#but generally if anything i’m finding it easier to navigate social spaces as a fat person

[housecow]

Any reactions from friends or family? Do you notice yourself being treated differently or judged as you get bigger?

ooooh i love talking about this.. i haven’t gotten a single reaction from family or friends!! and i’m 20lbs past my previous heaviest, so… haha i’m honestly just very lucky, they’ve never commented much on my body or anything?? as a teen i think it was painfully obvious how uncomfortable i as with my boobs, so that may be part of why :))

the only comment i got was years ago when my gma just said “300 comes fast” and i could tell she regretted saying anything… ANYWAYS hope she’s right hehe :3

as for being treated differently… certain things are different?? it largely depends on how i present myself, lol. with a cute outfit/hair/makeup or whatever i get treated very well still, but like. a t-shirt and baggy jeans and a chubby round face w minimal makeup bc im on my period?? people sometimes don’t make eye contact lmfao

on the other hand, sometimes there are ppl who treat me VERY well when i’m looking especially chubby/fat and i always kinda wonder…

#ask #talk #i’ve had interesting experiences back to back #but generally if anything i’m finding it easier to navigate social spaces as a fat person #i just feel more confident the bigger i get maybe idk #and i’ve been told im v charismatic >:)) #i get bitches because i talk about fossils and plants too much #OH and if anyone actually reads my tags #my gma was 300lbs+ at one point and has since lost it all and kept it off #my goal is to be the biggest in my family by far