I really appreciate either on a man, but who can choose? Well, you, of course. Nothing catches my eye like a man who has to turn sideways to get his broad, brawny shoulders through the doorway... Except maybe a man who's got pecs so massive they arrive in the room 10 seconds before he does. Now extremes of size are great, but 'it ain't got flair, unless it's covered in hair' No shaved shiny pecs or waxed smooth shoulders for me. Just my opinion.