#so yes I have debeloped empathy and sympathy and i know how important others are

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i am starting to come to terms with the fact that I cannot solve every problem, especially those which do not involve me personally.

#yeah it sucks #but i just need to leave it alone and offer support at most #and if im in a better place than someone else I don't have to feel guilt for that #my happiness for myself and sadness for others can walk hand in hand #(slight divergence thats a great romance pl- wait nvm thats just the movie inside out still a good premise though) #i am allowed to be happy indepently of everyone else #and sad too #but everyone else has just as much right to that #and it even if it hurts you need to accept it #because sometimes the worst thing you can do is try to help #(i realize that some statements on these posts i make seem incorrect or controversial. this is because I have no patience to typd out #every cognitive leap and stray thought that weaves together the statement and its history. #i spent too much of my time focused on others to an unhealthy amount without considering or caring about myself. #so yes I have debeloped empathy and sympathy and i know how important others are #but thats not my focus right now #i just want to get to know myself #and be a better me than i was yesterday.)