#she basically helped willow flush out her festering wound and put a bandage on it

[kraviolis]

im gonna say it. the only people who genuinely think willow "forgave" amity too quick are all under 17 years old

#krav talks #there is a fuckin reason why its considered sage advice to let go of your anger and bitterness towards ppl who hurt you #bcus that shit will rot you from the inside out #THERE WAS A WHOLE EPISODE ABOUT HOW WILLOW NOT BEING ABLE TO LET GO OF HER HURT WAS LITERALLY DESTROYING HER #THAT WASNT JUST AMITY'S DOING. THAT WAS ALSO WILLOW HOLDING ONTO HER ANGER AND PAIN FOR TOO LONG #AND IT WASNT WILLOWS FAULT SHE COULDNT FIND CLOSURE UNTIL AMITY GAVE IT TO HER #BUT IT WAS STILL DESTROYING HER AND SHE KNEW IT #willow did not forgive amity. amity gave willow closure #she basically helped willow flush out her festering wound and put a bandage on it #like NO the pain didnt go away immediately #but amity helped willow to heal!!! and YEAH theres always gonna be a scar and amity & willow will have to work with each other for years #to build their relationship back up to what it once was #and maybe it never WILL be what it once was #but both of them were willing to TRY #THAT was the point of that episode. THAT is what willow said was 'a start' #bcus they BOTH would have to work towards it bcus friendship is a two way street!!! #and willow unfortunately is someone who gives second third and fourth chances to ppl who hurt her bcus of her self confidence issues #but amity never tried to take advantage of that. she never went back on her word to willow. she has lied to willow ONCE and then never agai #thats why it seems like they become friends again pretty fast #bcus willow is a very trusting person and amity always upholds her end of the 'deal' #so they both let themselves be vulnerable around each other. even if willow is scared of being hurt again. #even if amity is scared of hurting willow again. they both make that effort to let the other in bcus they really do love each other a lot. #toh