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#siblings of ALL stripes will approach situations with a set idea of how communication works. and even if it's not a logical way to communica
knaveofmogadore
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#messages from knave
#im making breakfast and im gonna list my observations from three years of weird living situations
#younger siblings of big age gaps will see most interactions as a form of soft combat until trained out of it
#but when actual clmbat happens they're used to not having any sway so they don't actually know how to act in arguments
#siblings with codependent relationships have their own internal langauge that they apply to others. not sure if they realize they do it
#but they'll hold you to the same rules they've mentally created for each other without explaining them
#siblings of ALL stripes will approach situations with a set idea of how communication works. and even if it's not a logical way to communica
#they'll expect you to also communicate in that way. and if you can't or refuse they'll shut down and communication stalls completely because
#they can't fathom doing it any other way except the way they and their siblings socialized each other to do it
#siblings with adversarial relationships don't take outside advice and will take attempts to give advice as manipulative. not their fault
#oldest siblings are the most conflict averse people on the planet. oldest sinlings say
#'is anyone gonna balloon this situation out of proportion by avoiding it for as long as possible' and not wait for an answer
#siblings who were regularly appointed as hall monitors will see any interaction with you as transactional
#a hallmark of a dysfunctional sibljng relationship is someone who thinks telling you NO is worse than going through a situation they do not
#wanna be in. and then they'll complain about it endlessly
#and then they'll be like 'i don't want favours from my parents because they'll hold it over me' and never make the connection on their own
#people cannot anticipate your needs with their minds. they are sometimes going to ask you to be a part of things you don't wanna
#you're NEVER gonna be able to live in a world where people will stop asking you to be a part of things that's not feasible
#had one say once 'people should just know not to ask me along for plans I can't get to people should know not to invite me'
#and you know dude that's just now how stuff works. there's a difference between 'x cant drive so they can't help me move my dresser' and
#'i know xs work schedule so i shouldnt infomr them of group plansnon the off chance they could make it so they don't feel left out'
#people with hyper competitive siblings can't fathom that other people won't know how to do stuff. i don't just mean athletes but siblings
#with that scarcity mindsetnin general like they can't handle people not having the same knowledge base they have. it's a survival thing
#and NO having a life of suffering doesn't make you correct all the time has literally anyone else watched heathers
#youngest siblings always have the most deranged dating stories and the oldest in a set of age gap siblings always has the WORST taste in men
#< that's directed at my sister and no one else that's a personal diss not a real observation
#only children have one thing. theyre SUPER weird about splitting the grocery bill
#food is NOT communal to only children I've learned firsthand. Also they'll be perfectly fine sharing anything else BUT food usually
#weed. loans. bathroom supplies. dishes. ect. but NOT food
#meanwhile sibljngs are a little TOO comfortable chowing down on stuff they didn't buy. bad roommates are bad roommates
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