#now I advocate for a/rom/antics and have- at least somewhat- educated myself on stuff like that

[catcatb0y]

People will really be like "I am on the right side of the debate" when their only responses are insults 🤡 How badly do you have to lack self awareness in order to get that that point, hm?

"I'm not reading that," well then you're the moron. That's it bro.

"I don't care," it was never about facts to begin with- it was about your moral superiority.

#like I get that a lot of people are stuck in their ways #but even then bro #not only are you... just not doing anything good- you're actively damaging connections between people that could have been on your side #'gatcha' arguments are cringe #I've been on the wrong side of things and guess what? #I was talked down from them #I remember distinctly not understanding 'loveles a/ros' and why it was rude to say 'love is more than just romantic love' on someone's post #now I advocate for a/rom/antics and have- at least somewhat- educated myself on stuff like that #I still think that we do need to put emphasis on non romantic love but those are two separate discussions #I would love to learn #to break down my biases and become a better person #but I can't do that when I don't see the problem #also even if I WERE to be presented with my biases... why the fuck am I going to want to act on them? #if the people on my side are nice and supportive and the people on the other side are rude and reactionary... #yeah it's a no brainer #you can't debate with bigots and some people are set in their ways #but you can't just write everyone off as a bigot and pat yourself on the back #if someone presents you with information and you roll over #you're not helping #because you're not actually seeking the truth #you just want to feel better about yourself