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If I'm doing all the music asks, so are you. I CHALLENGE THEE.

It has been a calendar year since you sent me this. SORRY. You know I’ve been busy. @groovyaviator also asked me Daft Punk, Fall Out Boy, and Led Zeppelin. Let’s do this.

- Alabama Shakes: Favorite female lead? Aurora.

- Arctic Monkeys: Favorite male lead? Chris Martin.

- Ben Howard: An album that reminds you of your favorite season? Aurora’s All My Demons Greeting Me as a Friend, because it reminds me of when of that moment in late October when you realize winter is on its way. But I’m also a fan of our weather right now, so for that I would assign Coldplay’s Mylo Xyloto. And I’ve also come to favor the weather around my birthday midsummer, and for that I’d assign The Golden Age by Woodkid.

- Bon Iver: An album you could listen to on repeat for years? Coldplay’s X&Y. Regina Spektor’s Far, as well as What We Saw from the Cheap Seats. alt-J’s entire discography. The How to Train Your Dragon soundtrack by John Powell. The soundtrack to Jane Eyre by Dario Marianelli. The Golden Age by Woodkid.

- Bastille: A song that brings back bad memories? Already Over by Red. Sweater Weather by The Neighbourhood. The Ballad of John Hurt by alt-J, but the memory is more bittersweet than bad. Yes by Coldplay, tied closely with Two Birds by Regina Spektor.

- The Beatles: An artist you think is overrated? Ed Sheeran.

- Coldplay: A band you used to love but never listen to anymore? Coldplay, right now! I still love them very much but I’ve been listening to a lot of other stuff. Also, Linkin Park, Chevelle, Breaking Benjamin, Evanescence… I went through a phase.

- Daft Punk: Favorite instrumental (no vocals) song? The Heart Asks Pleasure First by Michael Nyman. It also is my favorite song, but specifically the composer’s cut version.

- Dawes: A genre of music you absolutely cannot stand? I really have a hard time with country. I’m sorry, Becca.

- Electric Light Orchestra: Favorite song to help you cheer up? I have a 75 song playlist of these, my dude. Rasputin by Boney M. reminds me of a ridiculous time in high school and never fails to make me smile, but most of the time my go-to is Everything’s Not Lost by Coldplay.

- Elliot Smith: Favorite song to listen to when you’re sad? I tend not to listen to a lot of music when I’m sad… but maybe the cover of Where Is My Mind by Bandit.

- Evanesence: Ever done drugs and listened to music? Lol no.

- Fun.: Put your music on shuffle and list the first three. Whatever happens, I blame Spotify: 1) Dust by Hans Zimmer (Interstellar soundtrack), 2) The Kill Ring by John Powell (How to Train Your Dragon soundtrack), 3) Daddy Issues by The Neighbourhood. I only can recall listening to the middle one because I have a habit of saving albums to listen to later.

- Fall Out Boy: First album you fell in love with? Vocal: Linkin Park’s Meteora. Instrumental: John Williams’s soundtrack for Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban.

- Green Day: A song that makes you feel rebellious? Boss Ass Bitch by PTAF!

- George Ezra: A song that reminds you of a past lover? I don’t really have any of those, but you can refer to the bad memory response because it’s basically the same list.

- Genesis: A band that your parents always played when you were little? The Rolling Stones, because if it’s parents plural my dad is the automatic DJ and he plays classic rock exclusively.

- Hozier: Favorite brand new artist? How new is new? Brand new to me right now are Tom Odell and Glass Animals but both have been at it since 2012.

- Iron & Wine?: What song would you want to be played at your wedding?“ Sleeping At Last did a cover of The Proclaimer’s I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles) that I absolutely fucking love. But I would rather do an upbeat surprise choreographed dance number for my first dance because I don’t know how I feel about sharing an intimate moment with my new spouse in front of all those people.

- Imagine Dragons: What song would you want played at your funeral? At the beginning? Talk by Coldplay. At the end, The Heart Asks Pleasure First by Michael Nyman.

- Jack Johnson: A song you heard in a movie and fell in love with? Hans Zimmer’s song Time off of the Inception soundtrack.

- Joy Division: Your least favorite album by your favorite band? Ghost Stories by Coldplay because it’s sad and boring. Probably also their newest album but I’ve refused to sit through all of it so I don’t know.

- The Killers: Name your top three songs of all time. So many repeating answers tonight! The Heart Asks Pleasure First by Michael Nyman; Talk by Coldplay; Aurora’s cover of Nature Boy.

- Linkin Park: Suggest a band you think I might like. @beccathevampyreslayer I think you’d really enjoy How to be a Human Being by Glass Animals because it’s equal parts dark and upbeat. @groovyaviator, listen to The Golden Age by Woodkid. Becca can tell you that I’ve loved that album for years because the artist is also a director and intentionally writes his music to make listeners feel like the hero of a film.

- Led Zeppelin: Favorite album art? HOW DARE YOU MAKE ME CHOOSE. The Golden Age by Woodkid. Literally any art featured on an album or EP for Sleeping At Last. The Resistance by Muse. Any artwork featured in EPs or albums by Fleet Foxes. Light & Gold by Eric Whitacre (if one is looking to buy a print for me I’d go with this one). Parachutes by Coldplay. The Lateness Of The Hour by Alex Clare. Anything used by Foster The People.

- Muse: Craziest music video you’ve ever seen? Nothing will ever beat the Turn Down For What music video.

- Mumford & Sons: Favorite cover version of a song you love? Any iteration of Nature Boy by Nat King Cole but especially Aurora’s version. The same can probably also be said for The Sound of Silence by Simon & Garfunkel, but nothing beats the original.

- The National: A song you sing in the shower? (I Won’t Say) I’m in Love from Hercules!

- Nathaniel Rateliff: A song that never fails to make you emotional? Laughing With by Regina Spektor has like a 50% chance of making me cry, as does Coming Back Around off the How to Train Your Dragon soundtrack.

- One Direction: Backstreet Boys or NSYNC? I liked both! I think when I was younger I favored NSYNC, but boy bands aren’t really my mode of choice for experiencing ‘90s nostalgia.

- Pink Floyd: You can go back in time to see any band you want. Who would it be? Coldplay when they were touring for X&Y. Stravinsky’s Firebird Suite as its debut.

- Queen: You can meet any band member, living or dead, and hang out with them for 24 hours. Who would it be? Eric Whitacre, who I have met before but definitely didn’t hang out with. He’s a hero of mine because he kind of walked into his hometown university, picked up music super late, and went on to redefine classical music. He was driven by passion, and his lack of early training really shows in the innovation in his work - the man draws PICTURES of his music before even trying to write down notes. And he collaborates with all manner of interesting people, pulling source material from really unconventional places. I’ve been contemplating a major change in life paths for the last year or so and it’s always very heartening to see someone do the same, and especially by sheer force of will.

- Radiohead: Favorite concert you’ve ever been to (or a band you want to see live). I saw Aurora live in November and she changed my life. Marina and the Diamonds was incredible and so was her opening act, Christine and the Queens, who I also love. Regina Spektor was so good live too. And seeing Ke$ha last fall was just a lot of fun. I regret not going to see Coldplay a lot sooner because I’d love to see them in general but I don’t like most of their newest music and I’d really rather hear stuff from Mylo Xyloto and earlier.

- Rihanna: A musician you respect, even if you might not like their music? I don’t really listen to Demi Lovato but I have mad respect for everything she advocates for.

- Roo Panes: Favorite acoustic version of a song? Aurora’s acoustic version of Murder Song (5, 4, 3, 2, 1). It’s haunting.

- Simon & Garfunkel: Favorite album movie? (Ex. Yellow Submarine, The Wall, Help!, The Graduate) Kill me later but I don’t think I have ever seen one in its entirety. I think I watched Help! with Becca, though.

- Skrillex: What’s the strangest song you have on your iPod right now? Rasputin by Boney M. and Chaccaron Maccaron by El Mundo.

- Tame Impala: A band none of your friends listen to? Aurora, Christine and the Queens, Tom Odell. Becca introduced me to the last one but she doesn’t listen to his discography actively.

- Taylor Swift: Name that one artist that literally makes you so angry you’re willing to throw the damn radio right out the window to make it stop. I’ll never be over the travesty of Robin Thicke. One of my favorite members of being a community advisor was our end of the year celebratory dinner, when the DJ started this song and the whole room stopped dancing and stared and him and I called over, “Please just change the song.” Rape culture is bad, kids.

- U2: A song or album that somehow got onto your iPod but you have no idea where it came from??? Weird. Probably some random movie soundtrack.

- The Vaccines: What are your favorite lyrics? Quote them for me. Do they mean something special to you? “Are you lost or incomplete? Do you feel like a puzzle, you can’t your missing piece?” “Are you what you want to be?” “Is this the life you’ve been waiting for?” “Good is better than perfect, scrub ‘til your fingers are bleeding. And I’m crying for things that I tell others to do without crying.” “I want to love you but I don’t know how.” “Are you getting stronger or is time shifting weight?” “Potentially lovely, perpetually human, suspended and open…” “You can’t pin me down!” You might sense a theme here. I think I do.

- Vampire Weekend: A band or artist you follow on Twitter? No Twitter for me, but if I did it’d be Eric Whitacre because his fans send him good music memes and he shares the best of them.

- Vance Joy: An artist where you can never tell what the hell they’re singing? Chevelle and George Ezra.

- Weezer: Favorite old school band? Simon & Garfunkel.

- The xx: A genre/band you’ve been getting into that you never thought you would enjoy? Synthpop.

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I lost my job over a Facebook post

When Rachel Burns posted a photo of a singalong at work on her Facebook page, she had no idea that her actions would end her career. The BBC’s Laurence Grissell has been following her story for the past year.

“I absolutely loved my job. It’s my vocation, I love caring for people,” Rachel says.

For 21 years, until December 2015, Rachel worked at Park Hall, a residential care home for elderly people and vulnerable adults in Reigate, Surrey.

She’d started there as care assistant, and worked her way up. She’d been the manager for the last eight years.

“There were always activities going on. I wanted the clients to have a decent quality of life.”

One of the activities that Rachel organised for the residents at Park Hall was a regular music night, every Friday.

“We’d put flowers on the tables,” Rachel says. “The residents would all get dressed up and we’d have a different supper every week.”

As a keen amateur singer, Rachel would perform at the music nights, everything from Roberta Flack and Nina Simone to Boney M.

“The staff would get up dancing with the residents. You’d see smiles on their faces – it really was such a lovely thing to see.”

Image copyright Rachel Burns

Image caption The Reverend David Walford, Rachel Burns and singer Roy Matthews performing at Park Hall, Christmas 2014

One Friday Rachel returned home after music night and decided to share some of the special moments from the evening online.

“I was quite elated at how the night had gone,” Rachel says. “I posted the picture thinking that it would just be seen by a few people, mainly staff, on Facebook.”

But two months later Rachel got a phone call summoning her to head office.

“As soon as I got there, when I saw their faces, I knew I was in big trouble.”

Rachel had done four things wrong. She’d posted the photo on Facebook, she’d identified a Park Hall resident in the photo – a man with Down’s syndrome who, eager to be photographed, had jumped into the shot beside her – she had also posted a video of the music night, and she was Facebook friends with a relative of one of the residents.

Should I really have had my career of 21 years taken away for one mistake?

Rachel Burns, Former care home manager

These were all breaches of Surrey County Council policy. Two days later Rachel was suspended from her job.

From the word go, Rachel held her hands up and admitted all the council’s allegations but nonetheless wanted to appeal against their decision.

“I know I shouldn’t have put that picture up there, but should I really have had my career of 21 years taken away for one mistake? I wanted justice because I didn’t believe what they had done to me was fair.”

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Rachel told her story to Laurence Grissell on Radio 4’s The Untold

Listen to: Unfair dismissal?

Rachel lost her appeal and was given just two days to decide whether she would accept demotion – with a significant pay cut – or face dismissal. She asked for extra time to consider her options, but the council refused. Instead, Rachel, who by now had been signed off with stress and anxiety, received a telephone call demanding that she come to a decision immediately.

“I said, ‘I’m off work sick, my doctor doesn’t feel I can make such a life-changing decision at the moment.'”

But Rachel was told if she didn’t accept the demotion she would be dismissed from her £45,000 a year job, with immediate effect.

“I got a letter the next day which said, ‘I’m sorry you have decided to accept dismissal.’ And that was it.”

Claire Pooley’s brother is the Park Hall resident in the photo that Rachel posted on Facebook.

Claire says her brother loves to be the centre of attention and loves to share photographs of himself with the rest of his family. The Friday music nights were the highlight of his week.

“He loves singing and dancing,” Claire says, “Rachel and the guys allowed him to just blossom on a Friday evening.

“The moment we walked in the door we knew Park Hall was a special place,” Claire’s husband Graham continues. “The atmosphere, the culture and the behaviour – people were happy there and had a lot of stimulation.”

The couple say that the Park Hall staff always encouraged Claire’s brother to get up and sing at the music nights.

None of us had a problem with it – gross misconduct or not

Claire Pooley, Relative of Park Hall resident

“He would practise and get ready for it – although he sang the same three songs every week,” Graham says. “We loved watching him – it brought him alive, it was wonderful.”

Neither Claire nor Graham feel that Rachel should have been fired for posting the photo of Claire’s brother.

“None of us had a problem with it – gross misconduct or not,” Claire says.

“After 21 years is it appropriate to sack the manageress who’s created a culture and environment at this special home in the way that they have?” asks Graham. “The answer is no, it’s not.”

It’s autumn 2016 and Rachel has decided to take Surrey County Council to an employment tribunal for unfair dismissal.

“They have to understand that this is my life that we’re talking about here,” she says.

“I want my career back.”

A preliminary hearing date is set for early November.

But she can’t afford any formal legal representation and so is planning to face the council’s barristers with only the help of her close friend, the Reverend David Walford, a retired healthcare chaplain who’s never done anything like this before and admits he’s out of his comfort zone.

“I’m very happy to stand up in front of people,” David says. “What I’m not sure of is facing people who have had a lifetime’s career in legal work.”

David was at Park Hall on the evening that the photo was taken. Like Rachel, he’s a singer and would perform at the Friday night music shows.

“I’ve seen a lot of care homes in my time as a parish clergyman and as a hospital chaplain. I knew the difference between what I’d usually see and Park Hall. Care with love, not care out of duty – that’s what Rachel was giving. The thought that Rachel was being taken out of that actually brought me to tears.”

Care with love, not care out of duty – that’s what Rachel was giving

Rev David Walford, Retired healthcare chaplain

To make matters worse, Rachel’s husband Gary is very unwell.

“He’s had the brain tumour for four years,” Rachel says. “He was very healthy, but he walks with a stick now.”

Not only is Gary unable to work, but without a reference Rachel can’t find a new job. She and Gary are racking up huge debts living off their credit cards, but she hopes her money worries will be sorted out once the case is resolved, with any luck out of court.

Two weeks before the date of the preliminary hearing Rachel is doing an unpaid gig at a local pub. She’s on stage singing Stuck In The Middle With You by Stealers Wheel and urging the punters to get up on the dance floor.

“It’s just so much stress, it’s crazy,” Rachel says later, “which is why nights like this are brilliant, just to let off some steam.”

Image caption Throughout the trial, Rachel kept performing

The day of the preliminary hearing in Croydon arrives. Rachel, who always believed the case would be settled out of court, says she never thought in a million years it would come to this. She’s nervous.

“I’ve got to stand up against one of Surrey’s senior solicitors to defend myself when I made one mistake in a 21-year career. They have crucified me.”

The judge sets a date for a full hearing, but it’s seven months away, at the start of June.

Then, out of the blue, towards the end of December, Rachel receives a settlement offer from the council. For a couple of days, she considers accepting the £7,500, before having a change of heart.

“It was a joke, an absolute joke,” Rachel says. “And it’s not even about money now, it’s about showing them for what they are.”

With the case dragging on, Rachel is really feeling the strain. She is anxious and depressed. So much is at stake – by now, she and Gary are in dire straits. Their debts are mounting, and they’re seven months in arrears with the rent on the house in Reigate that they share with their border collie, Bramble.

Image caption Rachel’s husband Gary and their dog, Bramble

“We are scraping pennies, literally pennies,” she says. “It’s never-ending, it never goes away.

“All I did was put up a picture of a client enjoying their life in the care home that I loved working in,” she says, beginning to cry.

By June 2017 the couple are at breaking point. They have no money in the bank and no savings to fall back on. Rachel is fearful that they’re going to lose everything, including the roof over their heads.

“It just goes to show that when you think you have everything it can be snatched away from you just like that, for one mistake,” she says.

I’ve had to watch my wife slowly falling apart, because of what they’ve done to her

Gary Burns, Husband

The trial is taking its toll on David, too. He’s exhausted. “This case has just become monstrous,” he says.

Two days before the tribunal is due to start Rachel decides that she’s packing it in, she can’t go on. Her husband Gary pleads with her for almost three hours not to walk away now. This isn’t the first time Rachel’s doubted the wisdom of continuing with the case.

“This case has destroyed her,” Gary explains. “She has no confidence any more, she doesn’t sleep any more, we argue much more now. It’s been disastrous.

“I’ve had to watch my wife slowly falling apart, because of what they’ve done to her.”

Finally, in early June, in a rundown corner of West Croydon, Rachel’s employment tribunal gets under way. She has given evidence and a number of witnesses have spoken and been questioned. But two days into the proceedings the judge has to adjourn the hearing when Rachel becomes very distressed.

“It just got too much,” she says. “I thought, ‘You’ve broken me to the point where I don’t have the self-esteem at the moment to go back into management.’ And it’s such a shame. I said I was sorry, I told the judges the absolute truth.”

The case finally concludes but without any decision. Rachel will have to wait another seven weeks for an answer.

Image caption The Rev David Walford agreed to help Rachel Burns with her defence

It’s the beginning of August 2017, nearly 20 months since Rachel was first suspended from her job, and she has some exciting news.

“I won! Oh, my God, I won!”

The court has upheld her claim of unfair dismissal.

The judge decides that Surrey County Council’s decision to demote Rachel was within the band of reasonable responses, given that she’d admitted the allegations against her.

But she concludes that the timescale the council gave Rachel to decide whether she would accept redeployment or face dismissal – just two working days – wasn’t long enough. This procedural aspect, she says, was a fundamental flaw.

“Justice has prevailed!” Rachel says. “It’s amazing that if you believe in something and you know your worth you just keep going. You keep going, and going and going.”

But Rachel will have to return to the employment tribunal on 13 November for a remedy hearing at which the court will decide how much she should be given in compensation. She has no idea how much that’s likely to be but fears that the sum will be reduced because she admitted the allegations against her.

She and Gary now have debts to the tune of about £50,000 and are 14 months in arrears with their rent, and although Rachel now has a reference from Surrey County Council, it states that she was fired for serious misconduct, so the prospect of her finding work is still uncertain.

“As a manager myself I wouldn’t look very favourably on that candidate,” she says.

Despite the win, going back to work will be a struggle. Before losing her job two years ago, Rachel had been signed off with stress, and she still suffers from anxiety and depression.

Meanwhile the job she loved has gone forever. Park Hall closed its doors on 30 June as part of Surrey County Council’s plans to shut down all six care homes it owned and ran. The residents were rehomed.

“I really loved Park Hall,” Rachel says. “It was like a family to me more than going to work.”

Image caption Rachel with her husband Gary