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#saw a crazy tweet now im just thinkin abt how many people dont think aftercare is necessary
needylittlegirl
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if you dont “believe” in aftercare you deserve to get run over by a bus btw
#tbd
#saw a crazy tweet now im just thinkin abt how many people dont think aftercare is necessary
#my ex didnt think it was needed ever
#he would do crazy things specifically to avoid anything that could be taken as care or intimacy after sex
#and it did awful things to my brain!!
#i have such a weird relationship with sex now because i’ve never experienced aftercare
#its crazy that people think its an absolute necessity
#i remember one time he left immediately like he always did
#so obviously i started crying cause its very confusing to have sex and then the person just walks out not even 5 mins after!!
#especially for how young i was it was Confusing
#and he came back cause he forgot his wallet or something so he saw me crying
#got mad at me it become an argument etc etc cause i told him why i was crying
#and he said to me and i Quote
#‘expecting a guy to care about you after sex is idiotic and immature-
#‘you should be glad you’re even getting laid in the first place so take what you can get and stop expecting guys to care abt anything else’
#which is an insane thing to say and i Believed it for years
#the fact i was sitting there crying and i told him it was bc he made me feel like he hated me and i was awful and a worthless girlfriend??
#and that was his response ??? how crazy do you have to be
#anyways. aftercare is always necessary and if you dont provide then one of you is gonna be suffering
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