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psychiatricwarfare · 1 year

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i lost my old post saying this so im saying it again.. ahem

NO TRANS PERSON IS MY ENEMY

i dont care if they're transmed/truscum/whatever you wanna call it. i dont care if they think me or my identity is cringe/wrong/a stain on the community. i was there once, i went down that pipeline for years, and it made me deeply unhappy and resentful of other trans people. you feel othered by cis people and retaliate against your trans siblings because you want to believe that cis people will accept you and they would accept you if it weren't for other trans people getting in the way - even though that's not the case.

by forcing transmeds to stay away from us and to 'DNI' all we're doing is pushing them further and further into the echo chamber telling them that they aren't good enough unless they perform transgenderism correctly. it gets exhausting, and you become bitter and angry. you don't understand why other people who are being their authentic selves seem so happy when you're not, and it makes you even more resentful.

the way i managed to crawl out of this pit was through youtubers like contrapoints' old videos about her own trans journey or philosophytube (who, though she had not come out to youtube at the time is and was still trans) making videos about transphobia. it was other trans people who helped me crawl out of this by simply explaining to me why it was okay to just do you. personally, it made me realise that before i had been pulled into this pipeline, i never identified as a "man." i was nonbinary before i was convinced enbies couldn't exist. and now im so much happier being able to be myself.

i want to extend that hand to any transmeds who maybe are starting to question the ideology or are simply tired of being so angry all the time. we are not your enemies, we are all a part of this community and no matter what we need to be there for each other. i can promise that when push comes to shove, transphobes are not going to care that you were trans the "right way", theyre still going to advocate for your death. trans people will be there for you, it'll be the trans community who protects you and stays by your side, and the person to pull you out of the fire might use neopronouns and have a weird gender but does that really matter when they want all of us dead regardless?

trans people are not my enemies. i don't care how much they've aligned themselves with transphobes, when it comes down to it, we have to protect each other. no person left behind.

#transphobia #transphobia tw #trans #transgender #nonbinary #enby #transmed #truscum #ftm #mtf #bug talks

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hiraya-rawr · 2 years

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Hi :D Uhm not to be controversial with things but I hope that we can stay away from politics? Im rlly sorry abt sending this, its just things can get rlly messy when it comes to these kinda things and I dont want you to get any hate from it. Hope you have a nice day and stay safe （*＾-＾*）

hello hello! (＞人＜;)💗 I understand where you're from but if you check my About Me (BYF/DNI) section, I placed this:

I speak up when the need arises and I encourage those sensitive of social issues to avoid interacting! I've also been trying to tag political posts with #tw politics and cutting my longer posts with readmore.

and thank you thank you for worrying about me!! I really appreciate it 😭🤍 Believe me when I say I hate politics and that it stresses me out way too much :( but this election season is a big deal for us advocates and I want to do all that I can for it! (even if it means turning my safe space into something for awareness)

My Current Status in Navigation also listed this:

As for receiving hate or for issues with me, this is also posted in my About Me:

If I receive hate for good reason, then I'd want to be called out on it (although I hope they can put it kindly and explain :'< ). As for irrational hate... then I'll try my best to deal with it in a healthy way!

On a side note, I have been feeling guilty for mixing politics in all your feeds 🥲 I get how stressful it can be for others, hence my constant apologies, but I also hope you guys understand that I just can't stay silent for these things..

Anyway, election season is wrapping up tomorrow so we'll be back to genshin content! 🤍(that is... until the next big social issue that needs attention 😖)

#hira replies #tw politics #hira politics #hira status

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vvh0adie · 4 months

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i talked about this a few months ago but here we are again.

to adult users:

yall plz look out cuz there is a weird surge in minors coming into adult spaces --not even on anon-- expecting adult nsfw writers to welcome then with open arms.

like they getting bold in disrespecting boundaries.

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to minors:

while you may still be a minor, you know what you're doing when you come into adult spaces and antagonize us.

its crazy yall feel comfortable putting that you're a minor on your page and commenting or sending ask in 'nsfw/minor dni' spaces. yall have come with your chests puffed out, making demands of inclusion or exceptions.

but when we don't, yall are sending sane adults on witch hunts for fake groomers. like i will always believe you guys first cuz i would have wanted someone to do that for me growing up. and i’d rather get the wrong person, but i’d also rather spend time actually keeping you safe from actual groomers. dont lead us on wild goose chases, the longer we waste time with a fake, the longer other minors are being groomed for real.

and not that im advocating for you, but you'd think you'd have a little shame/common sense like past generations to not make your presence known. like adults dont want you interacting with them AT ALL but if you “must”🙄, dont get in our comments or asks tryna be our friends.

it’s uncomfortable. i dont want to know that you see/read my blog. also what am i gonna talk to you about in terms of adult content?…😐 (no im not an sex ed teacher. nobody wants to be giving sex ed class over the internet. we shouldn’t have to. we wanna just enjoy the internet for recreation too.)

no minor should want to be exposed to mature content cuz it can damage your relationship with sex in the long run.

adults have specifically set rules on their page or put certain labels to let you know. the moment you don't respect them, you have opened yourself to be scolded and reported amongst the community.

you may hate us now, but i promise you its for the best.

#plyms updates

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