#the (vxlid) part is sarcastic btw

[dykeredhood]

Words we are putting up on the shelf until y’all learn to use them in the correct context:

toxic

normalize

trauma

problematic

academia

gatekeeping

gaslighting

infodumping

female gaze

gay panic

hyperfixation

queerbaiting

punk

traumabonding

valid (or the gender-neutral version of the word: vxlid)

gentrification

emo

emotional labor

delusional (yes, this also includes delulu)

parasocial

feminine rage

divine feminine/masculine

narcissist

sociopath/psychopath

#i will add more as I go along lmao #personal #post is periodically updated & since some of y’all can’t use Google: ‘vxlid’ is clearly a joke; it doesn’t have a grammatical gender in Eng #technical terms #save #reference #favorite #pinned post #ESPECIALLY gay panic #gay panic #not everything is your new hyperfixation. it’s ok to be casually interested #the (vxlid) part is sarcastic btw #for housekeeping purposes: #minors DNI #not that the content of this specific post is anything I consider 18+ #I’m 30 and would prefer that younger people don’t really interact with my blog #placed back as my pinned post 08.01.2023 #also using this post to add specific tags to bc tumblr’s search function is godawful #rant in tags #last updated 03.25.2024