#clarke answers

[blushedfemme]

Hard same to the blushing Butch, I was terrified of talking to Fems when I finally felt comfortable enough with myself to try and flirt. But one night I was talking to this absolutely stunning Fem, she was shorter than me with the biggest brown eyes I’ve ever seen. I wanted to drown in them. And that was… interesting to say the least because I was actually really struggling with keeping eye contact at the time and that night I swore to myself to keep it with whoever I struck up a convo with. So I talk to her, it’s going well. I'm holding eye contact and I get a little confident. So I lean in, my hand landing on her hip, I act like I can’t hear her over the music. And she stops I think I’ve fucked up, made her uncomfortable, so as I’m about to take my hand off her, but she grabs it. And I swear it happened in slow mo but her eyes dragged up my body and to my own with a smirk that would make your insides flip and she pulled me in closer by the hand and placed it on her ass. Me, being the mess of a Butch, I was, and still am blushed so hard I was redder than the neon sign hanging up above the bar. And somehow she thought that was so endearing she took me home and we’ve been dating for 5 years. So I agree, lean in, you’ll never know what might happen. :)

HELL!! YEAH!! THIS IS WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT!!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

YES to butches leaning in and taking leaps despite the nervousness, but also femmes take notes!!! 👆🏻 take the little cues and run with them. take the hand on the hip and put it on your ass!! impeccable form all around and i’m so happy it worked out so well, congratulations to you both 🥰 thank you for sharing, anon!!

#clarke answers

[freelancearsonist]

riding marc spector after he’s had a hard mission and he holds onto your hips and fucks up into you when he gets close 🙈

OKAY YEAH YES THIS IS THE VIBE

like he's stressed and exhausted and all you want to do is make him feel better and remind him that he's okay, that he's here and nothing's going to take him away from you

so you climb into his lap and make a meal of it, kissing him until his head spins before unbuckling his belt and helping him shove his pants down just enough to get his cock out

and you tease just a little bit, stroking him so lightly that it makes him actually growl and nearly demand you hop on

you're not one to deny him so you do, sinking down onto every delicious inch of him and you stop once he's all the way in your cunt to adjust, but marc is needy. the soaking heat of you is driving him crazy and he can't stand the thought of you not moving for even a second so he anchors you in place and pounds up, literally just holding you over him like a toy for him to fuck and fill with his spend 😌

needless to say you definitely accomplish your mission by the time you've drained his balls--he's so far out of his head he doesn't even remember what the mission was about

#clarke answers #sinful sunday #marc spector x reader #marc spector headcanon #marc spector smut #moon knight x reader

[savingthrcw]

“It’s bleeding quite badly.” (to clarke from Abby) @multi-royalty [going with the after s3 au with no Praimfaya yet]

She hadn't even noticed. Clarke's shoulders slumped at the realization that Bellamy was right and she was working a little too hard these days, to the point of not investigating the headache - but with Rohan in command now it was the best chance to forge a permanent coalition that went beyond not killing each other, and Clarke wanted to make sure they'd have their best chance, which was why she needed to keep trying. And she was getting distracted again. "You are right." The spot where they had removed the Flame hadn't healed well, for more than one reason, and she decided she could take five minutes to make her mom feel better, so she added: "It's nothing major. The neck wound reopened, you know how they bleed. I have a med-kit right here, if you want to check?"

#clarke: -bleeding basly - also clarke: fiiiine you can stitch it up again but I'm only caring because it's you #multi royalty #multiroyalty #clarke thread; #clarke answers #answered

[blushedfemme]

Any advise on how to flirt as a femme?? I’m talking to someone rn and don’t know how flirt :(

okay i tried to warn you all that i’m NOT very good at flirting but i will attempt to offer some advice specific to femmes!! i assume you’re flirting with butches because as a femme4butch my blog is mainly oriented to that, so here goes:

compliment butch aspects of their appearance. it will stick out as more flirty than something generic. if you are complimenting a jacket or pin, reach out and touch it lightly, then pull your hand away after a couple seconds and gauge their reaction

give them opportunities to help you or perform butch chivalry for you. graciously accept any offers of assistance with “thank you, that would be lovely” and a warm smile. trying to not be a burden and pulling out the “oh no i got it, i don’t wanna bother you!” will come across as cold at best and mildly insulting at worst, and will not get you anywhere on the flirting front

take any excuse to touch them or get close to them, ideally asking first, “oh your collar is crooked, can i fix it?” (whether or not their collar is actually crooked 😉)

ask about what’s important to them and remember the little details! my memory is shit so if i’m in a talking stage with someone i will often write things down (their hobbies, interests, likes/dislikes) anything i can bring up later to make them feel seen and to convey my interest

also asking for “help” picking out outfits and sending them cute fit pics can be a fun way to flirt over text. it also shows you value their opinion! and it may encourage them to do the same, which gives you an opening to compliment them (see first point)

when getting to know someone you’re mostly getting to know how they see themselves. consciously or not people will talk about the aspects of themselves they like the most when flirting, and they also might apologetically/self-deprecatingly bring up the aspects they don’t like about themselves, too. this isn’t exactly advice it’s just something i like to be aware of, on both sides of a flirting scenario. i try to pay attention to the positive things they see in themselves and affirm those traits whenever it feels natural

i feel like it’s easy to think that flirting has to be a constant stream of witty banter like we see in movies and shows and while that can be fun for sure, most people are NOT good at that, and for some it could even be a turn off. (it certainly is for me.) maybe it’s the autism talking but i think showing genuine interest in their interests and telling them straight up what you like about them, both physical and personality traits, are perfectly legit flirting methods. i hope you find this helpful, anon, and i’m rooting for you!! 💕☺️

#clarke answers #ask a femme

[blushedfemme]

pls get garter belts and stockings 🥺 the dresses you already wear with those 😵‍💫 god you'd have me and every other butch on their knees for you begging to taste you as we hold onto your belts and thighs 🤤 you'd look so pretty in them, ma'am - 🩵 (if it's still up for grabs, l'm also the anon eagerly awaiting for more of your soft giggles and pretty "good boy" audios)

was too lazy to put on a dress, but… like this? 😘

#clarke answers #she blushes #it took every last one of my brain cells to figure out how to get this damn thing on #🩵 anon #and thank youuu you’re so sweet 💕😚

[blushedfemme]

Ok but forcebutching yourself a housewife. Signed, a Dyke with Needs 🤠

ohhh um. yeah. yeah yeah yeah

courting and winning a sweet dyke who wears femininity like a hand-me-down dress that doesn’t fit quite right, who’s so heart eyes for me they’ll do anything i ask.

we move in together and it just makes sense for them to stay at home, as i make plenty of money for us both, and maybe they’re ‘looking’ for a job but i’m slowly, sweetly pressuring them to give up the search and accept that their role is to keep house. they’re so good at it, after all, they’re such an excellent cook, they’re handy, good at fixing things, tidy and organized, and above all they make me feel so taken care of. when i walk in the door and they’re ready to catch my coat as i shrug it off my shoulders, to kneel and take off my shoes, then pop back up to fetch me a drink and hand it to me as i settle into my favorite chair and put my feet up…

and as they grow accustomed to their role, it’s only natural that the old trappings of femininity fall by the wayside. it’s simply practical to cut their hair short so it doesn’t fall in their eyes as they clean and do projects around the house. why should they bother to put on any makeup? why shave? why not focus instead on working out in our home gym so it’s easier to do heavy lifting when the home improvement project calls for it? and if i should subtly encourage all these things, i’m only looking out for what’s best for them…

since i control the finances, i make the final call when it comes to clothes shopping. i dress them according to my preference- button-downs and slacks and maybe a nice suit jacket for formalwear, tank tops and cargo shorts for yard work, vests, ties, plain black or white t shirts and well-fitting jeans that give them such a nice masculine silhouette…. and they know better than to question my choices. they notice my lingering eyes in approval, how well these clothes suit their natural mannerisms, how much more comfortable they feel, and it only solidifies their role and service to me on an even deeper level. i dress them for date nights and they don’t argue when their old girly clothes vanish in a goodwill run. they look to me in awe and perfect submission, my devoted housebutch, sculpted in my vision and so eager to please me.

#clarke answers #forcebutch #it’s tough for me to get inspiration/ideas for forcebutch content ty anon <333 #loveeee this btw ideal scenario god #housewife kink #househusband kink

[blushedfemme]

What books/etc. would you recommend for learning more about stone identity? I've wondered about wether I might be a stone top for at least a year now, but the thing is I'm a transfem butch. It's been a bit tricky to figure out because I so rarely see stone identity discussed from that perspective, it feels like I have to translate things.

hi!! ☺️ sorry it took me a minute to answer, i had to set aside some time to look into this. unfortunately, i’ve searched high and low for writings on stone identity from trans women and transfems and have not had much luck. i’ve found several promising links, only to follow them and find the original post was deleted.

i found this reddit thread that doesn’t have much but i’ll still link it

here is a cool blogpost (not written by a trans woman or transfem) but which talks a bit about trans women, and has an excerpt from a stone trans woman’s tumblr post that has since been deleted:

in terms of books, there’s an excellent essay in Persistence: All Ways Butch and Femme called “Changed Sex. Grew Boobs. Started Wearing a Tie.” by butch trans woman Amy Fox, but it’s not about stone identity.

truth be told, there’s not much stone literature to start with, at least that i’ve been able to find, apart from the touchstone that is Stone Butch Blues. honestly this whole frustrating research experience is making me want to do something about it. like make a zine about stone identity and ask for contributions from stone butch transfems… (not that i know the first thing about making zines)

BUT the good news: i know several very cool transfem stone butches, i’ve gotten permission to tag two of them here, as folks you can reach out to: @2pretty-2butch and @butch-with-a-deep-voice. if any other transfem stone butches would like to be tagged here please reply to this post or dm me!! 💖

#clarke answers #stone identity

[blushedfemme]

🪓 here, been awhile sorry, the mention of forced pumping bottom growth triggered something feral in my brain as a butch on t

I'd never even considered it before but being forced to sit and get pumped, not allowed to touch but I wouldn't even need to be restrained (as much as I'd enjoy getting collared), I'm too eager to follow orders and let a femme do whatever they want to me

oh, i wouldn’t collar you because you need to be restrained, i’d do it so i can hook my pretty manicured finger in the loop of your collar and tug your head down, ordering you to watch yourself growing for me, look how hard you can get now, all swollen and throbbing. telling you this is how i want you all the time. not only does it make you so fun to play with, it keeps you obedient and desperate for me. pumping your bottom growth daily because you’re just made to be my perfect docile butch fucktoy

and yes of course you can’t touch yourself, that’s too easy. i decide how and when you get off 🥰

#clarke answers #god help me im so fucking wet for this concept 🫣🙈 #🪓 anon #force masc #forcemasc #forcebutch

[blushedfemme]

i’ve been contemplating taking the leap into being butch lately but it would be soooo much easier if a pretty femme like you could forcebutch a nerdy dyke like me since i can’t make up my mind 😵‍💫

oh nerdy butches are my favorite 🥰 it would be sooo fun to forcebutch you, mostly because it wouldn’t take much force at all… just a little manipulation here and there, batting my lashes at the right moments, a few subtle comments on my part. maybe pointing out the butch-coded characters in your favorite media, saying “wow, you’re just like them!” to watch you blush furiously and fight a smile. soooo cute~

and i’d take any chance to mention how much i adore old-fashioned chivalry and courting behavior, how i love collared shirts because it’s so easy to grab them and pull the wearer into a kiss. you take the hint, and as a reward i’d gift you a musky cologne or a classic watch or maybe a bulky thrifted jacket…

and the best part would be watching all your hesitation melt away. it’s no match for your eagerness to please me, the fire that burns in you under my appreciative gaze, my admiring touches. you simply want to be what i want, and what i want just so happens to be the best possible version of you— as a butch 💓

#clarke answers #forcebutch #forcemasc #this is soooo late 😣 i dropped off the face of the earth for a bit there… hope you see this anon!!

[blushedfemme]

I can't get over those photos you posted 🥵🤤

You look so damn stunning. I have such a crush on you and god what I'd give for a chance to worship you (also I love your nails!!)

I'd do anything to see the bra harness you mentioned 🥺 please ma'am

- 🍯

oh what a sweet emoji befitting such a sweet anon 😘 since you asked so nicely….

#clarke answers #she blushes #it doesn’t fit me the best tbh and it’s a mess in the back so i kinda want a different one #or i need a leather working butch to fix it up for me *bats lashes* #🍯 anon

[blushedfemme]

What do you think of casual/non-sexual dominance, such as deciding what your sub will eat and ordering it for them? Or stuff like that

-🌲

oooh i’ve never thought about it but i’m intrigued, i don’t know about fully taking away someone’s choice (unless that’s something they really buzz off) but i LOVE the idea of being more dominant/assertive than my sub in public, i love being the one to talk to the server, or ask for directions, i love the idea of knowing my sub so well that i know what they’ll enjoy and “dragging” them to places accordingly. i love a more nurturing dominance of making sure a sub eats well and dresses for the weather, making them drink water, take vitamins, etc.

one of my biggest non-sexual dom fantasies is domming a sub into sleeping when they’ve been avoiding it, telling them to come sit with me on the couch and then soothing them with my voice and gentle head scratches until their head drops into my lap and they fall fast asleep. and it’s not like a somno thing at all, like i genuinely get turned on by the idea of helping someone get good rest 😂

#clarke answers #🌲 anon #do you guys think i’m weird for that be honest

[blushedfemme]

Dear goddess Clarke,

It’s been a while, but I still can’t stop thinking about that campy nurse situation… you say things that make me so hard I start aching and whimpering. Nothing makes my head emptier than your words.

Always,

-🐯

Ps. So now that the weather is getting warm what’s something you’d wear if I made you a picnic?

hi there, good to hear from you and so glad that my words are having their intended effect 😘 and calling me goddess, mm i think you deserve a reward…

soooo, what i might wear if a cute butch made me a picnic:

and yes i’m matching my panties to my nails, just high femme things y’know

i might need your help putting on sunscreen tho 🥺 i burn so easily, i need you to put it everywhere 🥺🥺

#clarke answers #wahhh i wanna go eat fruit and sandwiches in a park and get felt up 😤 #🐯 anon #btw i thrifted this shirt for $5 and bleach tie dyed it myself and i’m so proud lol #she blushes

[blushedfemme]

feels like a silly question as a stone butch, but...what do you like about being a stone femme? I am so outwardly focused when it comes to sex that I have a hard time seeing what the appeal could be. and I think me not getting it is also connected to how it is hard for me to think of my own stone as anything but selfishness. thank you ahead of time for your thoughts .

not a silly question in the least but a very very big one, i will try to put it into words as best as i can. i’m going to refer to stone femme as a bottom and stone butch as a top in this answer but stone femmes can be tops and stone butches can be bottoms!

for me being a stone femme is about trust and being fully, completely authentic during sex. i love that my stone requires me to ground myself in my body so that i can receive. i love being intentional and aware and blissfully awake. i love watching a stone butch partner feel pleasure through my pleasure. and i love finding all the subtle oblique ways i can give them pleasure too, through touch, voice, visuals, etc.

not to get too into it but before realizing i was a lesbian i had sex with men, and would dissociate hard without realizing that was what i was doing. i would watch the entire thing from outside my body. i thought this was normal. i offered blowjobs to try and delay or ‘get out of’ penetrative sex. it was the opposite of authenticity and showing up as myself. even though i was fully consenting to these interactions (deeeeep in comphet) i was terrified of their pleasure and even more terrified of my own.

coming into my own as a lesbian and as a stone femme is the antithesis of that and incredibly healing to me. i feel like myself during sex. and on a more physical level, when i’m safe and grounded in my body and communicating with a partner? it feels so good to receive. penetration feels aMAZing. i can understand why you might think your stone is selfish, i’ve had the same fears myself, but it absolutely isn’t. it’s beautiful and complex and to the people who get it (whether they’re stone femmes or just really cool about it) it’s nothing less than a gift. 💖 i am so incredibly grateful for stone butches because they’re able to show up during sex in a way that intuitively makes sense to me, and they top me with an acute understanding of how serious it is to receive, even if they themselves have never done it and never will. that’s everything to me 🥰

#clarke answers #stone identity #ask a femme #stone femme #high femme

[blushedfemme]

now you have me thinking about all the ways i could find myself entangled in your pretty webs. put me to work until my muscles are exhausted and then rub my shoulders, get me stoned, fill me with a good meal until i’m too sleepy and pliable to notice you wrapping your silk around me

🪰

ohhh god oh my god this hit so many buttons for me you have no idea 🙈🙈😵‍💫

the thought of a butch doing some heavy manual labor as a favor to me, something dirty and requiring hours of toil, and once they’re finished i help them into a nice hot shower and soap up their sweaty body, scrub them down, rinse them off, wrap them in a fluffy warm towel and let them get into comfy clothes while i pack a bowl and prepare a nice hearty meal for them, and after smoking and eating they’re clean and warm and sated, their head pleasantly fuzzy. they’re not gonna fall asleep, they promise me with half-lidded eyes, and i smile and tell them of course not, but how about they just lay down in my cozy femme bed and let me massage them…. and barely five minutes into the massage they’ve fallen into a deep sleep, so deep they don’t even stir as i bind them up with soft silk scarves, ready for me to play with as soon as they wake up and realize their predicament

#clarke answers #🪰 anon #intox #intox tw #weed tw #somno #somno tw #dubcon tw