#how she’s marketed herself and created this intense parasocial relationship with her fans

[reasoncourt]

this is so funny to me. like. is he not embarrassed? he went out with a woman who has always written songs about her life and who has never pretended otherwise and who wrote so many love songs about him. and now he wants to stoke the whole misogynistic crazy-ex-girlfriend narrative. there’s undeniably loads of things to criticise taylor swift for but this is so pathetic. grow up 😭😭😭

#sorry rant over #this is just so tired #i’ll be the first to criticise taylor swift but she’s a songwriter who wrote a song #and it’s extremely true that men don’t get the same sort of criticism #how she’s marketed herself and created this intense parasocial relationship with her fans #which encourages speculation into her private life is obviously unique #but that’s an entirely different thing from ‘im so embarrassed she wrote honestly ab her experience of our relationship breakdown’ #like idk. lol. just take it as a compliment #and shut up about the ‘harry styles’ treatment #cause harry styles was always like ‘she writes great songs. if i’m a topic then that’s flattering’ #like my goood #i shouldn’t care this much #but this discourse just frustrates me so badly