#once again want to reiterate healthy self assured 4s are actually Very cool. they dont need to tell you how cool they are

[mothric]

what enneagram type is the one that gets pissed off by enneagram 4s bc I'm that one

#me shaking every toxic 4 i've ever known by the shoulders: GET. OVER. YOURSELF. #they always think their pain is the most unique most painful pain and their trauma is the most traumatic trauma #and their personality just So unique Nobody can understand me #shut the fuck uppppp shut up shut up trauma isnt a dick measuring contest #and no your green eyes don't actually turn blue when you're sad katie you aren't a deviantart oc!!! gu h #ive known 4s to literally redefine words to suit their own construct of their identity #and then get mad when ppl point out that's not what those words mean #or theyll ask for constructive criticism and you'll give it and they'll either be like 'why are you so mean' or completely ignore it #i am well aware this is not applicable to all 4s everywhere i am specifically talking about toxic ones #i know good healthy 4s and they dont do this shit #it just seems like SO MANY are disproportionately toxic in this way that is carefully designed to piss me off specifically #and dont even get me started on the oversharing you didnt ask for #and then assuming you're close bc they trauma dumped on you against your will #7s do the oversharing shit too and *also* seem to like assuming my feelings for me which i cant fuckin STAND #im not uncomfortable bc i secretly like you susan i'm uncomfy bc you're invading my personal space and stepping on my boundaries #g u h . #do not repost my tags i'll murder you this is a vent for me and my 2k followers #once again want to reiterate healthy self assured 4s are actually Very cool. they dont need to tell you how cool they are #they just exist and are cool and that confidence is 10/10 #they have these niche interests you never knew they had until one day theyre casually like 'oh yea i hand stitched this whole outfit myself #or 'i'm working on my third radio show' and you're like you WHAT? you had other ones?? 10/10 love this for them