#i can't put my finger on why

[s1mpl3sp0ng3]

last year i watched all of season one of the chucky series and really loved it, but i just found out what they do with glen and glenda and hm. Hm. i do not like that.

#i don't fucking. like. when nb characters are done like this #i can't put my finger on why #but it just feels othering

[friedricebunny]

the venn diagram between liar romantic ships i dislike and liar friendships between a guy and mc that I think would be great is just a circle

#pj talks #pj talks about utt #listen #i only have two reasons to think this #one: itaru x mc #i don't like it #i can't put my finger on why #it just doesn't vibe with me #yeah i could go on a whole spiel about itaru's whole Thing but that's not why i don't want them together #but god when i think of them being like best friends #i go nuts #and then two: sotaro x mc #i also don't like #yeah sotaro is trying his best to understand and listen to mc better #and props to him for doing that #we love growth in this house #but every time i play a sotaro route and we get into romance i'm just like :/ alright yeah let's just get through this #but god #sotaro and mc friendship #i am being mostly fuelled by thoughts of #mc and sotaro learning how to cook together but in a friendship way #but they just seem like they'd be funny friends #i'll probably have more examples later #i also am a kazumi and mc friendship enjoyer but i'm actually fine with kazumi/mc lmao #in general even tho liar is an otome game #i really like thinking about potential friendships between mc and the liars #also before i post this #haruichi and mc friendship would actually be more like a friendly rivalry in my head #y'know when they get past the just work acquaintances part #because of course i can't make a liar post without mentioning haruichi /j

[bbnibini]

I find it so painfully heartbreaking that Solomon just...laughs off all the derision, the name-calling, and possibly even did "evil" things on purpose because it's expected of him at this point. (He had not always been like this as Thirteen pointed out before). There was a time when he was "innocent". When his soul sparkled. When it resembled the kind of soul everyone in these god forsaken (pun intended with spite) three realms seemed to associate with the ever loved MC. He's just...worryingly carefree. And because he's like that, he feels even more of a tragic character to me.

Sometimes it even seems that he himself would seemingly make up excuses on why he's hated. Oh, it's because I'm a sorcerer this. I might have won a war against Devildom single-handedly this. I have forgotten. But maybe, I did something bad, that. Hon, you were doing that to SURVIVE. You don't have to be a faultless person to deserve compassion. You don't have to be MC to deserve to be loved.

#rant #the more i play and read about nb solomon the more it feels like he's a worst case scenario foil to MC #and it's ridiculous maybe to feel this way but seeing how everyone dotes on mc and just panders to them without question no matter #especially with meaner dialogues #make me dislike the mc to some extent #what good will raising up one character do in exchange of dehumanising another? #i couldn't put a finger on this feeling before #but i think that's also why im so burnt out with this game #the more everyone loves me as the mc the more it becomes so apparent how unfairly solomon was treated #and how everyone ESPECIALLY HIM just rolls with it #sweetie please be angry. please complain. please hate me in some way #but no he just keeps loving and supporting the mc #in game in fandom this man can't catch a break #wanna gatekeep him fr /s #this has just been brewing in my mind for a while. i don't really wanna hear discourse or arguments that's why i put it in the tags #I just need a place to vent my frustrations with this game #obey me #obey me nightbringer #obey me solomon #spoiler mention #he's imperfect and flawed as all humans are and he deserves to be loved irregardless

[treefish]

recoloring some of my favorite loveseats

#ts4 #i want ooblets vibes in my sims game dammit! #idk why but i much prefer loveseats to sofas #a lot of couches just seem too long? or something? #can't quite put my finger on it

[mamawasatesttube]

superboy/robin: world's finest three #1

now hold on a minute. hey kon? why do you know about the flying graysons? kon that's way before your time. kon you are less than a year old and they have been in the ground for over a decade. was there a cadmus scientist who just felt really strongly about aerialists or did kon go on some kind of anachronistic wikipedia binge? kon i need answers

#rimi talks #this feels ripe for comedy but i can't put my finger on the punch line. theres SOME kind of dick & kon funny story to be told here tho #kon: something something the flying graysons you know? everyone knows them right #bart (also about a year old): the fucking who #kon #tim #tim is just getting yote dont worry about it #i opened wf3 because i wanted to do a comparison between the steel vs metallo stuff in steel no. 21 and kon vs metallo in wf3 no 1 #but then i just got fucking blindsided by this one throwaway line. KON? WHY DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THAT.

[yuttikkele]

harry osborn being my favorite spiderman character in almost every universe:

usm:

#and then shaggy blonde white man comes out of nowhere #i actually can't put my finger on why he's my favorite i just know i enjoy the episode more when he's on screen #nova is what got me to watch that show and danny is what made me stay <33 #danny rand #iron fist #usm #ultimate spiderman #ack #text post #spiderman

[aprilblossomgirl]

Are you taking me to see the night sky? We could have watched this on YouTube.

#dangerous romance #dangerous romance the series #dangerous romance ep 10 #dangerousromanceedit #guynawa #guy x nawa #marc pahun #pawin kulkaranyawich #april.gifs #*gifs #**drama sets #scenery: urban night sky #i see skyline i can't not gif #i was thinking to make scenery edit/gifs of any drama but then why not that starry *scratch that* cloudy night sky of our dumb4dumb couple #crossing fingers i will get a third starry night sky scene for them #how many times i rewatch this part that many times i put my hands in head (affectionate)

[pocketgalaxies]

Out of curiosity, Ashton, what was that twisted face you just made?

#critical role #criticalroleedit #imodna #southerngothic #laudna #ashton greymoore #imogen temult #marisha ray #gifs #* #*cr #cr3 #cr spoilers #ship: imodna #r: imogen x ashton #scheduled #33m c3e32 #i love that i have nO idea what to make of this #why is she glaring so hard???? they were complimenting her! #something has Changed w the new delilah developments but i can't put my finger on what it is yet #thanks marisha for the food as always. ur the best

[lab-gr0wn-lambs]

Y'know, now that I've had a couple weeks to sit with Hazbin Hotel and get over the catchy songs and brilliant voice acting, I hate to say it but Helluva Boss is better. Helluva is messier and its low points are lower, but it feels more authentic. The humor isn't always funny to me, but you can tell that it was funny to the people writing it. I can see the writers room bouncing dumb sex jokes off of eachother and laughing. I like the formula better, the more cynical attitude, and the characters manage to feel more human despite being hellborn murderous monsters. And even though it's the literal same universe, the world of Helluva is so much more full and lived-in? Hazbin had a certain emptiness. A Tell-Don't-Show kinda bare bones rushed feeling. I'm not saying Helluva Boss is a great show, but it's got so much more charm (particularly in the first season). Helluva Boss feels like an actual fun dumb adult comedy, Hazbin feels like a kids show with gore and swear words.

#when I watched that first episode of Hazbin I was struck by how much more like an actual tv show it feels #i was like wow this is so much better! #and the songs upon songs #I was kinda just dazzled by it #but then I rewatched the first episode of Helluva #and I was like. oh. #this is much more fun. #I like Blitz more than any character in Hazbin Hotel combined and I can't even put my finger on Why

[eppysboys]

Incredible things are happening in the 'I Dig Love' comment section

#david...so close to the truth: hmm...now why would ringo like this song so much...i can't quite put my finger on it 🤔 #Very Lennon = song about gay sex #now i realise i was mistaken in thinking those emojis was some sort sex joke #sorry to thebeatles9921 #zilabee #everything is ringo

[greenishness]

You can’t force people to be honest with you. If you’re an up-front person who doesn’t have a problem asking for what you need, it can be easy to interpret wishy-washiness as cowardly and manipulative. It obviously sucks to be in emotional limbo, and I don’t blame you for interpreting their silence as a punishment. But have you considered it might also be a form of self-protection?

“Why won’t X tell me what’s wrong? I’m not a mind reader!” is a common complaint. But the question which often occurs to me is, who does that clarity benefit? Does the teller have reasonable grounds to believe expressing their anger is a safe or productive thing to do? Is it going to lead to deeper understanding, or just another argument? Is the person demanding an explanation going to listen, or use the teller’s complaint to retaliate, linguistically outmanoeuvre them, or adopt a position of victimhood? Often a request for clarity is disingenuous. We know what we’ve done and just don’t want to have to be the one to bring it up, because we feel guilty, and it’s easier to take a defensive posture than proactively apologise.

Not to mention that when we’re upset, the last thing we want is to give the person who offended us an opportunity to relitigate the situation. Especially if there’s wounded pride involved. It can be humiliating to confess the depth of your hurt feelings. That kind of honesty is an act of generosity, not emotional obligation. 

Help Me Hera: Our Couple BFF's Won't Forgive Us

#this has gotten me through the last month i am not even kidding not even a little bit . #it articulates something that i have been trying to put my finger on for a while now #that articulating the depth of your hurt and humiliation to the person responsible for it is an act of incredible vulnerability #and if you choose to do that i'm proud of you! but it is a privilege that you alone have to right to bestow #'i can't make it better if i don't know what' wrong' is such an insidious way of reversing power dynamics #and frankly an incredibly entitled way to view the world like who asked you to make it better? maybe you'll just have to stew #no one is obligated to share their innermost self with you no matter how badly you want them to #and if you cannot accept that very basic boundary then i have an idea why someone else might be so mad at you

[nitewrighter]

I'm listening to the Shining audiobook and I love the Overlook Hotel. She's such a hater. Everything described as traps and teeth and snares and jungle. I don't know why she's like that but I can't wait to find out. I mean part of my personal explanation so far is just Colorado Be Like That. Something about the air and the altitude there already gives my brain a weird tension and god the Overlook is just THE setting as character. Love that for her.

#'this inhuman place makes human monsters' yes yes YESS tasty YES #the shining #overlook hotel #chewing on the scenery that chews on you right back #she feels more feminine than she did in the movie.... i can't put my finger on why

[ghouljams]

Oooo I love the idea of distribution system Ghost starting to heal and moving on from his savior, but I also love the idea that he heals and begins to realize that they’re a little more human than he first thought and maybe they need a bit of saving too and like it turns into this mutually beneficial healing. Like they healed Ghost so damn it if he won’t save them too (he owes them his life after all)

Like I said I'm still work shopping what I think the ending will be! I want it to have a meaning within the story, even if that ending happens to be my usual happy ending of they get married and are gross and in love. I have another story I'm working on that has an ending I think I might semi-steal for the Ghost distribution system, we'll see though.

I gotta do an in-depth re-read and figure out my feelings on it.

#ghoul speaks #I'm feeling very weird today... #can't put my finger on why #I was feeling weird on tuesday too #sort of restless but also melancholic #maybe it's the new medication #hmmmm this shit better not kill my joy and zest for life

[papa-evershed]

RJC talks The Ritual

#rob james-collier #robert james-collier #rob james collier #robert james collier #the ritual press #mine #listen the blue marks are a watermark and there's nothing i can do about it but #these gifs are trash in every sense of the word #i don't know guys #not really sure why i needed these gifs #just felt important #can't quite put my finger on it #some might would say it was a real meaty interview #perhaps he was having a ball #plsdontcancelme

[arsonist-chicken]

I got to look at the room in the dormitory and now I'm torn between taking it and running, or maybe taking a bit more time to find something... less really cramped and where the washing machine doesn't smell sour, somehow

#and i have to decide today help #like yeah my flatmates are awful and I hate them and am in a bad mood whenever they're home #but they're usually gone on the weekends so at least I'm alone then #there's Something weird about the dormitory I looked at but I can't put my finger on it. apart from the awful smell in the laundry room #but I mean I could take my laundry to a laundromat if I really didn't want to use that washing machine I guess #there's shared kitchens there too but oh well i've done that before #but by god am I looking forward to living alone after university #all I want is a flat with enough space for a large bed or a pull-out couch for when friends visit #and ideally a balcony and cats allowed #mine #jess' flatmate rants #am I being too picky? all student rooms are very small and shared kitchens and bathrooms are normal #what really threw me off was the washing machine ngl #aaah maybe that's another thing: my old dorm was bigger so more anonymous #this one has a kitchen for 8-10 people #i'm not very social; I don't want to be friends with the people in my dorm; I want to be alone and left alone when I'm at home #anyway. guess I have that to consider for the next hour or so #aah Vse Kar Vem came up and I'm crying again; wonderful #also you know those days when anyone talking in the same room as you makes you want to murder them? i'm on like week two or three of that #with no stop and idk why and what's wrong; send help #ngl maybe my problem is less with the dorm itself and more that I literally can't imagine a good future for myself right now #where I get to not live either in my childhood bedroom forever or only ever with flatmates which. I'm never moving in with strangers again #and I have no friends I could move in with who would want that or don't already live with their boyfriends

[snixx]

don't ask me why but the term "ethnic wear" pisses the hell out of me

#girlblogging.pdf #just...say...indian or desi wear... #very random pet peeve i have i can't put my finger on why it bothers me so much