#like my dad did not teach ANYBODY stewardship. or patience. or temperance. or charity. or compassion

[autumnhobbit]

get steamed whenever i see someone complimenting my parents’ parenting just cause of how we turned out

#like yes my brothers do a lot of volunteer work #but not always by choice! #they don't get to say no if dad promises someone at church they'll do a thing #and yeah sometimes maybe it doesnt bother them #but it would be better if they could choose to do things themselves instead of being forced into it #and i love my parents but they are Not Good parents #like not at all #you think their practices must be good to have such good results but no #we raised ourselves thank u very much #ESPECIALLY emotionally. #like my dad did not teach ANYBODY stewardship. or patience. or temperance. or charity. or compassion #like he'd have to HAVE any himself to instill it in anyone #deadass we learned how to act by observing him and doing the exact opposite.