#you have to unlock like. level 7473747488558 friendship for me to be comfortable being THAT embarrassing in front of you

[starbuck]

thank GOD for close friends you can discuss your kinks with…

#would also be interested in talking to other ace people to see if they have ‘kinks’ like mine #(i.e. - yes this scenario turns me on sexually but NO i would *NEVER* wanna incorporate it into sex) #(even if i DID want to have sex - which i don’t) #but like. am i going to tell you What my thing is? lol No. #you have to unlock like. level 7473747488558 friendship for me to be comfortable being THAT embarrassing in front of you #my one friend… we’ve known each other for over a decade… dated as awkward 12 year olds… both autistic… transed our genders in opposite #directions… #i would trust her with literally ANY infortmation about me #and god knows she’s trusted me with a LOT of information about her #cuz that’s just the kind of relationship we have - we can tell each other things like that #and i am SO grateful for that!!!!!!! #the lowdown is that SHE says i’m normal - but i disagree #cuz when y’all talk about kink on here - this shit is NOT what you are talking about - trust me #like. it’s very Sensible - but it IS weird still. that’s what i think.