#i'm just tired of all the times I've seen posts preaching self-improvement

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I dont know who needs to hear this- but self-care doesn't have to begin, or be,- skin care, nails, lashes/brows, workouts, hair care, etc, or any other "aesthetically pleasing" "glowup"- and I'm just gonna say it- other buzz words that usually rely on societal beauty standards and buying products to fix your life.

what self-care starts with is you, what actually brings you happiness. self-care starts with finding your happiness.- because happiness leads to contentment, which leads to joy.- and once you find that, so much more can fall into place for you, and you won't feel like you have to "fix" your life as much as you'll want to improve and grow in your life- for you.

-taking care of your body is so important. but I fucking hate as someone who struggles with self-worth and productivity limiting mental health issues and going on to what should be open-minded and diverse tags and being flooded with male gaze-i-fied gatekeeping ideas on what makes someone an "it girl".

#h #FUCK BEING AN “IT GIRL”. YOU ALREADY ARE. YOU JUST GOT TO TAP INTO WHAT MAKES YOU YOUR OWN “IT GIRL”. #FUCK HOW OTHERS VIEW YOUR BEAUTY- HOW DO YOU WANT OTHERS TO VIEW AND REMEMBER YOUR HEART? #and how do you view your own heart? #ps!! i really do not mean to attack anyone here #i'm just tired of all the times I've seen posts preaching self-improvement #and its 3 pictures of skinny- face/body filtered- upper class- expensive workout clad- white girls 💀 #broad term ik but i think that paints the problem I'm pointing out that i see lol #to each their own tho fr /gen #manifesting #master manifestor #self concept #self care #self improvement #it girl energy #it girl aesthetic #it girl lifestyle #clean girl #pink pilates princess #that girl #becoming that girl #glow up