ask for dowry it's seen as wrong? Who decided these rules and more importantly can we challenge and change them?Let's have an open and honest discussion about gender norms and societal expectations, I believe it's crucial to question traditions that perpetuate inequality and to explore ways to break free from them so what do you guys think? Share your opinions and let's explore this together

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[therealdesitalk]

Hi everyone 🪔

Let's get straight to it lol im not good at giving fancy intros but i've got something important to share. I made this blog for a reason: to talk about stuff that often gets ignored or forgotten. There are things that people have made normal and modern, but they shouldn't be like it's not just a matter of thinking we'll discuss many such things in the future so i will discuss them here i want to talk about these things in depth, the things that are rarely shown in the media and are important for us Indians to know especially for girls. I will often create blogs here for female awareness

Also, We talk every day, but do we really talk about the important stuff? There are many things we don't even know why they are or how they happened That's why i'm here. In this blog we'll talk about things that most people don't really talk about.

I'll mostly talk about Indian stuff: like Bollywood movies, gender stuff, and why certain things happen deep talks about things that are usually kept quiet.

The second reason for creating my blog is that i want your points of view so that i can have a 360 degree perspective

Thanks for joining me on this journey :) i will see u in my inbox

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