#if so angry…why so sexy

[0booboozefool0]

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there’s this set of pixels…

#spiderman #into the spider verse #across the spiderverse #spiderman astv #spiderverse #miguel o'hara #spider man 2099 #he is so fine #if so angry…why so sexy #my doodled doodle

[inkskinned]

what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?

i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?

a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?

in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.

girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.

there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.

for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.

something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.

is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.

most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."

a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.

#warm up #writeblr #this one has bothered me for a bit #any time a woman does something even passingly annoying we treat it like a fucking crime #hey man. women are allowed to be annoying. everyone forever is allowed to be passingly annoying #as long as they aren't hurting anyone/thing #like u wanna know something? i find it super annoying that men don't wear seatbelts #why arent there thousands of comments on driving videos thats just like : men try not to die in a car crash challenge #''this briefly annoyed me''. okay??????? AND????????????????? go get ur self a cookie and calm down about it #ur not entitled to control other ppl's experiences and emotions just so u can maintain ur own peace #if being briefly annoyed ruins ur whole day! you! need! therapy!!!! #men try not to become immediately angry about nothing challenge: level impossible #ps author is nonbinary. we didn't even get into the gender presentation thing #the fact men think it's SEXY that my voice is on the lower end....

[thranduel]

astarion, the man who was dying and offered eternal life, but had no idea that it meant becoming a slave to a sadistic master.

astarion, the man who had his freedom and bodily autonomy ripped away from him.

astarion, the man who was forced to befriend, seduce and sleep with people to lure them back to his master, resulting in severe sexual trauma and the struggle to form any sort of intimate relationship.

astarion, the man who was horribly punished whenever he refused his master’s orders (one punishment being sealed away in a dusty tomb, starving, for an entire year. he scratched his hands raw trying to carve his way out).

astarion, the man who was forced to eat rats.

astarion, the man who hasn’t even been able to see his own face since he turned.

astarion, the man who had his body mutilated as cazador carved scars onto his back, which he later found out was to bind him to a ritual.

astarion, the man who is so severely traumatised that he admitted he doesn’t know how to say “no” or ask for help (and he feels guilty when he does).

astarion, the man who waited two centuries to be helped and freed from torture, but no one came.

astarion, the man who was always treated like a monster when all he wanted was to be treated like a person.

astarion, the man who came up to you in the middle of the night just to thank you for defending him and allowing him to make his own decisions.

astarion, the man who said that no one ever looked out for him or showed him kindness, and that you’re the only one. “other people don’t have a heart like you. you’re you. no one is like that.”

astarion, the man who broke the cycle of power and terror that started centuries ago thanks to the love, care and compassion that you showed him when no one else did.

astarion, the man who confessed that he loves you and feels safe with you; something he has never felt with anyone before.

#my darling boy :( #astarion #baldur’s gate 3 #bg3 #bg3 spoilers #his backstory and character development make me want to bawl my eyes out #this is why i get so angry when people don’t even try to understand him #and when they reduce him to things he’s not #like do you pay ANY attention to anything he says?? #or do you just stare at him and drool and then continue to sexualise him #sorry if that sounds dramatic but ughhhhhh man #it’s just incredibly annoying #like i don’t know why some people choose to pick up an intense game with really deep characters if they’re not gonna try to understand them #like they weren’t just made for you to treat them like they’re objects #and what gets me is the fact that astarion would HATE how people talk about him #and yes yes i know he’s not real i’m not dumb i am aware!!!!! #but he would absolutely hate it #that flirty sexy vampire image you have of him isn’t even real #it was a mask he wore #he was literally forced into doing those things #even in the game he has a reputation for flirting and sleeping around but that’s not even who he is or what he wants #it’s all an act #and it’s just so sad how everyone reduces him to that when it traumatises him every day #and apparently there’s a scene with raphael where if you haven’t seen astarion’s scars yet -> #raphael basically says he’s surprised astarion has kept his clothes on for this long and then he strips him naked in front of everyone #it’s so horrible and unfair #i just want to hold his hand and hug him tight. he deserves so much better in the game AND in this fandom #tw abuse #tw sa #my posts

[margueritestjusts]

what pisses me off the most about the jekyll and hyde musical is that robert louis stevenson explicitly said to NOT make the inner conflict about sex but meanwhile frank wildhorn was like "lol bozo" and made it about jekyll/hyde choosing between a virgin and a whore like HUH.

#the whole point is that jekyll HAS ALWAYS BEEN A HORRIBLE PERSON #it's just that hyde allows him to EXPRESS those awful urges freely #it's all about the human psyche and human morality so making it about sex is just...... NO!!!!!!! #there is also no lanyon in the musical to be a foil to jekyll and im mad about that too #also why is jekyll a twink he's like 50 in the book #gotta make him sexy and appealing i guess...... /sarc #i literally need frank wildhorn to blow up right now #i cant look at pictures or videos of the show without getting unreasonably angry #the strange case of dr jekyll and mr hyde #jekyll and hyde #frank wildhorn #robert louis stevenson #anya talks

[batxmasisrjuice]

There's just something about red Beej 😳

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And that THROW! (lip bite)

So much gusto in his body language 🥵😈

💦Not to mention spit💦

#spit fix #spitting beetlejuice #jesus christ why you gotta be so sexy #creature #body language #alex appreciation #alex brightman #beetlejuice #beetlejuice broadway #beetlejuice musical #beetlegeuse #beetlejuice bway #beetlejuice the musical #musical beetlejuice #hyperventilating #knuckle bite #weak knees #he angry boy

[itspileofgoodthings]

that viral tweet about clothes looking dead on Taylor made me sooooooo angry tbh. the writer can meet me in the pit.

#it made me so angry for a hundred reasons #But mostly because it missed the truth in its own lie #and the truth is that —in the BEST way —Taylor always looks like herself #and always looks …… kind of wholesome and straightforward #in her own words she is neither edgy sexy or cool #not inherently #she can make the vigilante shit outfit (and dance tbh) seem businesslike after a while #but that’s not —as the writer believes —due to a lack of personality but an excess of it!!!! #and the girl is not sexy in the way of packaged pop stars. she has no slinky oozing charm #she is straight as an arrow and completely vibrant and completely a girl’s girl #she is also a dork!!!!! #(a good thing) #This is why I think about the rep tour version of Dress all the time 😭 #the softness 😭😭😭 the colors 😭😭😭 the joy the humor the fun😭😭😭😭😭 #I’ve never seen an explicitly physical love story (which dress is) told with those qualities #like. Revolutionary tbh #but yeah. Taylor no matter what she’s wearing remains herself and the truest parts of her shine through no matter what

[rosenecklaces]

Biggest proof the first book messy sibling bond actually had depth and redem. with blossoming potential since day one is eris straight up being there on the killing of his brother girlfriend and no one bats an eye about it

#still not over that person sayin is psycho behavior fighting your sibling for a tv remote #baby men had been beating each other up just to hug and kiss a minute later...why do yall think sisters couldn't #as hell some people love to act they did. like is it illegal to be lazy and obnoxious or be angry at your sister... do you deserve jail #and honestly that's beside the point. nesta and much less elain never raised a hand on feyre even in just annoyance and vice versa but sure #the archeron sisters are held by their heads so high and then theres rhys Messy tampon stans... existing at all #eris being the funny silly sexy gay rep but also nesta true love(? and I'm not even touching lulu sins #in conclusion. you are not inmune to Women are Evil Bitches propaganda- sister bonds edition

[honeydjarin]

I absolutely hate that I love maul so much 😡

#why does the scrungly man draw me in so much? #there’s nothing sweet about him!!!!! #he makes me so angry 🤬 #he’s not even evil in a sexy way #I haven’t seen rebels yet but I’ll cry when he dies #I wish his life could have been different #I wish there was someone there to show him love when he needed it #I want to punch him in the face #I want to kiss him and know I would die trying #he’s not even my type #radio static

[katyspersonal]

NEVER give Edgar the ‘sinister glasses shine moment like in animes’ /pos

#fandomry rambles #i am so used to drawings of him as someone angry/done/tired/etc + huge loser that- #-i was not prepared to see him as ANIME lol xD #when glasses are round this effect is SEXY what have you done lol xd #also i think the worst thing i've heard in my life is that shou tuck3r looks like he could be- #-a child of edgar and my version of rom (since he has same downturned blue eyes kind as her. but also redhead in round glasses) #this is so cursed fdhdhsghds i just wish i could unsee it #i know only 2 people here know who shou is and one of them only knows from the memes but trust me it is very cursed #but yeah truly you can make any character look hot if you know WHAT to do #like i am pretty sure right angle at gehrman or seluvis and they suddenly are attractive OUTSIDE too not just inside #(seluvis bit is semi ironic in case you could not tell sfdjhsd he is pathetic narcissist but that's why we love him </3) #(all two of us lol)

[ziracona]

It drives me crazy when people are like “Anders’ personality is totally different in DA2 than Awakening! He’s so much less goofy and happy and fun! Justice must have changed his personality to make him that way!!” Bitch he’s depressed.

#HES JUST DEPRESSED #like he’s /exactly/ the same. I played those back to back. he’s different he’s! but his /self/ isn’t. his mood is. he’s goofy and fun in #Awakening. Da2 I didn’t see him smile once. UNTIL I said ‘ooooh that’s why you’ve got a sexy brooding thing going’ and he was so surprised #he almost laughed. he’s just sad and angry baby girl he’s literally got the same value and personality load out just it’s been a few bad #years. I used to be more funny and happy before I went through massive trauma and betrayal too #also he’s nothing like Justice? did you ever talk to the man? captain literal? Goofy McSuperhero? my belvoed? Justice has Sten reactions but #they’re sincere instead of him being a little shit #dragon age 2 #dragon age awakening #the boys are fine leave them alone; they’re good for each other

[hasarjunadoneanythingwrong]

Day 655

Unlike the mod of this blog arjuna finishes things in a concise fashion, so he’s done well today

#hasarjunadoneanythingwrong #my post #started ANOTHER fucking comic late at night instead of finishing something #anyway. I’m not making a sep post 4 this bc k don’t want to add to the complaining but #at this point in time I’ve seen more people complaining abt ppl complaining abt the npcs than actual complaints #like. I think they’re just making shit up now bc they’re mad ppl didn’t just gratefully eat their scraps #I’m now hearing that the guda6 ssr artist was HARRASSED over it which while possible #why am I only hearing about this now?????? and not then??? #it fr feels like they want to ruin it for anyone who’s actually happy #I think some of it is ppl don’t realize it wasn’t just eng ppl complaining but idk #and they don’t notice that the jp players also complain a lot bc it’s in another language/on dif sites #so they always try to turn it into some ‘damn sjw na fem player’ but that’s not really…accurate? #and frustrating too bc at the time of the npc thing there were only 3 guys released like yeah actually putting 3 sexy npcs out at once was #gonna piss people off if it could’ve doubled it for that demographic #and idk. it definitely feels like it’s pushback for the fact that people were actually angry on both sides of the fanbase that now #I keep seeing these damn posts complaining about ppl complaining #like if it bothers you so much just block them?????? #it really wasn’t an unreasonable response though #and yeah I’m not pro harassing artists but I do find it convenient it wasn’t mentioned until now #if it is true-it’s bad but that isn’t the fault of the majority of the people who were frustrated? #def not on par w like the. parv thing for example #like maybe fans in this fanbase just get bitchy sometimes idk #anyway I needed to vent this to release bile I just didn’t want it obvious srry to bother <3 #I’m just sick of it like damn can we not just enjoy the new servant. the npc thing really wasn’t that bad why are you still mad

[jrueships]

Rewatched this video and I just cannot get over fetus Allen... he confuses me 😭 all I'm thinking is "ain't no way he would've attracted Diggs looking like that the glow up came through"

they're very....

#the HOT CHEERLEADER has fallen for the SOFTWARE DEVELOPER 🗣‼️‼️‼️ #lamar in that video is so funny.... he drew an angry bird 🥰🥰 #and hes proud OF IT !! #young diggs: 🤩🤩😛😛😜😋😚🤑🤗🤭🥵🥵🥳😻😽😹 #young allen: 🥔 #i think thats great and more ships should have that air of confusion #where no one else knows how or why theyre together except for couple #and they wouldnt changed it otherwise !!!! #but diggs and allen first meeting each other n falling in love over an online shooting game in the pandemic suddenly makes a Lot more sense #diggs listening to allen in his headphones #getting revived by him everytime because hes newer to the game #picturing a hot sexy hairy lumberjack who wears open plaid shirts #and then having to see That #but that glow up pulled through and now allen is the lumberjack of stefon's dreams 🤩🤩 #personality over appearances 😊😊 #ted asks #diggs/allen #theyre so #a bad bitch and his potato

[coelakanths]

man i used to make ocs that were so monogamous and committed to each other with serious and loving relationships. now i make like ten characters and they all fuck and hate each other

#*wiping away tears* ive grown so much #ive got some characters and i can make every possible relationship between them work #like. eating angels for example. damien verne marcie and q #they could ALL date they have ALL fucked #damien and verne roommates to lovers… obsessed with each other’s company fun sleepovers etc #they’re the most wholesome LMAO #damien and marcie oh my god. barely knew each other then marcie beat the shit out of him then damien is her queer awakening like hello? #damien and q best friends to enemies to its complicated to mutually assured destruction to damien killing them in cold blood… #they’ve fucked. so much. my god #halfway thru an argument they just start slobbering over each other #marcie and verne… verne is just sexy and angel bait ok. marcie is so angry flustered. they’re so confused WHY am i in love with you etc #marcie and q is so fucked up they’d do anything for him anything they would kill and they have #and q just gives her NOTHING!!!! they’re so fucking delicious to me tbh #q and verne. verne is IN MAD GAY LOVE WITH Q. this is actual canon ok i wrote this in. it’s disgusting #most fucked up love square of all time my god #q dicit #they’re so fun. sorry #ocs

[gideonisms]

I'm sorry I'm extremely confused what breq's motivations even are this book but more IMPORTANTLY she is absolutely smoking hot in every scene

#i want her to toss me out an airlock. in a sexy way #unfortunate for her when she has to fend off her many suitors #i find her flat expression and inability to explain herself captivating. i'm down on one knee #she's just going about her day barely anything has happened yet. idk why she is simply so stunning but she is #gay girls gender neutral will see an angry girl in a practical outfit and just lose it #ancillary justice tag #edit. #not for al #not for al!!!! do not look at my thirstposting!!!! look away!!!!!

[macbethz]

Ok spiderhead was shit but I’m so obsessed w how homoerotic it was. Why did they do that

#mostly just so much potential IT MAKES ME KINDA ANGRY TBH #especially how they butchered the original #but anyway…mmm egotistical Chris hemsworth sexy #gonna steal him for my own oc. cause why not #warlock wartalks