#means we will NEVER have the exact same bias or attitude against women that cis dudes have

[gender-euphowrya]

gonna be honest i do Not trust "yes all men includes trans guys" sayers

#if you seriously can't envision how having experienced girlhood even if it wasn't 'for real' #means we will NEVER have the exact same bias or attitude against women that cis dudes have #idk what to fucking say #like yeah we're men they're men but we know firsthand how patriarchy harms #we know what behaviors to avoid to not cause discomfort or harm or anything of the sort in women #because we've been on the fucking receiving end #like us being men doesn't magically turn us into oppressors the second we come out #it doesn't reset our fucking memory to the point where we forget how men harm women. how men harmed us #like ding dong we're oppressed still. society doesn't put us on the pedestal reserved for men because it doesn't think we ARE men #i don't care how many jerkface trans dudes you met who dipped too hard into the misogyny bowl to get cis peers' approval #that'll never be on the same fucking level as cis men holding institutional power and being the root of systemic sexism #hell. fuck it. blame the fucking cis dudes who won't accept trans men unless they perform hatred of women. #i am so fucking god damn tired of transmasc people getting an extra level of scrutiny on the basis of being masculine #quit sipping the fucking gender essentialist juice already