#im a fucking person who has their own damn opinions and no lan and i weren't friends

[imperiuswrecked]

I've only ever asked 2 former online friends to not contact me after I wanted to go our separate ways due to irreconcilable differences and the first one circumvented my blocks at least 3 or 4 times to talk to me including sending me emails from 2 different email addresses after I refused to speak with them on tumblr/twitter/discord and each time I told them to leave me alone, that took place over a period of weeks.

The second one made a burner account to talk to me after I publicly asked them not to. I'm done talking. I'm done listening. I am allowed to restrict access to my person, my time, my emotions, my own mental health.

People need to respect boundaries others set down.

#hex if you're stalking this blog know that I m not a thing to be stolen away #im a fucking person who has their own damn opinions and no lan and i weren't friends #and you are ao focused on yourself that even when I tried to talk about how that made me feel #how neglected i felt our friendship became #you just kept circling back to you to your issues #well im no longer responsible for your emotional state #and I have trans friends who never treated me like you did #so im sorry #im sorry you feel bad #im sorry things arent going well for you #but your own actions and words are your responsibility and no one elses #I'm at my limit and I'm shutting down emotionally because I literally cannot deal with your paragraphs of text #if you day one more fucking time that I didn’t hear your concerns or didnt understanding you then I will fucking scream myself hoarse #we were friends for YEARS #YEARS #I am allowed to have a boundary #I am allowed to have a different opinion than you #Im allowed! #we have talked about the subject EXTENSIVELY #there is nothing left to say #fandom is a shared space so learn to share or don't #I have my own issues and shit going on in my life that I do not put on others bc its not their responsibility #so deal with yours #bc I need to deal with mine