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blanketforcas · 9 months

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Heya, seeing some stuff on the dash this morning. I wouldn’t let it bother you, if you’re able to shake it off. There are a lot of really disturbing places on the internet and we can’t help that. But I know it’s easier said than done. When there’s a very negative encounter with someone else I know personally how hard it has affected me.

One time a woman yelled at me through her car window for playing my music too loud when I was depressed and I drove in silence for weeks after that. Seeing David Tennant as Killgrave was so freaky to me I wouldn’t watch David Tennant in anything else until a long time had passed. And seeing people focus their energy on and attack an actor I’ve always admired made me feel weird about Misha too, even when I know they’re human and have tried to be a good person.

Time fixed all of this, and also forgetting all about those people. I can’t and won’t help them and their unhappiness, but I can support the people who have always been there (even if I don’t interact with your posts much these days, I’ll always be an spn fan).

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Hang in there little tomato! 🌱🍅

aw that's a sweet message, thank you i appreciate it! ❤️ i'm okay though i promise :) i'm lucky not to have a lot of negative encounters in fandom apart from the copypastas from time to time but i usually just delete those and they're mostly silly

I think wrt reading stuff about actors, it's good to keep thinking critically about what you're reading and who is writing it. and indeed remember they are human so they will mess up sometimes and we shouldn't hold them to higher standards than we would our neighbour

#i also missed that about david tennant cause idk shit about marvel lol #but anyways glad to hear you're still a spn fan! you can never leave completely <3

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recoveringswag · 2 years

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Hey thanks for your blog, it means a lot to see the progress & also struggles of another ed recovering person because i often feel alone in this recovery (i did go see a nutritionist but it's very hard and my family doesn't know about this so...) ❤

Keep fighting ! We're gonna get through this 💫❣

P.s what does it mean when you say 'engaged in a behaviour', i don't get it...? (French person here ^^ )

Sending lots of love 🌱🐸

aww thank you so much. it helps me so much to see other people recovering and i'm glad i can also be that person for others. you've got this! i'm proud of you for seeing a nutritionist, i'm also in the same situation where my family has no idea so it's hard to effectively deal with my ed since i have virtually no support system. but !!!! we've got this WOOOO! just because it's hard doesn't mean it's impossible.

i use 'engage in a behavior' to mean 'when i do things that are definitely bad for me' or 'when i do things that are related to my ed/other mental health struggles.' i'm not really comfortable sharing details since a) they're very personal and b) i also don't think theyre entirely necessary. oftentimes too many details can be triggering and since eds are competitive anyways i want to be extra careful. so that's why i use a more vague term!

have a lovely lovely day <<<<3

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prxttypeony · 3 years

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Thank you very much for your kind words. 💙💗 You are so, so nice. 💗💗 I agree, everyone communicates and socialices differently and I think that's good thing. 😊 Because everyone is different, which is a good thing. 😊 I don't think my way of communicating or socialicing is wrong. But its probably also not gonna get me very far. My doctors and teachers aways told me that my social behavior is abnormal and weird and if I don't match it to the other (non-autistic) peoples behavior I will always stay alone. And while I think this is wrong to change someones personality, especially when the person don't want it, its technically seems to be the only chance I guess. The thing is I can't adapt most non-autistic behavior, its just impossible for me. I tried it for years. No idea how non-autistic people do all of the things they do, but from the outside it looks super stressful to be honest. 😅 And I also like the way I function. Yeah, I guess its pretty different from anyone around me, but don't think that's something bad. I wish the society wouldn't view being different in such a negative way. Because I think autism is actually a very good thing if people would be a bit more accepting of difference. 💫

I've met another autistic person a while ago. One of my old friends got in a relationship with him. And I was very excited, because I was hoping I finally found someone who had the same struggles with other people like I did. We did share some similarities, but he didn't struggle in the same way I did. He was able to build friendships. Actually he had a lot of friends. He also was able to build relationships and he said it was pretty easy for him to do all of that. He also didn't struggle at work, he could even work with customers. I know every autistic person is different. But when I realized that he was able to do all of this, even through he was also autistic it made me think: "If he can do it why can't I? What exactly is he doing, that I don't? " And I can't figure it out. And that's just super frustrating. :/ I wish there were like instructions that come with every human. That would be so helpful. 😃

Oh and also I wanted to say, thank you so much for letting me talk so much about animal crossing. 💙💗 But if I ever annoy you with it please let me know. 💙 Its one of my special interests, and my mom always says that I talk waaaay to much about it, and that it scares the people away. So if its ever to much, just let me know. 😊💙

What time of the day do you like the most and why?

Hope you have a very happy day 🦋🧚🏻‍♀️🍄🌱✨🌻

-Sonja🪐

I'm very sorry that your doctors and teachers said that to you. I don't think that's right at all to say 😔 I don't believe that neurodivergent people should have to live their lives 'masking' to conform to the neurotypical standard of society. I think it's a very backwards way of thinking to put so much pressure on people to conform to a 'norm'. The focus should be much more on providing accessibility and support, rather than trying to change something that isn't even wrong. I'm glad society as a whole is slowly becoming more understanding and accepting of neurodivergence but I still think there is a lot more that needs to be done and it really frustrates me sometimes (especially hearing medical professionals having such rubbish viewpoints) 😓

I can only begin to imagine how frustrating it would be to be in that situation. I wish I could offer some sort of advice or help in some sort of way. All I can say is that as far as I can tell, you're wonderful to interact with and are most definitely a joy to anyone who has you in their life. I think you need to be a little more gentle on yourself and give yourself a bit more credit for how well you're doing 🌻 (Although I must say, I too would love for people to come with instruction manuals and probably some warning labels for some lol - that would make life so much easier 😅)

Aww I don't mind you talking about animal crossing at all! I appreciate your consideration, but really, please don't worry about it! I love hearing people talk about things they're passionate about and that they love and are interested in. Animal crossing has also been a pretty big thing in my life too so it's nice to share my love for it with someone 🥰

I adore the time in the early evening when the sun is almost completely set and the sky turns a gorgeous shade of pink 🥰😍 Hearing all the birds settling into their spots in the trees, crickets chirping and frogs croaking is also so lovely and peaceful~ It's just a very relaxing and dreamy time of day. Do you have a preferred time of day?

I hope you and all your cute little critters are doing well 💖

#ask #Sonja #🪐#if you could have one fantasy feature what would it be? (like horns or tail or fangs etc)

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