#they went 'oh I thought it was like born w penis and tiddies' and I was just so taken aback

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so sick and tired of every single intersex related post written by a perisex person always abt how intersex is some kind of "scientific gotcha token" ppl use in makin arguments and points or whatever. like please just stfu if all yer ever gonna bring up abt intersex ppl is the fact that we exist. double stfu if u only bring us up to try to aid other groups when u don't even give a shit abt us.

we are not just your footnote on why someone is bein transphobic. we are real people with real issues that no one gives a damn about cause all y'all do is treat us like a monolith.

small side note: can y'all stop tryin to claim intersex shit as other queer stuff just cause you cannot be assed to do any critical thinkin or quick google searches

#text #rotting #mine #got a lil upset abt how many intersex only spaces are heavily medicalized #so I went to tumblr to try to just vibe in more shit abt daily life rather than conditions that can cause intersex #tags flooded w perisex ppl just usin the intersex identity as a gotcha in one paragraph in their 50 paragraph post #sick of it. I'm sick of it! #shout out to other intersexist moments from ppl online includin but not limited to #the time someone tried to tell me if I was intersex that I was trans. that intersex is included under trans. when its not??? #I sort of get ppl bein huffy abt my enby ass not bein trans as thats a hot topic but intersex??? really??? #this entire post on tumblr of ppl violently misgenderin an intersex man because ppl so badly wanted him to be a trans woman #they called every single person correctin the post a terf. was wild. they didn't even kno who the guy was! #they just misread and ran with the poster's intersexist ass #someone called an old description of an intersex person 'omg bisexual??' and not in the old term for intersexuality #told someone I'm on estrogen after they knew I was intersex n had a chest.... #they went 'oh I thought it was like born w penis and tiddies' and I was just so taken aback #after I already discussed I don't want any1 even tryin to guess what's goin on in my pants #not online but u kno what while we're here. thought this one dude was relatively chill but apparently not even after lots of time spent #this is another 'sick of ppl assumin my genitals'. anyways so I do majority of the time present femininely #masks are a godsend for hidin masc facial features let me tell u lmao #I had a very bad stomach ache that day and was bein dramatic abt it. homeboy literally kept tryin to ask if I was bleedin out #first of all I said Stomach Ache. Believe Me. second of all Why The Hell Would You Assume My Down There When We Talked Abt This #and I said that aloud cause I thought he was chill this wasn't even a internal me rant I said it. #homeboy goes 'wait so what is there' and Im just the What The Fuck. Don't Ask That. #oh yea also I'm not pressed abt trans fem ppl reclaimin f*ta altho I wish most also understood it fetishizes intersex folks as well #I know that ones a hot topic among some intersex ppl. Im mostly just pressed abt ppl treatin it as if it only fetishizes trans ppl #I think I'm in general pressed abt ppl presentin some issues or expereinces as only trans things when intersex can and will experience the #same exact thing. yes some intersex ppl are cis. a cis person can experience the same thing as a trans person. #if that makes u uncomfy please do reconsider whether you actually support intersex ppl or if we're just a monolith to you #note: I am not cis either in case someone who doesn't know me reads this