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#how do i tell her she needs to break up with him immediately. posthaste.fuck it funny post over rant incoming tw emotional abuse i think
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playing dmc1 with my earbuds in (but on low volume bc they're being weird) while my roommate and her shitty bf argue. i feel like i'm recreating the very specific experience of some child of divorce out there
#how do i tell her she needs to break up with him immediately. posthaste.fuck it funny post over rant incoming tw emotional abuse i think
#nyarla dni
#(<- roomie and nyarla have met and i don't wanna air roomie's drama to ppl who know her w/o her consent. anon internet ppl only)
#listen i'm normally for gentle advising and that's probably what i'll do since i don't want to stress her out but oh my fucking god what is
#his problem. he's constantly putting her in these weird no-win situations where the only right answer is to never be upset or disagree or b
#wrong on accident or be misunderstood by him and to tell him everything she's feeling so she's not 'playing mind games' but if she says wha
#she's feeling he'll interrogate her and badger her with the same questions over and over again insisting she's unreasonable until she gives
#in and says she's sorry with an attitude he likes. i fucking don't like him. and a lot of this is observations from today. the day after sh
#GOT INTO A CAR ACCIDENT AND BROKE HER NECK. WHAT THE FUCK.
#it's like he expects to be treated like a king on one of the worst days of her life and when she's upset he's like OH. OH I GET IT.
#and lectures her on having attitude and taking things out on others when she's literally not even doing that. not to an extent that matters
#anyway. like. there's more productive ways of dealing with that. where you don't treat them like a bad kid for getting overwhelmed
#he has made her cry multiple times today. i have been around multiple arguments and fights and he's just genuinely. awful i hate him
#hell the first argument i overheard *i* was in tears by the end (luckily they left soon after bc i had to run to the basement laundry
#dungeon to bawl my eyes out because 1. i can't handle confrontation 2. i've never seen roomie cry and 3. she just seemed so hurt and tired)
#anyway he just left again after a fight because. god this is so dumb. she told him to move while they were sleeping in the same twin bed
#(remember she's in a neck brace) and he fucking. left the room for an HOUR bc he thought the only thing that could POSSIBLY mean (as he
#insisted) was for him to get out of here and then when she was like oh hey i'm sorry i didn't mean it like that he decided to spend the nex
#half hour of his short time on this earth chewing her out for not giving him a lengthy explanation while half-asleep as to like. why he
#needed to move (she wanted to grab smth) and apparently he sat in the chair by her bed for like 10 mins before leaving so he probably saw
#her fall back asleep. and then he got pissy when after he left she didn't pick up her phone when he was calling her? even though he knew sh
#was asleep?? she didn't even know he was gone. fucking. i need to get him away from my roomie YESTERDAY
#look. miscommunication happens. i'm not saying he's an asshole for wanting things said clearly. i am pro-saying what you mean.
#but if every time your gf tells you what she means you make it into a 30 minute lecture (no matter how small the slight and w/o examining i
#you're actually right or not) she's not gonna wanna fucking tell you if she doesn't think it's worth the argument. especially if you never
#let her rest until she concedes. apology isn't enough. clarification isn't enough. she has to say how wrong she was and beg and GOD. UGHHH
#and he's always on about how she hurts his feelings. a gust of wind could hurt his feelings. he's constantly berating her manipulating her
#and then he's like >:( see that hurt my feelings you can't hurt ppl's feelings. you're disrespectful. HE"S THE WORST I FUCKING HATE HIM
#look sometimes adversity reveals the truth of a person and this just amplified his shittiness so much. mr OH i slept in a HOSPITAL and it
#was so bad... you can't be in a bad mood bc i've been doing the bare minimum and you need to prioritize MY feelings rn. also i won't leave
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