#but then when you have a societally ~feminine~ name like rosie that makes people go OH THATS A SHE/HER NAME

[bbeelzemon]

mm the only downside to having a name like rosie is that people who dont know you always default to she/her fhgshsdh

#i dont MIND she/her or else id specify that. but its annoying that its like. my -default- apparently #im a very selfish and self centered person. i like using any pronouns because then i get to see how other people want to refer to me >:3c #it hits that 'being perceived' box that i treasure so dearly #but then when you have a societally ~feminine~ name like rosie that makes people go OH THATS A SHE/HER NAME #like honey if you dont know me then dont refer to me at all JSFHJSHSJDGFHSJG THATS SO MEAN FSHJSDG #me when my friends call me she/her: :D ^-^ <3 #me when someone i dont know calls me she/her: >:/ #also if you read this dont feel like you have to stop referring to me with that! its just annoying when it comes from strangers who just Ass #hehe the tag cut off perfectly #i was gonna say when it comes from strangers who just Assume that because my name is rosie i MUST use she/her #like you know they didnt read my bio or nothin! etc #names =/= gender =/= pronouns!! #if you know me and perceive me as she/her thats cool.. if you dont know me and just assume i use she/her by default.. stop doing that maype #this post is specifically referring to a (not friendgroup related!!) discord server a friend of mine and i are in #i dont think i would ever be bothered by anyone who follows me here referring to me with she/her! #its just strangers tbh LOL #if you are friends or acquaintances with me and refer to me as she/her? PERFECT please keep talking about me you are fueling my ego