#honestly tho I don’t see nebarra being the traditional marriage kinda guy

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What type of wedding aesthetic do you think Neb's would have? Rustic, Modern, Southern, Romantic, etc. Would it be big or small? Open invite or close invite?

under the cut for being very speculative very long and very embarrassing 

Depends somewhat on what his partner wants, but closed invite and a smaller wedding are basically non-negotiable for Nebarra. He’ll tolerate you inviting some of the worst bards you know in a heartbeat if it means he doesn’t have to have a party attendance bigger than maybe 7 people (he says, exaggerating greatly. if you actually try to invite some of the worst bards you know he’s going to go through all the stages of grief except acceptance)

I don’t really think he has a specific aesthetic in mind honestly, and the decorations (while he’s picky about things not looking bad) are left largely up to you. but I think the biggest struggle would probably be figuring out where the marriage is happening. 

Assuming Nebarra wants his family to be there (I can imagine he’d at the very least want to update his brother about it in the form of a letter), farmers don’t exactly make the kind of money that would make travel to skyrim from Auridon safe and/or comfortable. So it’s either spend the extra money to ensure their travel goes smoothly, or go get married in or near Auridon. Which, lets be real here, the answer is get married near home LOL. He’s probably grown a little fonder of some parts of Skyrim than he’d openly admit, but getting married in Skyrim is hardly his first choice unless he is significantly drunk, and he’d insist for years that it didn’t count. This is all assuming he even wants his family there, which is hard to say given the lack of information we have on them beyond his desire to keep them safe (which implies a certain level of fondness at the very least, but he might not deem the risk of their presence worth it or not want them there for a variety of other reasons. hard to say)

Assuming Nebarra didn’t want his family to be there, there’s more flexibility for where he might consider getting married, but Cyrodiil and Hammerfell are definitely off the table........Vvardenfell too, obviously, but you’d give him a good laugh about the suggestion so long as you weren’t being serious...... He wouldn’t be all too thrilled about the idea of Black Marsh either, or Elsweyr probably...........yea, lets just skip all this: haul his ass into the temple of Mara in Riften and call it a day. 

#my friends will attest I was so tempted to just respond ‘’ghost wedding cuz camia’’ #LMAO #I’m a nice person . have real content #honestly tho I don’t see nebarra being the traditional marriage kinda guy #especially since traditional marriages often require like. speeches to show devotion and what not #nebarra would be uncomfortable with all the emotion happening in front of him #AGDHDHDHA #he also doesn’t wanna be vulnerable In front of other ppl so ur getting the lamest comments from him there sorry buddy #he’ll be better on the honeymoon. uh. maybe. #i cant believe i wrote this im disgraced #look away pls my SHAME' #also I say vvardenfell here because I have NOOOO idea what red year did to all the other shit in morrowind #so sticking with what u know