#drama was because of an impasse in a character redesign I saw live and tried to find solutions

[hel-phoenyx]

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#hello #this is yet another vent post so i'm writing it in tags #just in case #so #where to start #my friend group is imploding #my bf is most likely in his autodestruction phase #started a drama yesterday on behalf of a person that doesn't speak to us anymore because we dont “respect her boundaries” #(in “” because hell i don't know her boundaries we violated she doesn't communicate AT ALL) #everyone joined even people that had nothing to do with it (no shade to Noa i know you were angry) #drama was because of an impasse in a character redesign I saw live and tried to find solutions #and the girl that stopped talking to us said to my bf that he can trashtalk us freely like TALK TO US GIRL ???? #I already had problems with the lack of communication of this girl in the past forcing me to change a character name but not the point #problem is I thought the drama was peacefully resolved at the very least but guess who vagued all our partners #in his instagram story ? #like fuck this i'm this close to break up #I sent a risky dm this morning asking for discussion #and now i'm waiting #this is infuriating to say the least #atp i don't know if I should end this (and I am certainly going to advise both him and my gf to break up wth each other #both of them seem to have lost the spark) #but i feel really really bad nonetheless #vent #ig