#mbmbam 312

[mbmbat]

Summer 2016 was a simpler time.

#justin mcelroy #travis mcelroy #griffin mcelroy #mbmbam #mcelroys #my brother my brother and me #mbmbam origins #mbmbam 312

[rolodextra]

what fucking EPISODE of MBMBAM does justin FUCKING talk about the relationship advice where ideally it’s 50/50 in effort but some days you do 80 and they do 20 and it’s about FUCKIN whatever here is the QUOTE

“’Can I show you this thing I made? Want to walk the dog with me quickly?’ just small stuff like that.

“I read somewhere that your willingness to do those things can determine a lot of your marriage. Sometimes I definitely don’t want to get off the couch and help my wife with something, but I know she really appreciates it when I do.

“It helps her feel loved and appreciated in ways that you just can’t when it’s only the big things. Big things build the structure, little things fill in the gaps.”

i have the QUOTE but i can’t find the goddamn EPISODE and GOOGLING only brings up DEAD YOUTUBE LINKS and it’s not episode 312 because it’s NOT a LIVE SHOW but they mention it AGAIN in that EPISODE and i’ve been looking for it for MONTHS

PLEASE HELP ME

#x #text #mbmbam #justin mcelroy

[idrils]

mbmbam 312: face 2 face: live from drowzee city

the boys go into a fugue state and, in unison, recite a fruity pebbles commercial from 1992

(ps this is literally my 100,000th tumblr post (bc i’ve long since lost control of my life) and i think i made it a good one)

#danger thighs #audio #mbmbam #mcelroys #i was rocketed back to my childhood and started saying it along with them?? #i was possibly cursed??? the walls of my home are oozing milk now???

[arrispect]

I've been listening to old MBMBaM episodes and in the last one (312), Justin passes on some truly excellent relationship advice:

Treat the whole relationship like it's a 60/40 split, and both of you treat it that way. If each of you is always trying to give 60 and let the other do 40, you're both always trying to find little ways to help the other relax or improve their day. If you're both putting each other first, everybody wins.